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My Girlfriend Is Too Proud by iampartyboy(m): 12:20pm On Jan 09, 2015 |
Please I need your advice. i've been dating my gf for 2years now and I do almost everything for her regarding her needs. one of the things she's always doing that's always getting me mad is "being too proud". Anytime I tried to correct her concerning her attitude she will still expect me to apologise to her. She feels too big to say the word "sorry". The last time she talked to me rudely I ended up warning her to mind the way she talks to me. Instead of her correcting herself she walked out on me and because of that we didn't talk for a while. The next message I received from her was that she's already made up her mind and she's tired of the relationship. I only replied "ok". For my church mind I knew she's still expecting me to come and say sorry to her which is not going to happen kuz i'm tired of her being so pompous as i've tried to correct her so many times but it seems she's not going to change but I still love her. Do you think I should let her go kuz it can't continue this way even if we're to come back together. Please advice me on this or is there something I'm not doing right? |
Re: My Girlfriend Is Too Proud by dazzlingd(m): 12:50pm On Jan 09, 2015 |
picture of ur gf before I comment 1 Like |
Re: My Girlfriend Is Too Proud by iampartyboy(m): 1:05pm On Jan 09, 2015 |
dazzlingd: |
Re: My Girlfriend Is Too Proud by yorex2011: 2:44pm On Jan 09, 2015 |
If she's made up her mind.. Then u leave her na... No go dey give urself stroke cos of woman |
Re: My Girlfriend Is Too Proud by iampartyboy(m): 3:10pm On Jan 09, 2015 |
yorex2011:Abi? thanks bruv |
Re: My Girlfriend Is Too Proud by Nobody: 3:38pm On Jan 09, 2015 |
iampartyboy:Shows clearly that you can't handle a relationship. You don't necessarily need to say sorry, there are other ways to make her apologise for her actions though it will take a really matured and humble guy to do so. Invite her to your place or any eatery and iron issues like lovers. Don't allow pride destroy your relationship. No one is perfect |
Re: My Girlfriend Is Too Proud by 100Cents: 4:04pm On Jan 09, 2015 |
3cycle: Eatery ? Wetin concern food with this guy matter ? Ladies 3 Likes |
Re: My Girlfriend Is Too Proud by Nobody: 4:07pm On Jan 09, 2015 |
100Cents:This is 2015 stop being stingy. |
Re: My Girlfriend Is Too Proud by 100Cents: 4:08pm On Jan 09, 2015 |
Re: My Girlfriend Is Too Proud by Nobody: 4:10pm On Jan 09, 2015 |
100Cents:Cook when they have issues to settle? Where are u from? |
Re: My Girlfriend Is Too Proud by 100Cents: 4:13pm On Jan 09, 2015 |
3cycle: South East; you also mentioned iron. Why do you wanna burden this guy financially ? |
Re: My Girlfriend Is Too Proud by Nobody: 4:18pm On Jan 09, 2015 |
100Cents:I thought you were from Niger republic How is inviting her over a burden? You are one of the reasons why people think igbo boys are stingy |
Re: My Girlfriend Is Too Proud by 100Cents: 4:25pm On Jan 09, 2015 |
3cycle: Was it not an Igbo girl who went to school at the expense of an igbo guy only to dump him on their wedding day ? What saith thou ? |
Re: My Girlfriend Is Too Proud by 100Cents: 4:29pm On Jan 09, 2015 |
iampartyboy: Having handled 2 proud ladies before now, I know what you talking about. Use carrot and stick method. I guess you already love her. But does she love you ? If not she will dump you. Like you said she is always waiting for you to beg. Leave her for one week and see what happens. Then call her.. |
Re: My Girlfriend Is Too Proud by Nobody: 4:32pm On Jan 09, 2015 |
100Cents:All ladies aren't same. @op be smart in handling issues pls don't listen to 100 cent if possible cook and invite her over. |
Re: My Girlfriend Is Too Proud by iampartyboy(m): 6:27pm On Jan 09, 2015 |
3cycle:As i've stated above its been going on for 2years and i've been trying to talk some sense into her. still she won't change |
Re: My Girlfriend Is Too Proud by iampartyboy(m): 6:31pm On Jan 09, 2015 |
100Cents: Alright thanks. I will surely do that. *counting down 7 days* |
Re: My Girlfriend Is Too Proud by iampartyboy(m): 6:32pm On Jan 09, 2015 |
3cycle:We're like 300KM apart for now |
Re: My Girlfriend Is Too Proud by Nobody: 7:02pm On Jan 09, 2015 |
iampartyboy:I hate long distance relationships |
Re: My Girlfriend Is Too Proud by shegxi(m): 9:29am On Jan 10, 2015 |
Op,u mean 2yrs and she has bn like dat,dn't even call her jare, just free her since u knw u can't deal wit her pride. Except she genuinly changes, if u go n like dat, den u will have onli ursef to blame in d future. Go to d family section nd go read unfortunate stories of so many unhappy married people because they chose to ignore a trait they didn't like in dere spouse while dating. Yes nobody is perfect bt wen u have obviously identified somting u clearly can't live with,my broda just ignore her and let d relationship just go like dat jare. Love is nt enuf,sense is needed. |
Re: My Girlfriend Is Too Proud by selingel: 10:50am On Jan 10, 2015 |
Hmm.... |
Re: My Girlfriend Is Too Proud by iampartyboy(m): 11:41am On Jan 11, 2015 |
shegxi:thanks boss |
Re: My Girlfriend Is Too Proud by iampartyboy(m): 11:42am On Jan 11, 2015 |
selingel:let's know what's on your mind. spit it out |
Re: My Girlfriend Is Too Proud by sunboy(m): 11:56am On Jan 11, 2015 |
shegxi: God bless your intellect. I use to date a girl like that for two years plus,who I do everything I can to make her happy but doesn't make her change. She would tell me she's even tired whenever we get issue, one day I just swallowed my mumu love and gather courage to let go, till then I didn't hear from her again till date. My candid advice; just let her be give her time try 1-2 weeks see if she go succumb and come to her senses if she no come back brother just move on already, that means she's truly tired just couldn't face u to tell u. We can't cope with all traits, just find out traits u think you can keep up with else u go just they give yourself headache and remember not all traits can change. |
Re: My Girlfriend Is Too Proud by iampartyboy(m): 12:29pm On Jan 11, 2015 |
Where are the ladies @? Ur advices are needed please . @ireneony @mhizvee etc Rocktation , farano , pasqal09 FP please |
Re: My Girlfriend Is Too Proud by Proudnsexy: 11:04pm On Apr 30, 2020 |
U need to be strict with her.if she still doesn't listen to u then u can punish her in bed but not too much. For that u have to b muscular n hunk. That's What my boyfriend does to me. He takes me for a ride in bed n then I end up getting fever n that's when I eventually give in. Basically u need to b a good dominant but also don't forget to reward her with gifts whenever she obeys or listens to u.if it still dosent work then I will ask my boyfriend to contact u.Cheers! |
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