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Questions Some Ladies Ask Their Ex-Boyfriends by Nobody: 1:25am On Jan 11, 2015
We all know that after a break up, because of the emotional attachment, the girl (especially because her nature) doesn't really find it easy to let go. She is still very used to him: the tone of his voice, fragrance, walking style, way he knocks on your door, his best food, likes and dislikes etc. As such, when she hears a voice like his, she impulsively rushes to take a quick glance with a heart full of mixed feelings.

After you "dumped" her, her emotions produced some of these questions and she wishes to ask you...

1. Was What You Had For Me "Love"?

She needs to ask because you bought her jewelries while you had a "Jewel" by one corner. She can't tell because you said You Loved Her so often that she stopped using her initiative only for you to... Break her heart. Now, she can't trust no one because of you!


2. Did You Show Care Just To Get Me Laid?

This is when she feels she's just been used. Though she's nice- she's given a lot into the relationship. She feels cheated. Probably, you're her First Love. Just any average lady will open up when you show her Care and Attention.
She will go celibate for weeks...


3. Where Do I Start From?

A feeling of helplessness and hopelessness begins to set in. She has planned settling down with you- beginning from the scratch and now you shatter her hope and broke her heart! Some can commit suicide or even go after you. It's not good! Don't start what you can't finish!


4. Am I As Beautiful As You Described?

I really don't know what she wants to do with this information o. But I guess she's trying to get the guy to the "past" which the guy is running from- Mind games! wink Ladies shaaa!


5. Don't You Miss Me?

NOT Do you miss me But Don't you miss me? It's like you have to miss her. smiley

"Yes" has serious implication. "No" sound demeaning. How to put it varies for different ladies. Some stalkers need a Big NO! In fact, you need to report them to the Police! Lol! Even in your dreams, they're still on your matter! 55 missed calls in one day! Na wa oo! He doesn't miss you! Move on!


6. Is She Prettier/Hotter Than Me?

Question 5 often lead to this.

I smell jealousy and confusion already. She doesn't even want to know if you have got a successor yet oo. The tone of her voice is usually high at this point. She wants to know. Saying this isn't helpful as it will help her hate you the more. Just change the subject or be silent.


7. How Did I Ever Fall In Love With You?

After years of dating, it's now you deem it fit to ask...OK... We all know that's out of anger and disappointment. That's still because you broke her trust.She is mad at you!

All these are from my perspective. I may be wrong even as all LADIES ARE NOT THE SAME.

So ladies: When jilted or dumped and you still feeling a thing or two for him, What are those questions you really want to ask him?

Guys: What are your experiences?

Good morning smiley

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Re: Questions Some Ladies Ask Their Ex-Boyfriends by Nobody: 1:26am On Jan 11, 2015
Who knows?
Re: Questions Some Ladies Ask Their Ex-Boyfriends by momentum85(m): 1:31am On Jan 11, 2015
No 6 is very common

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Re: Questions Some Ladies Ask Their Ex-Boyfriends by tosyne2much(m): 1:33am On Jan 11, 2015
Nice one bro


I dey come ......... grin

Re: Questions Some Ladies Ask Their Ex-Boyfriends by Nobody: 1:39am On Jan 11, 2015
tosyne2much:
Nice one bro


I dey come ......... grin


Thanks bro. wink

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Re: Questions Some Ladies Ask Their Ex-Boyfriends by Nobody: 1:45am On Jan 11, 2015
all these comes from premature relationships...

childish question...move ahead jor

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Re: Questions Some Ladies Ask Their Ex-Boyfriends by alberto2k(m): 1:46am On Jan 11, 2015
One of my ex popped up late last year, she asked questions like

8 - Did you loved me?

9 - Do u still love me?

10- What are we now?

11- Do u miss anything about me?


I simple answered her with "3 Nos and 1 I don't know"
grin

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Re: Questions Some Ladies Ask Their Ex-Boyfriends by justscorch: 1:50am On Jan 11, 2015
"Scans thread".

Uhm hmm looks like sum gay shitt to me,git that shiit outta here boy,nobody wanna hear that.

*Robert jebediah Freemans voice*

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Re: Questions Some Ladies Ask Their Ex-Boyfriends by missdebs(f): 2:36am On Jan 11, 2015
lies...only ladies of low self esteem wuld do this, *shrugs*

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Re: Questions Some Ladies Ask Their Ex-Boyfriends by Nobody: 2:52am On Jan 11, 2015
lol,how about this wink

just for laffs sha

*a girl called Lady saw one of her old time boo and approached him after discussing for a few minutes she felt this was the perfect time to ask him the ultimate question*

Lady- James do you like me


James- No I don't


Lady- *puts on a long face, looking disappointed *


James- you know I never said I don't love you


Lady- *brightens up* ok,James do you love me


James- No cheesy grin




sorry hommies I forgot I booked space wink

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Re: Questions Some Ladies Ask Their Ex-Boyfriends by stinggy(m): 3:39am On Jan 11, 2015
Was What You Had For Me "Love"?


