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Re: He Wants A Divorce by sandiyke(f): 9:25pm On Jan 15, 2015 |
My dear calm down. We were not there[quote when it all happened so we are free to give our various judgements. Back to the matter, she did wrong by not letting her know.author=freecocoa post=29827121]I'm sorry but what are you on about? Supporting him how? By 'fratenizing' with the enemy? Excuse me please but do you know what it means that one's husband is in jail for a crime he did not commit and his wife was collecting money from the guy who is responsible for her husband being in jail? To make matters worse, she lied about it, why? This woman is sleeping with the enemy and I mean that literally.[/quote] 1 Like |
Re: He Wants A Divorce by mystiqueDZ(f): 9:30pm On Jan 15, 2015 |
Missmossy:And she was here....where you been ma'am? |
Re: He Wants A Divorce by freecocoa(f): 9:32pm On Jan 15, 2015 |
sandiyke:Lol , guess I'm a bit passionate about this, it's cos I really hate people who behave like this woman, we don't need to be there to be able to tell that what she did is wrong, the fact that she lied about it, just make it all the more worse. There's no iota of innocence here. 1 Like |
Re: He Wants A Divorce by sandiyke(f): 9:43pm On Jan 15, 2015 |
In as much as i don't support what she did, I feel so sorry for her. freecocoa: 2 Likes |
Re: He Wants A Divorce by freecocoa(f): 9:57pm On Jan 15, 2015 |
sandiyke:Okay, that's well within your rights, I, however, wish people like her would be all taken away from this world, the world would be a better place. 2 Likes |
Re: He Wants A Divorce by lilmax(m): 10:24pm On Jan 15, 2015 |
Dirvorce dirvorce dirvorce that is what i want to see on this thread nothing else |
Re: He Wants A Divorce by LordReed(m): 11:57pm On Jan 15, 2015 |
There's no point begging the man when proper explanation has not been given for her actions. Gut level reaction is that this woman is despicable but sometimes things aren't all they seem. I hope the truth is revealed somehow. |
Re: He Wants A Divorce by Nobody: 12:05am On Jan 16, 2015 |
Why didnt she tell her husband long before he found out? Why keep silent if she had nothing to hide? Why collect money from him at all? Either she is a very stupid woman who should go back to elementry school and learn some common sense or she is a very greedy and untrustworthy woman I dont blame the hubby. His reaction is normal. 1 Like |
Re: He Wants A Divorce by buggaboo: 12:15am On Jan 16, 2015 |
The wife must be either daft and stubborn (terrible combination), or she knows more than she is saying. The man should keep away until she gives a meaningful explanation. |
Re: He Wants A Divorce by Nobody: 1:16am On Jan 16, 2015 |
aisha2: This wasn't a mistake on many grounds. Her husband honestly confided with het that the man was part of the team that set him up. That is enough for her to dissassociate herself from her husband's enemy if they have had prior dealings. Also the mere fact that she received money from someone and in this case the enemy without her husband's knowledge or his permission is worrisome . She also lied about what she used the money for when he asked about. I have every reason to believe that she is hiding something. If she could do that because of greed she could certainly take his life without a second thought if he allowed her to stay. 1 Like |
Re: He Wants A Divorce by Nobody: 1:27am On Jan 16, 2015 |
remsonik:Take a very deep breath We all know juju is real But in your case it seems to affect your thought process too, , please chill. 1 Like |
Re: He Wants A Divorce by Nobody: 1:56am On Jan 16, 2015 |
byvan: Daz all o. 2 Likes |
Re: He Wants A Divorce by pickabeau1: 4:50am On Jan 16, 2015 |
freecocoa: Do you understand the import of this your post That she be dead? Because you wish it? Are you god Are you perfect? On top online matter..... 3 Likes |
Re: He Wants A Divorce by Nobody: 7:01am On Jan 16, 2015 |
Justfollowit:Jisos!! This insult is cool Lol. |
Re: He Wants A Divorce by Nobody: 7:03am On Jan 16, 2015 |
[/b] pickabeau1: Do you understand the import of this your post That she be dead? Because you wish it? Are you god Are you perfect? On top online matter.....[b] pickabeau1: pickabeau1:No be only import,wat abt d export of her post kikikik. |
Re: He Wants A Divorce by veave(f): 7:05am On Jan 16, 2015 |
what would have happened if the husband was not vindicated but sent to jail. the woman should not be trusted. I call it first class betrayal. so no other person to help out with money apart from the enemy? how sure are we she didn't really set her husband up? she is only claiming to feel remorse because she was caught. abeg abeg abeg... 1 Like |
Re: He Wants A Divorce by Nobody: 7:06am On Jan 16, 2015 |
To be honest,if my wife does something like this to me,i will never speak to her again. Its just d fact,you cant trust a person hu betrays u in such a bad way ever again. |
Re: He Wants A Divorce by freecocoa(f): 8:33am On Jan 16, 2015 |
