i read a post on reasons why one should date a shy or introvert girl and i totally disagree with most of the points,
so here is a counter thread to that topic.

HERE ARE THE TOP 7 REASONS TO GET OUT OF YOUR INTROVERTED BUBBLE AND DATE AN EXTROVERT. OR IF YOU’RE A JAY-Z TYPE, WHY YOU SHOULD BE LOOKING FOR YOUR BEYONCE. :

1. NO LACK OF CONVERSATION

Have you ever had one of those awkward moments on a first date where for a few minutes you can’t think of anything interesting to say, so you fill time with “So what kind of stuff are you into?” With an extrovert you’ll never have an awkward conversation. They have no shortage of stories to tell, hilarious situations to recount from their days and if they’re one of the good ones, they’ll know the right questions to make the convo balanced and reciprocal .(introverts will get you bored easily )

2. they are creative

imagine dating a girl who is creative and crafty extrovert girls are creative and crafty and they are always looking out for ways to spice up their relationships, unlike shy girls who always wait on their man to keep doing everything for them.

3. they are solution finders

you know extrovert girls are social, they've been exposed to the world and have experienced many life situations, hence they have solutions to virtually any problem that either she or her boyfriend might be in. unlike shy girls who are clueless and have little or no experience and even the little they may have, they always feel shy to share it with their partners. (they too get wahala)

4. they are socially presentable

extroverts find it easy to mingle and relate with people, they are audacious and are fluent speakers, unlike introverts who may to find it difficult to socialize and relate with your friends and family, and since they talk less, the tendency of them speaking fluently will be reasonably low (these kind girls fit disgrace you oh)

5.NO REGRETS
Having regrets is the biggest fear of a hardcore extrovert, hence they tend to look at the positive aspect of everything and This makes being in a relationship with them absolutely amazing. They will never look back and ask, “what if I had said this …” or “maybe if we had just done this instead …” they are always professional in what they do, They are unashamed to throw themselves into a situation, risking embarrassment or humiliation to save their relationships, because that is better than looking back and wishing they had done things differently.

6. NO MYSTERY FEELINGS

my favorite part of guys dating an extrovert is you"ll never wonder whats on your partner"s mind. There is an ease and simplicity to a relationship that isn’t built on assumptions and inferences or even intuition (which does come in handy occasionally). That’s how 90% of arguments and miscommunications start in relationships (warning: that is a completely fake statistic ). Difficult situations are made easier when partners are on the same page; and open conversation makes it so arguments are avoided completely or quickly bulldozed over and resolved.

7. THEY HAVE A BANGING SEX LIFE

this list wont be complete without this one oh! The main goal for sex is self expression and creating intimacy through action. So don’t expect things to follow a simple formulaic approach to sex, extroverts like to explore and try new things and see what positions or situations lead to deeper connections with each partner they’re with. That means better and more interesting sex. while an introvert will be shy to try various sex positions (they are bad kissers too )

feel free to add yours jare

cc:
japhet04
tosyne2much
naijaboiy
krall
elantraceey
heartmender7

hmmmm

Show some LOVE in FEBRUARY 14 and vote FEBUHARI

Girl na girl whether na bold or shy

HeartMender7:
hmmmm

heartmender space booking is not allowed here oh

which one you like? shy or bold?

- winsome5 -

alberto2k:
Lol
Counter-thread abi

*parks bus*
*climbs on top of it to observe clearly*

no hit person with your bus oh which one you like? shy girl or bold girl?

mods do the needful,, farano, seun

8. A QUICK AND PAINLESS (MAYBE) END
Because awkward situations and conversations are not something we avoid, I find that the end of a
relationship is much easier with other extroverts. We have the ability to say our piece and know that we
have done all we could have done. We face the most difficult parting conversations without fear. Not
always, I understand relationships are messy and each is complicated no matter what sort of temperament
your partner has. But the benefit of knowing exactly where you both stand on the relationship can make
parting ways more clear and easy to process. There are no lingering issues that can be fantasized into
saving graces, there are no open doors that need to be shut for closure. It’s kind of beautiful when done
right.




MODS the time is now....
do the needful...
FP material..

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NL and counter thread... issokay

Just date a girl dat suites ur personality... shy or not. bold or not #myopinion

winsome5:


no hit person with your bus oh which one you like? shy girl or bold girl?

Bold and troublesome like Ireneony

#I like girls who can give me a tough-time But also.. I won't woo/chase her for more than 1.3weeks, 2.6 weeks if she fine lyk mermaid, am full of principle but mehn... I can be like Chris Rock all day, like John legend the next day, and a quiet Alberto another day

alberto2k:


Bold and troublesome like Ireneony

#I like girls who can give me a tough-time But also.. I won't woo/chase her for more than 1.3weeks, 2.6 weeks if she fine lyk mermaid, am full of principle but mehn... I can be like Chris Rock all day, like John legend the next day, and a quiet Alberto another day

correct guy .... but if you love a girl, you should be ready to woo her until she agrees na, even if it will take 10 years for her to agree, just keep showing her how much you love her, remember, never you give up on the one you love

Preshochyx:
NL and counter thread... issokay

Just date a girl dat suites ur personality... shy or not. bold or not #myopinion

and which personaloty do you belong?

This craze must stop pls. I have resolved to date a rich girl/boy.

frodobee:
[s]This craze must stop pls. I have resolved to date a rich girl/boy.[/s]

why not be rich yourself sir?

Oya Counter Thread...
Seriously if i be man ehn... wetin go make me date introverts.
Who said extroverts aren't intelligent...Forget!! we are intelligent, though some of us aren't good at listening buh we find solution to a problem.... we aren't shy cos we face our challenges...
I bet you... if you break up wid your extrovert gurlfwend.. you gonna think bout her one day nd say "i miss that babe" she s jos too different

We don't pretend
We are highly romantic.. walai
we say things the way it is.. maybe that why they refer us as talkative
We know how to settle things when it outta hands due to our social confident.

sexymoma:
Oya Counter thread

Lol.

momma which one are you? shy or bold?

sexymoma:
Oya Counter thread

there's already a counter thread ma'am... Check FP

winsome5:


Lol.

momma which one are you? shy or bold?

#teamboldandlively

winsome5:


and which personaloty do you belong?

Introvert to an extent.. I party at will, drink occasionally, and talkative wen am with my friends. any personality (introvert/extrovert) can suite me

alberto2k:


Everything happens for a reason bae...
Before I made that principle

I once chased one girl lyk dat for over a year..
After so much "scoping" and showing her how much I loved her.. She never said "Yes"
Since then, I adapted that principle

And I know how to "turn it off"
So feelings ain't a problem

I understand u sha,, but at times it good we never give up on the ones we love.

- winsome5 -

sexymoma:
#teamboldandlively

how r u?

Hmm I think going for what suits you and what gives you the desired happiness is what really matters.

idu1:
how r u?

Cool

Hmmm I see, dis counter thread has Messi, Ronaldo and Ibrahimovic on the offensive.

Nice 1 OP

sexymoma:
#teamboldandlively

yes oh.. we rock!

winsome5

'...that is a totally fake statistics...' my type of girl!

Preshochyx:


Introvert to an extent.. I party at will, drink occasionally, and talkative wen am with my friends. any personality (introvert/extrovert) can suite me

funny you... well, I like you way sha

winsome5

winsome5:



funny you... well, I like you way sha

winsome5

thnx dear

henryblaze25:
Hmmm I see, dis counter thread has Messi, Ronaldo and Ibrahimovic on the offensive.

Nice 1 OP

thanks