Please i need ur advise on this issue......I am in love with this girl in my church ever since i started receiving a very strong green lights from her.I took that advantage & approach her in a friendly manner,I dont reveal my intensions.We started a very interesting conservation bt i must confess dt she is very funny & nice.When am escorting her home, She told me dt am very funny.Ever since dt day, i use to be calling & texting her in order to know how her day went nd it was so exciting bt my problem is dt she has never called on her own or return my text messages.....NB....I did dt texting & calling stuff under 10 days..WHAT CAN I DO TO GET HER ATTENTION SO THAT SHE WIL START NEEDING ME IN AS MUCH AS I NEED HER?

Buy a Range Rover

Propose nah, abi how u go take get attention when u dey friend zone

Go for her best friend.
She will notice you pretty well.

Stop calling n texting her 4 a wyl...If she cares,dt will get her attention

The day she b the one to contact u first before u make your intentions known, just knw dat u wil b friend zoned pal

I think lisaflex is right.... D only sensible comment in dis topic

since you have been doing the calling,stop and go for a break.
so that she will miss you.



and always do that she will use and remember you remember you about

[quote author=Monicasque post=29696265]The day she b the one to contact u first before u make your intentions known, just knw dat u wil b friend zoned pal......I must have her attention first before i wil make my intensions known to her.Then she wil b as happy as Wow......Lol........

youngprof2n:
Please i need ur advise on this issue......I am in love with this girl in my church ever since i started receiving a very strong green lights from her.I took that advantage & approach her in a friendly manner,I dont reveal my intensions.We started a very interesting conservation bt i must confess dt she is very funny & nice.When am escorting her home, She told me dt am very funny.Ever since dt day, i use to be calling & texting her in order to know how her day went nd it was so exciting bt my problem is dt she has never called on her own or return my text messages.....NB....I did dt texting & calling stuff under 10 days..WHAT CAN I DO TO GET HER ATTENTION SO THAT SHE WIL START NEEDING ME IN AS MUCH AS I NEED HER?

What a loser...

Same here, so i feel you. Understand that you get the most active "friendzoners" in the church because the doctrine teaches 'brotherly' agape love. People are scared to make the first move because rejection may cast doubts on the individual's salvation, possible influence of strange spirits or demonic possession especially if the babe is either a prayer warrior, chorister or a pastoress.

My advice: Since, its a church runz, make sure you don't flirt with other babes. Just be nice to them.
Buy her a Christian romance book as a gift.
Chat with her and escort her as usual, but stop all the texts and calls. She will want to know why ..

..Break the coconut without being funny at all expressing all reservations and fear of rejection.

well...I look at beautiful girls as shit...dat alone makes dem want to come close to me...hehe
stop being too much Mr nice guy..u become a mumu...they first like u for being d gentle and nice handsome guy...den later...dey want more.. talking from experience

She will start needing yhu? ..see dhiz funy dudd, u knw ow many cals nd text she receives frm oda guys who admires ha just lik u? ...
...i think yur confused gan seuf... V u askd ha out? r yhu guys alrdy dating? ...if No then y r u xo disturbd abt ha nt returni ur cals?

youngprof2n:
Please i need ur advise on this issue......I am in love with this girl in my church ever since i started receiving a very strong green lights from her.I took that advantage & approach her in a friendly manner,I dont reveal my intensions.We started a very interesting conservation bt i must confess dt she is very funny & nice.When am escorting her home, She told me dt am very funny.Ever since dt day, i use to be calling & texting her in order to know how her day went nd it was so exciting bt my problem is dt she has never called on her own or return my text messages.....NB....I did dt texting & calling stuff under 10 days..WHAT CAN I DO TO GET HER ATTENTION SO THAT SHE WIL START NEEDING ME IN AS MUCH AS I NEED HER?

Dude, you will wait forever for her to show obvious signs. Probably, she might be into you more than you can ever imagine. But as a Nigerian girl, she'd rather die in silence than be the one to do the calling and texting. You have to make your intentions known to her before she then fakes disinterest, takes her time to ponder on it before giving you an answer.

Maybe, you'll be getting calls from her afterwards.

Lisaflex:
Stop calling n texting her 4 a wyl...If she cares,dt will get her attention

I believe dt any girl dt likes u wil do it....

Then i wil strike....Lols

you have been officially friendzoned, better start being sensual or you will remain there for life

Lisaflex:
Stop calling n texting her 4 a wyl...If she cares,dt will get her attention

Exactly! !!

take your time, ask her out and talk to her about it.

That lisa's comment/advice is psychological ...
1)If i ask her out immediately, She might decline my proposal nd for dt to happen it's an embarrassment cos this is a church matter....
2)If i take a break for a while nd she starts calling....Wow.....The chemistry is now abt to start flowing cos it's nt ordinary for a lady to do such thing.
3)There re lots of guys dt've done more than i'Hve did for her.....Then since there re nw lots of admirers coming for her, She wil start to reciprocate d caring of d one dt she likes & others wil b friend zoned or rejected..
4)When u've finally gotten her little attention....U chance of making her to fall deeply in love with u wil now be very high.... HOW WAS THAT.....

Smh... In church sef. Must you people even date every person you like?

Anyway, look at it this way. You are a ball. Other guys are balls. The key to being easily noticed is having a different size or colour. If the others are all white, be blue, or red or even black. Do not do what the average lovesick dude would do. You already have her attention though, but you haven't left any remarkable impression.

First things first, stop calling five times a day. Let her miss your attention a bit and wonder why. Stir her curiosity and you can get into her head.

obainojazz:
well...I look at beautiful girls as shit...dat alone makes dem want to come close to me...hehe
stop being too much Mr nice guy..u become a mumu...they first like u for being d gentle and nice handsome guy...den later...dey want more.. talking from experience

I can relate to this bro..

Stop calling and texting her for a while .....let her miss your calls,trust me, she wl wonder what has happened.

But if you keep callin without askin her out,you wl end in friend-zone.

If i must say you already have her attention. Stop the call or sms for few days. stop making her feel super important.. let her miss you a little. The next time you call , make it a short call. Just tell her you would love to buy her a drink some day. Make your intentions known to her...
What will be will be..
It's a not a do or die affair bro..
Best of luck..

youngprof2n:
Please i need ur advise on this issue......I am in love with this girl in my church ever since i started receiving a very strong green lights from her.I took that advantage & approach her in a friendly manner,I dont reveal my intensions.We started a very interesting conservation bt i must confess dt she is very funny & nice.When am escorting her home, She told me dt am very funny.Ever since dt day, i use to be calling & texting her in order to know how her day went nd it was so exciting bt my problem is dt she has never called on her own or return my text messages.....NB....I did dt texting & calling stuff under 10 days..WHAT CAN I DO TO GET HER ATTENTION SO THAT SHE WIL START NEEDING ME IN AS MUCH AS I NEED HER?

Hello Bro.

You shouldn't need anyone to NEED you.

Wanting her affections, on the other hand, is healthier. But there should also be limits.

And the fastest way to bring those out in any girl by fvcking her.

She already likes you, a lot. Don't look for further evidence.

Remember too: Whenever you don't ask act, the answer is always NO.