Bridgetown:


There are many women around the world who don't see their husband everyday yet they still keep faith in their marriage.
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This one is seeing her husband every day...big difference. Many women around the world with this problem would not be discussing it with their family members nor on social media...but would've either been in divorce court or more likely found lovers to take care of their needs.

jadelyn007:
Guys please chill! What do you expect me to tell her? To divorce him? She's the one who will lose, To talk to him? like she hasn't been talking all these years, to pray for him? Like we know how many sleepless praying nights she has had, to manage him like that? Like you know how frustrating an unsatisfying sex life can be. Madam, the easiest and safest option is to cheat discreetly, that way you can still keep your marriage and your sanity. Mind you, be very discreet and careful. You'll find a few women around who can refer a gigolo to you.

N.B: I know most of you that are forming sanctimonious on her case are the ones on the married men patronizing prostitutes thread supporting it so please, spare me!!! This is 2015.

Many of you men would do worse if it were you going through this.

Okay, I only find the bolded amusing. I do not support it.

elantraceey:


na he might not be , i think he's just those christians that take things too far.

There's no place bible said husband and wife shouldn't have sex. Maybe it's their church dogmatism and his wife should be aware of it since they attend together. What do you think?

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Originalsly:
This one is seeing her husband every day...big difference. Many women around the world with this problem would not be dis ussing it with their family members nor on social media...but would've either been in divorce court or more likely found a lover to take care of her needs.

My friend up to you. You can help her out.

Please don't quote me again. Bye.

The two of you should meet a marriage personnel Bt God himself establish sex for the fulfillment of marriage

Buying bagged goods is not always the best, you have to see what you are buying so you don't get a monkey at the price of a gorilla. If you were my friend I did tell you to get a Love Machine or keep binding and casting, whichever suits you. Divorce is more honorable than adultery, so don't think of fooling yourself in the name of satisfying transient urges.

If you guys were wedded in a church, I am sure you will remember when you vowed to stick to each other till death do you part. Four years down the line you are contemplating of divorce because the man's libido is low or his faith taught him to see sex differently.

That's the problem with marrying a V. You never know what he/she might become after all is said and done.

My sister, sex is overrated. Marriage is not all about sex. Sex is secondary in marriage but very important. If your hubby is less into sex than you, then I advise you to tone down your sexual appetite for now. You make sacrifices in marriage. Keep doing your best to be his wife and best friend. He belongs to a different and rare breed of men. At least, you don't have to worry like most women do.

I am happily married. Great wife and awesome children. I can't complain because our sex life is healthy from my own standpoint. lol. Do I go about thinking of sex the whole day? No. Do I count how many times it happens in a week? Nope.

When you are gainfully employed, with loads of things to do, sex becomes less important. As a young man, I equated sex to love. I wasn't your average nigerian in this field. I had more than my fair share, and then more. But as a married man, the last thing on my mind is sex. When bobos dey take over world economy?

Please sister, don't listen to anyone but yourself. If truly you got married at 27 as a V, then you have all you need to stay faithful. You probably created this scenario with your belief in staying intact till marriage. In other words, sex was no big deal as a single girl. Keep it that way as a married woman. Why change?

VickyyB:

There's no place bible said husband and wife shouldn't have sex. Maybe it's their church dogmatism and his wife should be aware of it since they attend together. What do you think?

i believe it's the way he was trained up , the typethat sees everything as sin and are trying to be perfect on their own but the thing is she must have noticed it before they married but ignored it .

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I thought I was conversing with a reasonable person n I never insulted u in anyway, we were just having an argument n then u resort 2 insults. That's my pointer 2 end this conversation as I won't resort to exchanging words with u.
Have a good day Sir.

VickyyB:

My husband can never behave like that.
I reject it.
Well, if he does, I don't have any problem but to accept it.

its either said than done

The woman is going through hell

Maybe ur husband is gay taken cover under religion.

Its best u start policing his moves and if he's not gay then see a counsellor or ur pastors ASAP.

sheddyboy:
Where are the moderators seun mukina mynd44 ishilove can we have lots of ideas on these pls.

Na only dem get brain
Watin do ur own

Ps- seen is not married sef

AmberQueen:



Wen a woman sees it from d same light,she will be criticized for not been sexually active...

Unfortunately, Yes, People need to jettison that mentality.

not you alone, every married woman is sex addict.

