How to take control of your life and accomplish your goals. Step 1: The word "Can't" should never be a part of any ones vocabulary. As we have known for centuries "Can't" means wont. A person has the power to do what ever they set their mind to do. Yes, there are always obstacles, set backs, and times of frustration. However, if you take one step at a time and really believe in yourself, you will find your life will change for the better. It is way too easy to give up. Giving up is a cop out, giving up will only harm one person "You". Step 2: It may take some people longer to achieve their dreams and goals, but better late than never. You may decide at age 40 that you want to become a Doctor. There is no reason that you can't go to medical school at age 40, age is only a number. Of course, circumstances can make it more difficult for some people however, where there is a will there is a way. Life is full of challenges that is what makes it worthwhile. Where would we be if life was too easy? Step 3: I have found that using positive reinforcement every day of your life helps a great deal. You need to tell yourself each day that you are the most important person and you will achieve your goals no matter what. Another piece of helpful advice, "Stay away from negative people". Negative people will try and make you feel inadequate and hurt your self-esteem. Keep smiling, there is a beautiful world out there and you are ready to conquer any thing that comes your way.

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