Most of us have been in an 'on n off' relationship basically due to some misunderstandings. It's obviously hard to find a lady or a man with 90% of ur taste. U quarrel once and seperation is activated.

Some people have listening ears, if u dont tell ur partner what u want or rather what he does wrong u dont expect him/her to be a mind reader. The moment u start thinking your partner is or should be a mind reader, that becomes the beginning of a sour relationship. As we already know, All men have ego. Telling ur man he's wrong in anyway might trigger the animal in him.

Possible ways of blending such corrections in conversations:

#1 After a feud
Your partner might decide to apologise after a feud and and promising it wont happn again. This is the best time to tell your partner his/her flaws without picking offences. Whatever bothers u is expected to be said but in a polite manner and not in public.

#2 when he/she is happy and chatty with u.
U don't need to express how disgruntled u are for your partner to know u are serious, in a relationship both party are very sensitive, so tell politely like its something u can condone but a change would be better. The way u talk to your partner determine how he/she responds but mind u no matter how harsh some men may respond, keep mute, don't argue with him, he will surely think about it.

Learn to understand your partners before concluding he/she is not the right person. Not all men or women knows how to act in a relationship. Sometimes, educating your partner directly helps more than asking his/her friends to do that for u.

Above all, one should know what he/she can condone before going into marriage. Some people cant just change. What u cant condone in a man might be something another woman won't mind. Don't judge yourself according to your friends perfect-like relationship.