Kachisbarbie:


No, don't tag me on this...why can't Nairalanders read a post and get the explicit/implicit meaning before commenting?

Now, the question is Does it matter in the long-run, should it be a priority?
*Yes it matters.
*No, it shouldn't be a priority.

Does it guarantee the success of your kids?
Nope, same way an ugly wife doesn't guarantee success of your kids either. On a second thought, some peeps beauty have been their claim to fame (stardom).

Does it sustain the home?
Yes/no.
There are men who tolerate their wives just because of her beauty.

Compatibility is what matters?
Oh, I laugh in swahili, if you ain't close to someone how do you know you're compatible?the question is, before you decided to come close what attracted you?

Would his friends continue to admire her?
Oh yes they would as long as she is packaged, my mum is 43 going on 44. Men still dey look.

prettyjo:
some people sef. #smh

Kachisbarbie:


No, don't tag me on this...why can't Nairalanders read a post and get the explicit/implicit meaning before commenting?

Now, the question is Does it matter in the long-run, should it be a priority?
*Yes it matters.
*No, it shouldn't be a priority.

Does it guarantee the success of your kids?
Nope, same way an ugly wife doesn't guarantee success of your kids either. On a second thought, some peeps beauty have been their claim to fame (stardom).

Does it sustain the home?
Yes/no.
There are men who tolerate their wives just because of her beauty.

Compatibility is what matters?
Oh, I laugh in swahili, if you ain't close to someone how do you know you're compatible?the question is, before you decided to come close what attracted you?

Would his friends continue to admire her?
Oh yes they would as long as she is packaged, my mum is 43 going on 44. Men still dey look.

chisco82:

At some point i want to agree with your analysis and logic but on a second thought i find it somehow wrong.
The question is "Does a beautiful wife really matter in marriage?
ie: should beauty be an important priority while choosing a wife?
Now your answer is saying that with all other qualities put in place without beauty, one should n't.
Well your opinion though.
But another question or point should be, "what is the Op's definition of beauty"
And you answer should be let us the young men marry someone that is presentable.
I believe that is what you mean.

urchbarbie:
Haba! This is one very strong comment. Kachi is just trying to make light of d topic. She is an intelligent gal cos av read most of her write ups and comments.

rabonni:
There is someone for everyone, the lady u may tag not good looking someone else is calling her a queen, what matters to me is the feeling not just appearance

sexyseun:
To all those saying marrying a beautiful wife secures d face of ur future baby is so false. If d gene of d handsome man is strong they will still produce beautiful baby and moreover some kids take d gene of their grandparents. I think compatibility should come first. I realised when you really like someone, d face of dat person becomes naturbally attractive

joseph1832:

When your mum is 75 let's see if men will still look! Your mum is still a young duh!.

What attracted me first? Her outstanding sense of humor and her ability to prove to me that she's more than just a 'pretty face!'.

There are some men who don't give a rats ass about their wife, even when she's pretty!. I know this for fact, because I see it almost everyday with my friends who are married to very beautiful dames, and I tell you, they're very beautiful and that's all they are, nothing more, nothing less!.

On second thought, some kids ugliness and resourcefulness has contributed to their success. Why do you think when a man is blind his other senses heighten?.

Why can't people know the difference between opinion and standard fact!?.

I tell you most of my friends who are married to pretty girls complain out rightly, the ones who don't, don't even care about their wives, they see them as trophies, might I add despite having pretty wives, they still fornicate like mad!.

On the long run, having a beautiful wife doesn't mean squat!. You should know there are some questions that simple "yes or no" doesn't quite answer them, such as this.

Anyway if you feel having a pretty wife matters, that's your cup of tea, know that if a man marries you just because you're beautiful facially, then when you stop being beautiful there's nothing stopping him from 'kicking you out'.

Now you are reinforcing the stereotype of focusing on the negatives...but then it's normal - conflicting opinions.
I am making my submissions based on a situation where all things are normal.
*I never said one should marry all because of beauty - never...no one should do such.

Lols @simple Yes/No. Truetalk though...I just wasn't ready to go into all those sneaky details then. I am still not ready now -my brain is on leave today

Wellsaidd @Chisco82
Even though you may have to point out to me where I succinctly implied that without beauty a marriage ain't propitious.

joseph1832:
My dear, you should know "sounding intelligent and being intelligent are two different things".

Ipledge:
Beauty is very very important in marriage...number one criteria in choosing a wife is beauty and other things follow


Imagine u woke in d middle of night and u can't afford to look at the face of the woman u paid her dowry

correctguy0900:


more like one has to live his life based on friends and people's approval. is d wife for u or for d fifu?

Tipzsy:
Ugly woman also have there own advantage. Atleast when you are with one @ night witch can't pressed you.

Mean no offends ladies.....lolssssss

valkaka:


hmmmm...you blowd evrytin out of proportion based on biased mindset.my dear,real men dont go for physical beauty alone...wen it cums to marriage.trust me dat ur physical beauty alone witout gud personality will only get u cheap n fake guys that will only pour cheap champaiqne in between ur thighs.sadly,we ve dis awful thing called ageing,you dnt wana mess with it.i compelled you to continue being choosy.

Gudluck!!

urchbarbie:
Hmmm! Strong 1 again. Can u help me draw d distinction?

okpamson15:
learning is everyday

Kachisbarbie:


Now you are reinforcing the stereotype of focusing on the negatives...but then it's normal - conflicting opinions.
I am making my submissions based on a situation where all things are normal.
*I never said one should marry all because of beauty - never...no one should do such.

Lols @simple Yes/No. Truetalk though...I just wasn't ready to go into all those sneaky details then. I am still not ready now -my brain is on leave today

Kachis.barbie:


we talking of beauty hah?
What were you expecting to see?
She would teach your kids assignment?
Most times I find it hard to decipher where to place you, dumb or intelligent

My dear the reasons you gave are gut wrenching myopic (no offense). Anyway I'll refrain some saying more 'cause I wouldn't want a repeat of what happened the last time.

prettyjo:
Dont be surprised that same guys who claim they dont like pretty girls will be sulking and admiring one.Who are they deceiving??
Say no to ugly guys#lolzzz.
Guys if you are ugly,please marry a beautiful lady to save the face of ur future kids. same thing is applicable to girls.Thanks

i know they would quote me but i dont even care.
*sips my green tea*

braine:
Even tho beauty is not the most important trait in a lady, it is a good advantage. Men usually like to show off their ladies. But then in the long run, it diminishes with time. It depends on how gracefully the lady ages tho. Some beautiful women use themselves anyhow when young like bleaching, tattooing etc, then they look horrible later..

Kachisbarbie:

The very next time - we may have to engage in a Battle of Traduce.
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Viciyus:
God save you say you no put your dp. I just dey pray for the man wer go marry you. Mumu

freshness2020:
Yes it does but I have come to notice that most married handsome guys end up marrying a not too beautiful ladies compared to when they were younger, where ♈όϋ will see them sampling all kinds of beauty but end up marrying the least ♈όϋ expected of him!