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What i Need To Know Before Starting That Relationship by mzPtgemini: 1:14am On Jan 03, 2015 |
About starting a new relationship and its d first time am starting a new relationship. Is it important to know how many times he had s.ex with his previous partner, especially if its just one person ![]() What are the basic things u need to know? Plus I have a pretty dark past and I want to be honest, but am scared of opening up.. Don't just view constructive comments needed! |
Re: What i Need To Know Before Starting That Relationship by dannydaniels(m): 1:20am On Jan 03, 2015 |
lekwenu ajuju.....if he tells u he had se.x with d past gf 121 times will u still continue??... op leave the past and face d future...THIS IS 2015 |
Re: What i Need To Know Before Starting That Relationship by mzPtgemini: 1:22am On Jan 03, 2015 |
dannydaniels:Does it change anything? If he now really doesn't want to engage in premarital sex |
Re: What i Need To Know Before Starting That Relationship by Oluwatosean(m): 1:59am On Jan 03, 2015 |
why do u care abt his past since u urself have a pretty dark past? |
Re: What i Need To Know Before Starting That Relationship by peter(m): 3:57am On Jan 03, 2015 |
Oluwatosean: Oluwatosean:. cool |
Re: What i Need To Know Before Starting That Relationship by Nobody: 4:55am On Jan 03, 2015 |
what is the purpose of knowing the number of time he had sex with his ex...and is he suppose to be counting it? |
Re: What i Need To Know Before Starting That Relationship by tpia99: 5:03am On Jan 03, 2015 |
mzPtgemini: you folks are scary. |
Re: What i Need To Know Before Starting That Relationship by tpia99: 5:04am On Jan 03, 2015 |
[img]http://2.bp..com/-B4feeZ1Tzxo/TcPpBFNr2AI/AAAAAAAAAKw/S6pch3amq7k/s500/sex-counter.jpg[/img] oh, didn't know the technology is already out, I guess I need to keep up with current fads. |
Re: What i Need To Know Before Starting That Relationship by Nobody: 5:36am On Jan 03, 2015 |
Me thinks what you have here is a very nice and thoughtful thread. So many persons start up relationships for very wrong reasons which culminate in them having very sad experiences because in their haste to keep up with their peers, they forget to ask what I regard to be basic questions about the individual they want to have a relationship with. For me, every romantic relationship should as a matter of necessity have marriage in view. To this effect, it is important that the dating process, which I believe should precede any commitment to a relationship, should be an integral part of getting to know the basic information about an individual. In order not to make this too long, I will go right ahead to list out some important information, I believe, you need ask your prospective bf or gf, considering the peculiarities of the country we live in and culture of Nigerians. 1) The state the person is from, down to the LGA and village. 2) The persons family. 3) The genotype of the individual. 4) The person's religion. 5) The birth position of the individual for the Ada's 6) The nature of the individual's job. 7) The individual's likes and dislikes. 8. Etc It is impractical to get all the much needed basic information on one date. If you like the person you may want to have several other dates in order to get to know more about him or her before making a commitment. Please note that it is important to ask questions and insist on sincerity without making your date uncomfortable or make it sound like he or she is being interviewed formally. Dating is meant to be fun. 1 Like |
Re: What i Need To Know Before Starting That Relationship by mzPtgemini: 11:56pm On Jan 03, 2015 |
striktlymi: Nice writeup, most of us have lost sight of what is really important.... |
Re: What i Need To Know Before Starting That Relationship by mzPtgemini: 12:01am On Jan 04, 2015 |
tpia99: Lol... U find people asking such questions, |
Re: What i Need To Know Before Starting That Relationship by tpia1000: 12:07am On Jan 04, 2015 |
mzPtgemini: not normal. |
Re: What i Need To Know Before Starting That Relationship by mzPtgemini: 12:17am On Jan 04, 2015 |
tpia1000: True but a guy wanted to know how many times I had had s.ex to be able to form his opinion of me...in a relationship that was going to be a no se.x relationship |
Re: What i Need To Know Before Starting That Relationship by tpia1000: 12:54am On Jan 04, 2015 |
did he know how many times you'd had sex? it used to be people asked how many partners, but I guess now its different. |
Re: What i Need To Know Before Starting That Relationship by mzPtgemini: 1:00am On Jan 04, 2015 |
tpia1000: Nope, and my tots exactly on d partner tin... |
Re: What i Need To Know Before Starting That Relationship by tpia1000: 1:06am On Jan 04, 2015 |
if he did not know, then why did he ask for the information? ![]() |
Re: What i Need To Know Before Starting That Relationship by Ikaosunwon(m): 8:55am On Jan 04, 2015 |
mzPtgemini: That is a childish question. He won't come up with anything good with dat question alone. That aside, how old are u & why do u want to start a relationship? But to be in a thriving & sustainable relationship. These are some questions u need to ask urself first & ur partner as the relationship begins. 1. what are ur short term goals? 2. What are ur long term goals? 3. What are ur views abt relationship (e.g relationship with his father, mother, colleague, God, siblings, co-wokers, an ordinary man on d streets, friends.......& so on) 4.What do u think u about me? 5. What do u feel about me? 6. ETC 2 Likes |
Re: What i Need To Know Before Starting That Relationship by mzPtgemini: 2:53pm On Jan 04, 2015 |
Ikaosunwon: Am quite of age, above 20. Well we have established some of the questions you stated above. Thanks a lot. But I think it won't work out anyways. |
Re: What i Need To Know Before Starting That Relationship by Ikaosunwon(m): 7:45pm On Jan 04, 2015 |
mzPtgemini:Oh! I see, above 20 right? If I may ask u, what is the essence of a relationship? |
Re: What i Need To Know Before Starting That Relationship by mzPtgemini: 7:51pm On Jan 04, 2015 |
Ikaosunwon:Lol companionship nd I tink its d tin dat preceeds marriage ![]() |
Re: What i Need To Know Before Starting That Relationship by Nobody: 10:27pm On Jan 04, 2015 |
this isn't so difficult nah. if it's going to lead to marriage plus study him well b4 divulging ur dark past. if it's not gonna lead to marriage then pls feel free to lie about ur past. |
Re: What i Need To Know Before Starting That Relationship by mzPtgemini: 10:51pm On Jan 04, 2015 |
Prixus:Lols, thanks jare! I am just of this crazy idea that people should learn to accept where people have been, and accept the changes they have made becos u weren't walking in their shoes... |
Re: What i Need To Know Before Starting That Relationship by Nobody: 11:15pm On Jan 04, 2015 |
dannydaniels:ou talk well broda |
Re: What i Need To Know Before Starting That Relationship by Ikaosunwon(m): 7:36am On Jan 05, 2015 |
mzPtgemini:It is not abt thinking it will preceeds to marriage. It is clear fact, it is a ''ship'' that has direction. So the essence of a RELATIONSHIP is MARRIAGE! Miss, are u ready for marriage? |
Re: What i Need To Know Before Starting That Relationship by mzPtgemini: 10:19pm On Jan 24, 2015 |
Who knows ![]() |
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