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Re: How Can A Christian Handle Sexual Urge? by portaableg(f): 3:16pm On Jan 11, 2015
You can do the following when you have such Urge...
-Take a walk
-Drive round town (if you have a car)
-See a movie (make sure it's horror or war movie)
- Or try to sleep it off.

quote author=Thugnificent post=29667081]I grew up in a strong Christian family were I was indoctrinated to believe that fornication and masturbation is a sin. Now i'm in my early 20s and the urge to fornicate grows stronger and the only solution is masturbation which is also a "sin". So how do I relieve my self of the urge without comitting any sin? [/quote]

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Re: How Can A Christian Handle Sexual Urge? by TOPCRUISE(m): 3:16pm On Jan 11, 2015
MusaIbrahim1:
If your abuna go lead you into sin... Cut it off..
Shey I dey craze ni
Re: How Can A Christian Handle Sexual Urge? by Nobody: 3:16pm On Jan 11, 2015
kokoqueen:
I aint trying to act like am perfect or too holy..but I did deal with mine..Maybe its easier for babes than guys..maybe experience made me feel like its so easy...Just saying

From my little time on this earth, it would seem to me that it's much easier for women to tame the beast within than it is for men, though I could be wrong.
Re: How Can A Christian Handle Sexual Urge? by Dammyjohn(m): 3:17pm On Jan 11, 2015
critique101:
buy our daily manner. use it to pray daily. avoid watching porn. don't keep any girlfriend till you are working and ready to marry. this helps
But is it true that masturbation or self service is a sin and if yes where can it be found in the bible?
Re: How Can A Christian Handle Sexual Urge? by Nobody: 3:19pm On Jan 11, 2015
bussy2020:
Na to go marry sharparly! Odabo!
idu1:
Tell your parent to marry for you.....



That's the solution......



Marriage is not the solution. If you marry because of konji....wetin man go do if wife dey sick, or no dey for mood, or don travel, or becomes old ?

Una go risk your marriage and your life for five minutes Rule 34 activities eh?

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Re: How Can A Christian Handle Sexual Urge? by bussy2020(m): 3:19pm On Jan 11, 2015
Na to go marry sharparly.
Re: How Can A Christian Handle Sexual Urge? by kay29000(m): 3:19pm On Jan 11, 2015
kokoqueen:
I aint trying to act like am perfect or too holy..but I did deal with mine..Maybe its easier for babes than guys..maybe experience made me feel like its so easy...Just saying

You can never compare a woman's sexual urge with that of a man. Dr. Charles Runels said (in his book;Anytime) that if women had the kind of sex drive men had, they would be bleeping any man they see. The sex drive in men is ten times that in women.

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Re: How Can A Christian Handle Sexual Urge? by InvertedHammer: 3:20pm On Jan 11, 2015
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Tough one.

Get involved in physical fitness. It may help.

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Re: How Can A Christian Handle Sexual Urge? by Oduduwaboy(m): 3:20pm On Jan 11, 2015
critique101:


Dont mention God's name in such stupiid comments. you have insulted GOd. THink before you talk/write
You can abuse me all you can. I dont believe in your God, Yahweh or Allah!

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Re: How Can A Christian Handle Sexual Urge? by Nobody: 3:21pm On Jan 11, 2015
Dammyjohn:

But is it true that masturbation or self service is a sin and if yes where can it be found in the bible?

I reckon that self service is usualy done in response to l"""ful images formed by your mind...so it would fall under the ban of Matthew 5 vs 28.

(Goes for rule 34 images too!)
Re: How Can A Christian Handle Sexual Urge? by Olateef(m): 3:21pm On Jan 11, 2015
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Re: How Can A Christian Handle Sexual Urge? by Rexnegro(m): 3:21pm On Jan 11, 2015
Thugnificent:
I grew up in a strong Christian family were I was indoctrinated to believe that fornication and masturbation is a sin. Now i'm in my early 20s and the urge to fornicate grows stronger and the only solution is masturbation which is also a "sin". So how do I relieve my self of the urge without comitting any sin?
For u to even tink of it its a sin on its own....well since u ve thought of it...my advise to u will be take off anytin that will make u wanna tink abt it....like avoid tinking , seeing or doing anytin that will make u wanna do it... If I tel u say e easy na set up..but if u can disciplined ursef u can achieve it...takia
Re: How Can A Christian Handle Sexual Urge? by Truckpusher(m): 3:21pm On Jan 11, 2015
brito:




Lolzzzzz, will you give him yours later?
He doesn't need it for later as long as he has a tongue and a finger. cheesy
Re: How Can A Christian Handle Sexual Urge? by pussyphilia(m): 3:22pm On Jan 11, 2015
A father that allows his supposedly beloved son to start having conji so early in life(mine started at 8yrs) even when he knows that formication & m..astur...bation are "sins".
Loving father indeed.

