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I Need A Job And A Wife by Heisfaithful: 12:58pm On Jan 06, 2015 |
Hello N'landers, I am a graduate and an IT Support Specialist and had been looking for job for some years now, I'm an entrepreneur(Repair, Network, troubleshoot and install computer Systems). I am not getting any younger (early 30) and had resolve within me that I must marry and settle down this year. I had come across some good ladies but had been afraid to propose or have any serious relationship as I will like to provide for the needs of my woman and take good care of my family. I'm a good-looking, tall young man with good heart. heisfaithful2014@gmail.com |
Re: I Need A Job And A Wife by otanice(m): 1:11pm On Jan 06, 2015 |
Young man, be focus and get one first then the other follows, either of the two one can come first but not search for the two at the same time. Be careful for you not to be too selective in your choice of wife otherwise you will select and select and at the end of the day nothing to select again so be very careful with your selection.... 10 Likes |
Re: I Need A Job And A Wife by Heisfaithful: 1:18pm On Jan 06, 2015 |
otanice: Thanks, i need a wife pending when I get a decent job. |
Re: I Need A Job And A Wife by winnieG1(m): 1:50pm On Jan 06, 2015 |
heheehe, Where are the single ladies here? see husband with good prospect. 3 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: I Need A Job And A Wife by sholay2011(m): 2:18pm On Jan 06, 2015 |
Good luck. |
Re: I Need A Job And A Wife by Nobody: 2:57pm On Jan 06, 2015 |
Propose to the ones u said u are seeing and here wat they have to say. But it seems u want to marry the Kim kadarshian type hoping she can be your type of woman. It's not gonna work bro. If you want to marry d classy type, den remain focus till u get rich enough 2 takia of her. If you still wana marry ontime, den go for the type u can take care of. 3 Likes |
Re: I Need A Job And A Wife by Nobody: 3:03pm On Jan 06, 2015 |
I hope you get someone who will like you sincerely. It is very difficult. You may only get desperate girls with this. From experience. Just be watchful for those who will come to put you on an emotional limbo. But like they say also, possibilities are limitless. I also wish you all the best in your job search. 1 Like |
Re: I Need A Job And A Wife by Jinyjagz(m): 3:36pm On Jan 06, 2015 |
double wahala 4 dead body.....gudluck tho 1 Like |
Re: I Need A Job And A Wife by Hero10001: 3:42pm On Jan 06, 2015 |
Go make money now then marry later. Nobody loves a broke nigga. 8 Likes |
Re: I Need A Job And A Wife by Nobody: 3:42pm On Jan 06, 2015 |
ATOB: |
Re: I Need A Job And A Wife by armadeo(m): 3:55pm On Jan 06, 2015 |
wristwatch: This your moniker sha!!!! 2 Likes |
Re: I Need A Job And A Wife by crudedude(m): 4:01pm On Jan 06, 2015 |
Heisfaithful: I don't get this part seeing you are now looking for a wife. If you now meet a lady through this medium what next? get scared of serious relationships and chicken out again? no brah. You make that move like a man and be ready for whatever comes with it. Remember to invite us for your wedding 2 Likes |
Re: I Need A Job And A Wife by agarawu23(m): 4:26pm On Jan 06, 2015 |
Heisfaithful:you cant chase two things at a time wife or job? |
Re: I Need A Job And A Wife by sexaddict08(m): 4:32pm On Jan 06, 2015 |
u wont find any woman here......they all want ready-made husband.... 4 Likes |
Re: I Need A Job And A Wife by cirmuell(m): 4:38pm On Jan 06, 2015 |
Hmm! Eleyi gidigan Bro answer these questions within yourself... * Am I living comfortably myself? * Can I feed extra mouths with my present income? (wife & kid(s)) * Are there people that look up to you(dependent on you)? These are few things that if not sorted out properly can ruin your marriage really fast. As you may already know getting a lady in Nigeria, dat is ready to go through d rough&tough with U ain't no easy task, almost every lady want a made man, even the self-sufficient ones. Well, if luck played out well 4 you, U might find one dat'll love you for who you are. I understand that you feel you're nt getting younger, but marriage Dese days is nt something you rush into, U've got to really prepare for it(in every aspect), rate @ which people file for divorce lately is alarming. Get yourself sorted out first, get a decent job or take this present one to a new level, then you can settle for marriage. Live one step @ a time bro, there's no point rushing 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Need A Job And A Wife by akinsadeez(m): 5:08pm On Jan 06, 2015 |