pickabeau1:Excuse me biko, where did I mention death? That they be taken away from this world, do you know if I meant they should be given their own world? I'm glad you recognize that it is a wish, where's the crime in wishing that this world be devoid of bad people? Ogbeni dey your lane abeg, I don't have time for any rubbish this morning and yes it might be online but I've dealt with people like this woman in the real world, they will be killing you while pretending to be your friend, nonsense. 1 Like |
Re: He Wants A Divorce by Missmossy(f): 8:48am On Jan 16, 2015 |
mystiqueDZ:I have been around dear good to see you. |
Re: He Wants A Divorce by Applaner: 8:53am On Jan 16, 2015 |
aisha2 always involving herself in other people problem since 1881 1 Like |
Re: He Wants A Divorce by dBard: 9:07am On Jan 16, 2015 |
aisha2: I would walk away. loyalty IS a big deal, loyalty to your spouse goes without saying. What if eventually, he couldn't prove his innocence, would he then have been paying her salary Greedy ass woman that couldn't see beyond the money. 1 Like |
Re: He Wants A Divorce by pickabeau1: 9:12am On Jan 16, 2015 |
freecocoa: As usual the typical online bravado You wish someone should leave this world and say that is not equal to death then talk spiel about multiverses... Ok Yes the woman did bad Maybe the marriage is over Its not enough to wish her death as you don't even know the full story Now you wish the world to be devoid of bad people Are you good "There is no one that is good; save GoD" - Guess you know the good ones that should live in your world...LOL 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: He Wants A Divorce by Nobody: 9:21am On Jan 16, 2015 |
Applaner: Lol I was on my own the issue came and met me, I felt we were too harsh hence the posting here with her permission oh 1 Like |
Re: He Wants A Divorce by freecocoa(f): 9:45am On Jan 16, 2015 |
pickabeau1:Your business. All I see is blah blah blah. |
Re: He Wants A Divorce by bluedaze(f): 9:50am On Jan 16, 2015 |
the woman deserves it. the man should go ahead and divorce her. Greed is indeed a terrible thing. even if the man had sent themoney to me unsolicited, i would have returned the money based on sole principle, even if i were starving or tell my husband at the very least. that bitch aint loyal! 1 Like |
Re: He Wants A Divorce by Nobody: 9:59am On Jan 16, 2015 |
Nollywood movie.. Divorce her.. He will never trust her again.. 1 Like |
Re: He Wants A Divorce by pickabeau1: 10:02am On Jan 16, 2015 |
freecocoa: You r a bad person for only seeing that... Maybe I should wish you out of this world 3 Likes |
Re: He Wants A Divorce by Nobody: 10:20am On Jan 16, 2015 |
I feel she was trying to profit from the situation, perhaps she never knew her husband will find out. She has to confess her sins instead of feeding her husband's fear that she was having an affair with the thief unless of course she was having the affair either way she has some major truth telling to do. A greedy woman yes, but if she did it for the profit i.e make money from the bad guy i wonder if the husband can forgive her even if it takes years. 1 Like |
Re: He Wants A Divorce by blaise26abj(m): 10:57am On Jan 16, 2015 |
Why did she collect money from the hubby's enemy? An easy explanation would be that the guy wanted to assist the hubby while in custody. Don't underestimate the level of deceit some people go to cover their tracks. the wife's mistake was to accept since she didn't know how long the hubby would stay in custody. I'm sure a lot of people would have shown support one way or the other and it won't be far-fetched that the hubby's colleagues would want to assist. It could be a need to get enough funds to fight for her hubby. May we not fall into trouble oh. People react without giving much deeper thought to things when in trouble. Especially women, given the way they worry so easily. That being said, I would advice the wife to get all proofs that she collected the money in good faith. Not by just saying it. A reasonable man will consider hard evidence that there was nothing shoddy about the transactions. He is acting based on the evidence presented to him. She should get a more compelling evidence than what he has and plead her case based on that and not by just "talking". She messed up though. However, presenting facts with evidence might help convince him as to her intent. Aisha, u can tell her to prepare her evidence and plead with the hubby to hear her case 1 more time. Then let time do it's work. |
Re: He Wants A Divorce by Nobody: 12:05pm On Jan 16, 2015 |
fabiano09: It wasn't intended to be an insult. |
Re: He Wants A Divorce by Nobody: 12:08pm On Jan 16, 2015 |
Justfollowit:But it ended up being an insult,abeg read again. |
Re: He Wants A Divorce by AZeD1(m): 12:23pm On Jan 16, 2015 |
The husband should run as far away from her as possible. I mean that literally. Back stabbers are the worst set of human beings 2 Likes |
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