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Re: How Can A Christian Handle Sexual Urge? by Nobody: 3:25pm On Jan 11, 2015
Reiyvinn:


You can't be given tea and expected not to drink it.

If God gave you that urge to always feel 'konji' whenever you wanna bang, and tells you not to bang, then God must be cruel for that.

Fortunately, that God doesn't exist.

Do whatever pleases you as long as you hurt nobody.

Live life, self-service, furck, drink, cure your madness; it's your life and not for a guy in the sky. Period!

Problem is....if he does what he likes before marrying...chances are he would do what he likes afterwards.

And the consequences can be harmful for all concerned...especially when there are kids involved.

Discipline is not punishment. It is meant to protect us from a sad future (which I know too well...as a doctor who has had to treat people who spent one too many nights with the Lady Venus....and the Lord Zeus...only to pay for it later....... wink)

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Re: How Can A Christian Handle Sexual Urge? by jamesadonai(m): 3:25pm On Jan 11, 2015
That means you're alredy feelinmg it
Re: How Can A Christian Handle Sexual Urge? by duni04(m): 3:27pm On Jan 11, 2015
Reiyvinn:


You can't be given tea and expected not to drink it.

If God gave you that urge to always feel 'konji' whenever you wanna bang, and tells you not to bang, then God must be cruel for that.

Fortunately, that God doesn't exist.

Do whatever pleases you as long as you hurt nobody.

Live life, (1) self-service, (2) furck, (3) drink, cure your madness; it's your life and not for a guy in the sky. Period!
1.Urinary tract infection
2.HIV
3.Liver scarring
It actually pays to lead a disciplined life

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Re: How Can A Christian Handle Sexual Urge? by Dbestmax(m): 3:28pm On Jan 11, 2015
Join d fellowship
Re: How Can A Christian Handle Sexual Urge? by Nobody: 3:29pm On Jan 11, 2015
Thugnificent:
I grew up in a strong Christian family were I was indoctrinated to believe that fornication and masturbation is a sin. Now i'm in my early 20s and the urge to fornicate grows stronger and the only solution is masturbation which is also a "sin". So how do I relieve my self of the urge without comitting any sin?
pray bro, its not easy. Not boasting, know some1 who at d age of 26 is still a virgin. Surely ya meet frnds dat don't share in ya vision and kip saying nonsense, bro just try to resist and sure God will surely intervene. D tort will come, tort of watching blue film, try to identity, cos if ya don't dey will mock ya. One sure benefit I know of being a virgin is dat, God answereth ya and gives ya d best anytime ya call and ya chaste, always encourage children and youths like ya to live a modest and pure life, by doing so God helps ya to overcome temptations.
Re: How Can A Christian Handle Sexual Urge? by Nobody: 3:31pm On Jan 11, 2015
critique101:
buy our daily manner. use it to pray daily. avoid watching porn. don't keep any girlfriend till you are working and ready to marry. this helps

Good advice but you and I know that there is no way he can control this his libido that's about to explode him.


don't keep any girlfriend till you are working and ready to marry. this helps [/quote] this is very funny.
Re: How Can A Christian Handle Sexual Urge? by Nobody: 3:32pm On Jan 11, 2015
pussyphilia:
A father that allows his supposedly beloved son to start having conji so early in life(mine started at 8yrs) even when he knows that formication & m..astur...bation are "sins".
Loving father indeed.

What about a Mother that allows her supposedly beloved son to start craving kpomo so early in the day (mine stared at around 5pm) even when she knows that dinner time is 7pm, and having kpomo before then is against her rules.