I think d man is matured for marriage b4 he entered into it. He doesnt understand what marriage entails
He tot he is doing the right thing even wen he is committing sin against God by denying his wife her right. This is the result of taking religion to the extreme

Seeeeee, ur husband is killing u gradually... Maybe u can meet Dr, Mrs. Bridget okoh. A psychologist in ABU Zaria on 32FD7EAF for advice.

sheddyboy:
i have a strong feeling that the husband is going through some hurdles in life, i want the woman to run a check to see if her husband is happy.. if he isn't happy, stress/depression could set in, where there is stress, certainly, there is lack of love.. and when the love is not there you will no longer find joy in anything you see or do, stress is good at sapping you dry of your energy.. she should concentrate on building a happy home through hard-work & everything will get back to normal.. she should also learn to encourage him, encouraging words might just be the medication he needs to recover. Modified.. All thanks to God & a nice appreciation to nairaland moderators, sign of a better year.. i'm happy i made fp.

You just said it all. But, wait ooo. Don't u think u can make a living out of this counselling. Your good @ it that's what i mean.

Now, wen duz guys wanted to help you b4 u get married "you say, se na only dem waka come", duz guys vex go crying "der is God o" while odas "continue". Now, your husband want to help your spiritual life, you say NO! Ok continue, this story iya sharing on nairaland..remember say der is God o..der is God o.

But seriously your husband might be fasting toward a particular aim, and he doesn't want "Sex" to be a pitfall

adanduka:


Do you think there's a virgin willing to marry you? Mtchewwwww

Hmmm... Talking panadol over another person's headach. Clap for yourself....

Don't cheat on him and don't divorce. Pray fervently on it and go to his pastor and narrate your ordeal to him. Tell the pastor that you are contemplating divorce; you will see that your man will change.

why in the world will I deny my wife sex, Is he gay? I think he is only using bible to cover face...

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Anyway I will thank God on your behalf that you did not die in silence

I will like to ask you the following question ;

Did you and your husband go for marriage seminar before getting married?

Are you sure your husband love you or it is a transfer or arranged marriage that you and your husband did together?

Then are you sure your husband is the owner of your two children or is he impotent? I will advise you to do DNA test first to check maybe your husband blood match your children blood

Then I will advice you to discuss the issue with a matured pastor or marriage counsellor to call you and your husband together for proper marriage counselling


I don't sure your husband know bible or what the bible talk about marriage with husband and wife

Then you as a wife am not sure you are smart enough for you not to know your husband weak point or sexual huge by staying four years together in marriage

Then I hope you do dress well
Neat
Do a clean shave
Nice underwear
Sexy pant
Looking good by making your hair
Then prepare good food for him cos I need to include this

If you did not lack all this your husband will change for good

Then I will advice you by saying your solution did not lies on cheating on your husband or divorcing him, you better wake up from your sleep and don't deceive yourself if solution A did not work solution B will work for you don't turn yourself to grandmother at home cos you have bore 2 kids okay always look good
If all this did not work commit your husband soul to prayer and buy a book for him to learn on how to handle marriage and sex affairs cos he lack knowledge or he is not exposed enough

I pray God will help your home remember a wise woman build her own house while a mad woman use her own hand to scatter her own house, your marriage is in your hand, take your brain along in any advice you read on Nairaland cos a word is enough for the wise and I know you suppose to be one of the wise one

The couple should see the marriage councilor.

Chuukwudi:




You will suffer!!!

amen!!!!1000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000times

jadelyn007:
my dear just cheat on him. Make sure you are really discreet about it an still give attention to you marriage. You can't live life constantly being starved of sex. Have a side guy Wishing you the best.

which advice be this one. Am very sure u are cheating on your husband.

[quote author=sheddyboy post=29627995][/quote]. I married my wife as a virgin, she dnt like sex, she dnt see it as pleasure but for procreation. Hw I wished I married a woman like u that like sex I would hve been more happier.

VickyyB:
Lol. He's not a sex freak while you are...
Thank your stars, that he's not a cheat.

Don't cheat on him. HIV is real!

What an advice from another religion-suppressed brain.
Anyway, mrs Ola can contact me for some sexual healing. She is a lon-suffering woman whose virginity has been rubbished by a pseudo-man!

Oduduwaboy:

What an advice from another religion-suppressed brain.
Anyway, mrs Ola can contact me for some sexual healing. She is a lon-suffering woman whose virginity has been rubbished by a pseudo-man!

Are you effing kidding me?
Dude, i wrote HIV is real not HELL is real.
Kini big deal if I'd written the latter. Mtcheew

Ebi4life:
. I married my wife as a virgin, she dnt like sex, she dnt see it as pleasure but for procreation. Hw I wished I married a woman like u that like sex I would hve been more happier.

Its clear that religion especally christianity is destroying the sexual health of our people. Na wa o!

VickyyB:

Are you effing kidding me?
Dude, i wrote HIV is real not HELL is real.
Kini big deal if I'd written the latter. Mtcheew

Sorry . I dont believe in your imaginary hell. That hell story is only for the weak-minded.