They keep asking this question as if it matters again undecided

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Re: Questions Some Ladies Ask Their Ex-Boyfriends by naturally: 4:41am On Jan 11, 2015
You just nailed it grin
Re: Questions Some Ladies Ask Their Ex-Boyfriends by Nobody: 5:50am On Jan 11, 2015
is it really over between us? embarassed

Who is she? undecided

what have i done wrong to deserve this?

when did you meet her?

can i have a last hug?( optional : this is asked by very emotional ladies)

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Re: Questions Some Ladies Ask Their Ex-Boyfriends by 2SWT(f): 6:21am On Jan 11, 2015
Lol




l haven't asked any
Re: Questions Some Ladies Ask Their Ex-Boyfriends by Nobody: 7:38am On Jan 11, 2015
dorlapoh20:
is it really over between us? embarassed

Who is she? undecided

what have i done wrong to deserve this?

when did you meet her?

can i have a last hug?( optional : this is asked by very emotional ladies)

You just nailed it. I like your sincerity. Some will pretend wink

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Re: Questions Some Ladies Ask Their Ex-Boyfriends by Nobody: 7:40am On Jan 11, 2015
2SWT:
Lol




l haven't asked any

But you do want to ask?

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Re: Questions Some Ladies Ask Their Ex-Boyfriends by Nobody: 7:41am On Jan 11, 2015
justscorch:
"Scans thread".

Uhm hmm looks like sum gay shitt to me,git that shiit outta here boy,nobody wanna hear that.

*Robert jebediah Freemans voice*


What's this one saying?

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Re: Questions Some Ladies Ask Their Ex-Boyfriends by Nobody: 7:42am On Jan 11, 2015
emusmith:


You just nailed it. I like your sincerity. Some will pretend wink
thanks

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Re: Questions Some Ladies Ask Their Ex-Boyfriends by Nobody: 7:44am On Jan 11, 2015
patrickdarlins:
all these comes from premature relationships...

childish question...move ahead jor

Ta! Cheating is not childish o! Now you jilted her and believe she will handle it in a "mature" way..
cheesy... I see

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Re: Questions Some Ladies Ask Their Ex-Boyfriends by Nobody: 7:57am On Jan 11, 2015
emusmith:


Ta! Cheating is not childish o! Now you jilted her and believe she will handle it in a "mature" way..
cheesy... I see
Lols....i meant those questions being asked above na....
Re: Questions Some Ladies Ask Their Ex-Boyfriends by englishmart(m): 8:15am On Jan 11, 2015
lol. This emusmith is gradually benching Tosyne2much. Lol grin

Na sunday you dey discuss love matters?
Abi religious matters don finish?
grin

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Re: Questions Some Ladies Ask Their Ex-Boyfriends by Nobody: 8:26am On Jan 11, 2015
patrickdarlins:
Lols....i meant those questions being asked above na....

They sound like bro, grin...It really puts everyone off balance LoL...The lady's own is extreme...
Re: Questions Some Ladies Ask Their Ex-Boyfriends by Nobody: 8:27am On Jan 11, 2015
dorlapoh20:

thanks

Hope you are going to church? lol
Re: Questions Some Ladies Ask Their Ex-Boyfriends by Nobody: 8:28am On Jan 11, 2015
naturally:
You just nailed it grin

Thanks bro.
Re: Questions Some Ladies Ask Their Ex-Boyfriends by Nobody: 8:29am On Jan 11, 2015
missdebs:
lies...only ladies of low self esteem wuld do this, *shrugs*

I hear you... I doubt you...wink

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Re: Questions Some Ladies Ask Their Ex-Boyfriends by Nobody: 8:41am On Jan 11, 2015
Once it's over,it's over.
No need of questions.

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Re: Questions Some Ladies Ask Their Ex-Boyfriends by 2SWT(f): 8:42am On Jan 11, 2015
emusmith:


But you do want to ask?
Those questions are childish



once its over it over! I dont ask questions
at times we just start talking and acting like we had nothing in the past...it really hurts but when you start asking such questions it will look like you are trying to get him back or you can't live without him

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Re: Questions Some Ladies Ask Their Ex-Boyfriends by onstelly(f): 8:46am On Jan 11, 2015
I never asked any of these, flip my weaves and walk away
Re: Questions Some Ladies Ask Their Ex-Boyfriends by Nobody: 9:01am On Jan 11, 2015
kristina1:
Once it's over,it's over.
No need of questions.

That's the mature thing to do.wink

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Re: Questions Some Ladies Ask Their Ex-Boyfriends by Nobody: 9:02am On Jan 11, 2015
onstelly:
I never asked any of these, flip my weaves and walk away

Hmm
Re: Questions Some Ladies Ask Their Ex-Boyfriends by Nobody: 9:04am On Jan 11, 2015
kristina1:
Once it's over,it's over.
No need of questions.

So it is with some...Is it strange to you?
Re: Questions Some Ladies Ask Their Ex-Boyfriends by Nobody: 9:08am On Jan 11, 2015
2SWT:
Those questions are childish



once its over it over! I dont ask questions
at times we just start talking and acting like we had nothing in the past...it really hurts but when you start asking such questions it will look like you are trying to get him back or you can't live without him

So it seems... Can't you try to actually get him back?

I don't know if to trust these statements anymore... I've seen so many doing this... Girls and Forming...smiley

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