Loving Mother indeed Would you really say she doesn't love ya?
Re: How Can A Christian Handle Sexual Urge? by Nobody: 3:33pm On Jan 11, 2015
First you need to have a proper view of sexual urges. They re completely normal and u re not a sinner for having it. But the sin lies in allowing it to control you, instead of you controlling them. The following suggestions can help

1. Avoid negative association: by negative association i mean friends, tv programs, music videos, movies, mags, books that directly or indirectly bring ur mind to sex. Fornication starts from the mind.

2. Fill your mind with positive things: as mentioned earlier, fornication starts from the mind. If your mind if filled with positive things, the urge to have illicit sex becomes reduced. Replace negative associations with positive ones. Have friends who have the same resolve as u to abstain from pre-marital sex.

3. Pray for strength to the above. It's one thing to wish, another to do. To be able to succeed in doing this you need all the help you can get. Pray to God sincerely for strength, telling him how u feel.

4. Resolve not to do it. At times u may stumble on materials that may be tempting: nude pix on the net, provocative dressing, etc. Resolve not to take a 2nd look at such. If you find your self in a tempting situations, leave the area immediately.


Bro it isnt easy, but many have done it, and are still doing it. With help from God you can succeed.

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Re: How Can A Christian Handle Sexual Urge? by basketbrain(m): 3:35pm On Jan 11, 2015
vote buhari
Re: How Can A Christian Handle Sexual Urge? by DNDROID(m): 3:36pm On Jan 11, 2015
MusaIbrahim1:
If your abuna go lead you into sin... Cut it off..
Where did u bury urs? grin
Re: How Can A Christian Handle Sexual Urge? by Lanrefreshkid: 3:36pm On Jan 11, 2015
Masturbate.


is that simple
Re: How Can A Christian Handle Sexual Urge? by hardeeboi: 3:36pm On Jan 11, 2015
Enough spiritual exercise will make you lost in God and the world will be looking for you.
It takes over comers to be called the sons of God and fulfill destinies. Those that have over come LUST OF THE EYE, LUST OF THE FLESH AND THE PRIDE OF LIFE.

The Holy Spirit is your only assistant. HE WILL BEGIN FELLOWSHIP WITH YOU WHEN YOU FAST AND PRAY OFTEN.

I was once in your shoe but now I'm FREE. Hallelujah

The Lord help you

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Re: How Can A Christian Handle Sexual Urge? by gabe: 3:38pm On Jan 11, 2015
Ur body was designed to want to Bleep. However, since ur religion refuses this until u r married, do d following:1-MARRY 2- never b alone for extended periods of time doing nothing or just chilling wit ur android phone, 3- get a hobby to use up ur free time. This includes ur church activities 4-whatever u do, do NOT download porn, or read porn material. 5- pray hard+fasting 6- Do NOT self-service. Notice anything? EVERY STEP involved is harder than simply downloading porn n wanking. So put ur game face on. U v got a hard time ahead. Is it worth it? Maybe. I honestly don't know. It may make u feel gud tho....
Re: How Can A Christian Handle Sexual Urge? by DNDROID(m): 3:38pm On Jan 11, 2015
critique101:
buy our daily manner. use it to pray daily. avoid watching porn. don't keep any girlfriend till you are working and ready to marry. this helps
yeah..
It helps until a lady has a crush on you and knows how to get what she wants...

DIVA....dats what they are called right?
Re: How Can A Christian Handle Sexual Urge? by Nobody: 3:38pm On Jan 11, 2015
I guess masturbation would help!
Re: How Can A Christian Handle Sexual Urge? by Nobody: 3:40pm On Jan 11, 2015
he will start pricing for artificial pu**y or Toto
Re: How Can A Christian Handle Sexual Urge? by DNDROID(m): 3:41pm On Jan 11, 2015
gabe:
Ur body was designed to want to Bleep. However, since ur religion refuses this until u r married, do d following:1-MARRY 2- never b alone for extended periods of time doing nothing or just chilling wit ur android phone, 3- get a hobby to use up ur free time. This includes ur church activities 4-whatever u do, do NOT download porn, or read porn material. 5- pray hard+fasting 6- Do NOT self-service. Notice anything? EVERY STEP involved is harder than simply downloading porn n wanking. So put ur game face on. U v got a hard time ahead. Is it worth it? Maybe. I honestly don't know. It may make u feel gud tho...
grin
Re: How Can A Christian Handle Sexual Urge? by fabokai(m): 3:42pm On Jan 11, 2015
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