u hv seen d person that has all d qualities u want in a man/woman.Both of u agree to marry.Must there be an HIV test b4 or after marriage? married people share ur experience so that we learn!

There is no BIG DEAL !

Are you serious no wonder no one answered your post.

Incase you don't know, you should get all your tests done before you marry someone.

@topic
MOST DEFINITELY BEFORE, Why would you trust someone to that extent? I have known of cases where men had tricked women into marrying them knowing fully they were infected. And these were church going people claiming to saved and sanctified.

No unprotected for me, married or NOT, until we both accompany each other to the lab. Sorry, I won't die in the name of "LOVE"

Before jare

.

@ CKC
 Fiancee means a woman to whom a man is engaged to be married and vice versa for fiance. The question now is should you be asking to know someone's sexual health or history after there is a level of commitment between you two. Think my child.

hiv test ke
hiv test ni

never
wetin person nor know nor dey kill am

190:

hiv test ke
hiv test ni

never
wetin person nor know nor dey kill am

may God no let ur mouth put u for where u no belong, ignorance is more deadly than hiv itself. go for the text befor marriage and if possible every 6months.

i think the test should be taken even before they start a serious relationship not only before marriage .
if u date someone for a while without protecting urself and all of a suden u want to get a test done before marriage then ur at loss. wisen up.

It is absolutely necessary to carry out the necessary test before marriage or any serious relationship. Asking your partner questions about her health status is not enough. Both of you should go to the lab together.

If you are wiser and have had reckless sexual behaviour in the past, the best you can do is to secretly go for the test and confirm your status before requesting your partner to accompany you.

Don't it (unprotected) if you have not done that test!!!!!!!