You want to marry while you are still jobless? Bro that is a very bad proposition. Every woman wants to drop her 'iyawo' name for 'mummy somebody'. in other words every woman wants to be called by the name of her child not long after marriage. If your wife gets pregnant in the first year of marriage and you are still jobless, how do you intend to take care of her and the baby. That means your wife would probably be the bread winner of the family and that is a something I wouldnt wish or pray for you. Best advice, concentrate on getting a job. If you put all your efforts into getting a good job, you might be surprised that you might meet your future wife along the way. 5 Likes |
Re: I Need A Job And A Wife by Heisfaithful: 5:32pm On Jan 06, 2015 |
@all, Thanks for advice and reply, however, I do not mean that I'm jobless, As I stated in my 1st post, I am an IT / Computer Support Specialist (self employed). I earn some money which ordinarily will be able to carry me and my wife but I have a lot of responsibilities as my dad is no more. I have 2 younger ones in University before the demise of my dad and I would not want them to drop out as they are doing extremely well (both with CGPA of above 4.0). so I took up the responsibility and that had weighed me down financially. I planned that I will marry at most at the age of 30 but that did not happen. I'm seeking to find a more decent job that will pay me more as I do not have the capital to expand my business. 2 Likes |
Re: I Need A Job And A Wife by Nobody: 5:52pm On Jan 06, 2015 |
Heisfaithful:You have some years of experience, so keep abreast of job openings and tender your applications the best way you can. ...Elaborate your skills and experiences on your CV... When are your siblings graduating from Uni? you can leave getting a wife till they graduate or you get something better. .. Won't advise you marry a wife now when you can't shoulder the responsibilities. .Forget about your age, readiness is paramount. ..All the best as I pray you get help. .. 9 Likes |
Re: I Need A Job And A Wife by Heisfaithful: 5:57pm On Jan 06, 2015 |
MarvellousGod: Thanks, one is graduating this year |
Re: I Need A Job And A Wife by Nobody: 6:18pm On Jan 06, 2015 |
OK |
Re: I Need A Job And A Wife by kepstone: 7:41pm On Jan 06, 2015 |
Poster, pls pls n pls, b stable financially its importnt b4 u say I do, cos most of d marital problems comes from d financial aspect.. So put ur house in oda n trust God 2 giv u a gud wife dt will giv u peace. 1 Like |
Re: I Need A Job And A Wife by seunkeji5(f): 7:48pm On Jan 06, 2015 |
Heisfaithful: send me message and let me see if you really serious |
Re: I Need A Job And A Wife by Nobody: 8:54pm On Jan 06, 2015 |
I need a job and a husband too. |
Re: I Need A Job And A Wife by scarplanet(m): 9:06pm On Jan 06, 2015 |
seunkeji5: Finally a lady replies... better hit the nail on the head this time, and don't come back whinning about how you are scared to propose! Good luck and happy married life to you both 2 Likes |
Re: I Need A Job And A Wife by scarplanet(m): 9:09pm On Jan 06, 2015 |
missbronze:how will you be cool with any man that comes your way when you already see 99% men as as5holes? 2 Likes |
Re: I Need A Job And A Wife by adanduka: 9:16pm On Jan 06, 2015 |
CHOOSE ONE! |
Re: I Need A Job And A Wife by Nobody: 9:33pm On Jan 06, 2015 |
Heisfaithful:Get a stable job first before a wife, cos u really don't want to get married and see ur wife and children struggling for daily bread.... You could go into business, you don't need to wait for a white collared job.... My igbo brothers Understand how necessary it is to be made before marrying |
Re: I Need A Job And A Wife by winnieG1(m): 9:46pm On Jan 06, 2015 |
nma24: he already has job but needs more decent one Heisfaithful: |
Re: I Need A Job And A Wife by Nobody: 9:51pm On Jan 06, 2015 |
winnieG1:God will grant op his heart desires this year in Jesus name... Op I prophesy that this year is ur year!!! Can somebody Shout Amen 1 Like |
Re: I Need A Job And A Wife by bigx(m): 10:00pm On Jan 06, 2015 |
Entrepreneur looking for a job is an irony. Focus on one. Adding woman to the Matter is confusion Edit: Looking through your posts, you dont need Capital to expand your Business, Get rid of that Mindset. Go through this https://www.dropbox.com/s/b0dqnqo53ql9zx1/StickingPointSolution-D.pdf?dl=0 |
Re: I Need A Job And A Wife by scarplanet(m): 10:02pm On Jan 06, 2015 |
*in don jazzy's voice* where are you from nma24? |
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