If you're a colleague of your bestfriend's wife, and you find out that she's having an affair with your boss or maybe you caught them doing it.
Is it proper to tell your bestfriend that his wife is seriously having an affair with your boss? Knowing that your boss would fire you if expose their secret.

It happened to a friend, please I need candid opinion(s).

plant the seeds.. let his IQ water it.

IMHO.

send signals. set up accidental meetings. use ur head guy.
if he isnt smart to see it.. dont bother.. cos somebody would always cheat on him

Some thing are better kept un-said. No wake dat dog wey dey sleep, atak gawd begew..

Ya kiddin me?? Sack u?..
Hw old is ya boss?
He must be a punk for datin a married woman in his own company.

4 ur friend, use style tel am say weda him no go lyk do DNA? Dats if dey ve got kids..

Marriage shud b redefined, it has change 4rm it course.

I think its beta d person kips shut if he doesnt ve concrete evidence, nd he myt end up loosin his job. The truth will definently cum to light, karma wil catch up wit dem.

SmithRussell:

If you're a colleague of your bestfriend's wife, and you find out that she's having an affair with your boss or maybe you caught them doing it.
Is it proper to tell your bestfriend that his wife is seriously having an affair with your boss? Knowing that your boss would fire you if expose their secret.

It happened to a friend, please I need candid opinion(s).

......dyaaamm, u g@y men juss never giv up....so u ask us if its ok to sleep wit yor friend husband coz he fire u??

....does nairaland looook like g@y website to u?....or does this place look like G@y advise center? (no oofeinse)

You know the kind Yemi Alade's song: Johny. We don catcham

Play smart, help the man to catch them but create smoke screen. If it is true, use an unknown number to intimate the hubby and keep mute.

By the way, do married women cheat? I think only girl friends do. Hahahahahahaha

Use an unknown number to call your friend and be discrete about it

Just send a signal to the wife to be that you know about the affair.

Create a scenario about such incidence to you friend and guage his reaction to know how he will handle it if being told the whole truth. Because we have different ways of absorbing those issues

You must first discuss the issue with her, and if she does not change, then it would be right to tell your friend.

MrCork:



......dyaaamm, u g@y men juss never giv up....so u ask us if its ok to sleep wit yor friend husband coz he fire u??

....does nairaland looook like g@y website to u?....or does this place look like G@y advise center? (no oofeinse)

Hey kid, run along

I don't know y people aren't smart. it's simple. make ur friend know without letting the boss know u ratted out on him. set the wife up n let ur husband catch them red-handed. but most important of all when u hv done any of these don't tell ur friend what to do next. ur own is to inform him while keeping ur job at the same time. that way no one can blame u for whatever happens.

SmithRussell:

If you're a colleague of your bestfriend's wife, and you find out that she's having an affair with your boss or maybe you caught them doing it.
Is it proper to tell your bestfriend that his wife is seriously having an affair with your boss? Knowing that your boss would fire you if expose their secret.

It happened to a friend, please I need candid opinion(s).

...it's like you love the status of unemployed.it's not your business to poke your nose into another man's affair when you know the state of employment and unemployment in the country..

Omotolu:
...it's like you love the status of unemployed.it's not your business to poke your nose into another man's affair when you know the state of employment and unemployment in the country..

I'm talkin abt a bestfriend dat is mor of like a brother. Okay, put urself in my shoes, if it were to b ur brother's wife, would u keep it a secret coz u wanna keep ur job?

SmithRussell:

I'm talkin abt a bestfriend dat is mor of like a brother. Okay, put urself in my shoes, if it were to b ur brother's wife, would u keep it a secret coz u wanna keep ur job?

...ok o.go tell him.wish you well.

Omotolu:
...ok o.go tell him.wish you well.

It's a trilemma, stil tryna figure out d 3rd option tho

SmithRussell:
It's a trilemma, stil tryna figure out d 3rd option tho

...there is no viable option than to keep mute.it's for your good-just pretend you see nothing...