Attraction is not a static thing. That’s the truth. A woman is either feeling more and more of it
for you, or she is feeling less and less.

It NEVER stays the same.

So you have to ask yourself a question: Which do you prefer, a woman feeling she is ”settling” for you for “practical” reasons and her att raction thus eroding for you day by day, or a woman feeling that she MUST HAVE you?
In the real world, att raction doesn’t care about the politically correct b.s. definition of it. Ultimately, REAL att raction feels like a NEED, it’s not some kind of thing that is “nice” to have. It feels as if you NEED it.
THAT’S what att raction is.

When you feel MASSIVE att ractION for a woman, it’s not some kind of, “oh that is nice” feeling. It’s A HECK OF A LOT more than that. And THAT’S what you want women to feel for you.

So, if you are going to actually make a woman FEEL this level of att raction, you have to first understand just where the BAR is in terms of what IS a confident secure fun intriguing guy.
Because of the ocean of guys who still kiss up to women, her mind’s default setting is set to politely and quickly vaporize all guys who approach her. The only way you are going to overpower that setting is if your behaviour and style clearly and immediately indicate that there is something very different about you, in a cool way.

I want to put an END to any notion that you can get the kind of results you want with only a half-assed attitude about this stuff.

It’s really important to realize the full REALITY of an att ractive woman.

The REALITY of having infinite guys WORSHIP her and willing to SERVE her and TAKE abuse from her. And the EFFECT that has on a woman in terms of what is att ractive to her. You have to be in the same reality to understand it, which is what actually ultimately happens when you get good at this stuff.

Guys keep giving WOMEN what GUYS would want, in the typical guys’ frame of scarcity and desperation.
But this is like giving SALTY PRETZELS instead of water to a man dying of THIRST, and then wondering why he doesn’t seem to appreciate it.

Women are EMOTIONALLY DYING OF THIRST for some masculine confidence, wit, humor, and leadership, as well as for some sexual tension, unpredictability, intrigue, fun, and excitement.

Instead, guys are giving women the opposite, because as guys they want assurance, permanence, and reliability, since they have been dunked in the matrix illusion of “scarcity of women” and the matrix illusion that as men they don’t have the same intrinsic worth in society as women.

And even when guys DO hear solid advice, such as “be like women” in the sense of being hard to get, guys do it wrong, because they are doing it with the wrong INTENT.

They are doing it almost with a sense of ANGER. As if they are “getting back” at women, as if it’s tit for tat.
IT’S NOT ABOUT THAT AT ALL. When you do it like that, you are totally INCONGRUENT with what attraction IS.
Attraction is about SUPERIORITY.

How the heck can someone who is SUPERIOR get UPSET at someone INFERIOR?

Does the GENERAL worry about the remarks of some guy ranked as just a private?

That’s why although att raction ultimately IS about perceived superiority, the irony is that to ACHIEVE this EFFECTIVELY, you have to not even FEEL there is a power gap between you and a woman to begin with.
Otherwise, your emotions will give you away in infinite micro expressions and forms of body language, and your emotions will betray you by the way you live your life.

She will see that you are actually bitter, etc.

Remember, the REAL power of attraction rests in its SUBTLETIES, from the way you dress, to the comfort you have with being sexual, to the sense of humor you have, to the way your voice projects, to the very way you MOVE.
Think about it: When you are totally under control and relaxed and confident, you speak and move with less hurried rush and you never run out of “things to say” . In fact, it seems bizarre to even worry of ”having things to say”. You start to realize that your secure, inspired, or fun mood is what is fueling your ability to have a great conversation, enabling you to access all the parts of your mind that give you infinite ”material”.

You also start to realize that this vibe you are giving off results in “energy-return” from the woman, as you and her ping-pong the energy/vibes/conversation back and forth, each of you enjoying this interaction.

So if you saw a woman you were interested in, you wouldn’t feel it’s some kind of RACE or some kind of CONTEST.
You would roll up casual and laid back, and your conversation wouldn’t be about trying to MAKE anything happen, but rather about reflecting your inner vibes, mood, state, etc.

One of the most important elements of high level ”game” is simply a byproduct of who you ARE. Once you are ARE in the right state, quality “game” is the uninterrupted flow of your own mood and energy outwards.

Quality “game” however is ALSO about understanding some important things about women and female culture so that you understand the real critical issues they need to know that you are aware of, and quality ”game” is ALSO about understanding HUMAN EMOTION in general, including YOUR OWN emotions.

The result of quality “game” is that you wouldn’t be afraid to say something NICE to a woman when you FELT it, but you would also not be NEEDY for a woman who was hot, so complimenting her on her LOOKS would instinctively not be the first thing that you did. This idea of not kissing up to a woman based on her looks would be instinctive to you, you would not even feel the emotional desire or impulse to focus too much on her looks. It’s the neediness and scarcity and lack of perspective that creates these wrong behaviours in the first place.

And if you saw she was really into you, which she most likely would be as a result of all this, you wouldn’t feel the need to ROB HER of the pleasure of WONDERING about you, (which is what needy guys do out of their fear of losing her) of the pleasure of not knowing everything about you, and of the pleasure of wondering if she “had” you or not.

You would UNDERSTAND that once you are secure in your own value, it’s actually FUN to not know right away that you “have” someone, and yet you would also know how far to push this and not to push this into the realm of the absurd, cruel, or just plain dorkyish.

In fact, ALL of att raction FLOWS from the way you THINK, which is based on the way you see yourself and the world.