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**Differences Between Independent Women And The Broke Ones** by Rapmoney(m): 1:08am On Jan 16, 2015 |
It is a pity when I see some dudes involving themselves in parasitic relationship where the lady offers nothing other than s*x!!! These guys take care of the babe as if na dia sperm na e form the babe Providing her airtime, taking responsibility for making her hair, meals, clothes (including undies!!!), etc. Na u be her papa, abi? Orue Engaging yourself with such people will only end up pulling you down, financially and mentally. Below are some salient differences between an independent lady and a cheap one who adds no value to your entire life: 1. The Value of Money: An independent lady knows the value of money and she works very hard to succeed. She doesn't need to sit her ass down and wait for a man to come and uplift her to the height she would want, but the cheap ones do. I over-heard two babes discussing recently. One asked the other if 'that guy' has called her and she told her friend that the guy was irrelevant and that she didn't feel 'that 'guy' would be able to take care of her. When I observed them closely, I discovered that they would be in their early twenties and probably, still living with their parents. After what I heard, the value I had for them died and my blood went cold for them! At that age, they expect men to take of those things that are supposed to be provided for by their parents. My sympathy...if you fall for such women. 2 Coordination On A Date: An independent lady knows how to coordinate herself when she goes on a date. Since she knows the value of money, she wouldn't want to push a man too far to spend beyond his means. The pizza, ice-cream, chicken, point-and-kill, fiesta, burger, turkey laps may not impress her as it would impress the cheap ones. She can afford those things when ever it pleases her. What about the other one? She would eat as if that is her last day on earth! She would order and order, even things that she wouldn't be able to finish. Such type of ladies will tell you that they would like to carry 4 extra packs (take-away) home for her friends, Olawunmi, Aisha, Chinenye and Rukevwe She is cheap and can easily betray herself on this because she doesn't know the value of creating wealth. She might unknowingly cast a bad image on herself to a serious dude who could turn out to be one of the best husbands of our time! 3 Hard working: An independent woman is hard working but their opposites are lazy. They sit their lazy as.s and wait for a guy to come around with all sort of goodies, even those that their parents can't provide them. That's why some women get laid for as little as a plate of noodles and eggs from the local neighbourhood mishai!!! Go try am with an independent lady na! You go see shege!!! 4. Calling Guys 'Broke': An independent lady hardly refer to guys as 'broke' because she wouldn't even care! She makes her own money and spends it the way it pleases her. She is quick to notice a guy's character and attitude instead of his pocket. The cheap ones don't care about attitude or character! The first thing they notice is how fat your pockets are. She doesn't want to know whether you possess qualities such as humour, patience and fear of God...because she is lacking, she would want to cling to anyone who dishes out money to her; she is even ready to open her legs, with one in Warri and the other in Akure Such girls are quick to see the 'brokeness'(forgive me for this English) in a guy because all she needs is money and goodies. If you are giving her 3k regularly and she sees someone who is capable of giving her 5k, she would run away from you as fast as possible. No conscience sef! Instead of you calling guys 'broke', why don't you work hard to better your life? Having a boyfriend is not a job, neither is it an occupation or trade! I often wonder why most men don't see it that most women are broke too, even more than us 5. Care for Parents: An independent woman works and she earns income or profits. She has a greater probability of taking care of some of her parents' needs. She can help her parents financially with their trade or buy foodstuffs and electronic gadgets in the house. But the other type? She uses a phone worth 120k, but her father's phone is wearing a rubber-band, lest, it falls apart All her electronic gadgets total 350k but her father's zinc house has a leaking roof She carries a hair of 65k, yet the television in their parlor is a pregnant 14 inch 1980's colour Tv What a life? 6. Many Partners: The probability that an independent woman would keep many romantic or sexual partners is far lower than that of the cheap (broke) ones! If you are in a relationship with the opposite of the independent woman, then just know that 6 more guys you have never met might be bleeping the hell out of your 'girl' 7. Offers and Contribution: An independent woman is likely to contribute immensely to your life far more that the cheap ones. She can conveniently buy you gifts both on your birthdays and whenever. A broke cheap girl would not. She even wants you to take her out and buy her gifts on your own birthday! Chisos! What two people contribute in relationship matters a lot in giving the relationship a meaning and value. If you are dating a woman who can only offer s*x and nothing more, she is cheap! Things are changing...some young men dor wise-up now. Soon, lazy women who do nothing but sit and wait for a dude for all their provisions will be left behind to rot with Old Nick in hell Na me write this post and I get copyright licence Peace!!! 17 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: **Differences Between Independent Women And The Broke Ones** by Joshkid(m): 1:14am On Jan 16, 2015 |
Re: **Differences Between Independent Women And The Broke Ones** by Rapmoney(m): 1:21am On Jan 16, 2015 |
Joshkid: Now wey u dor go grow big teeth, u go talk which lips u go take cover am |
Re: **Differences Between Independent Women And The Broke Ones** by naijaboiy: 1:22am On Jan 16, 2015 |
The Broke (cheap) girls plenty for this Nairaland...and they go avoid this thread like plague Some go come here con still find excuse 4 Likes |
Re: **Differences Between Independent Women And The Broke Ones** by Rapmoney(m): 1:25am On Jan 16, 2015 |
naijaboiy: They know themselves wella. |
Re: **Differences Between Independent Women And The Broke Ones** by Joshkid(m): 1:27am On Jan 16, 2015 |
Rapmoney:lols |
Re: **Differences Between Independent Women And The Broke Ones** by Maczeelly(m): 1:27am On Jan 16, 2015 |
Ok Oooooooooooo |
Re: **Differences Between Independent Women And The Broke Ones** by Rapmoney(m): 1:35am On Jan 16, 2015 |
Maczeelly: I dor see am finish, na sleep dey catch u |
Re: **Differences Between Independent Women And The Broke Ones** by mirexxx(f): 1:50am On Jan 16, 2015 |
op well done y is every listed point all abt money 1 Like |
Re: **Differences Between Independent Women And The Broke Ones** by Rapmoney(m): 1:53am On Jan 16, 2015 |
mirexxx: Thnks mirexxx |
Re: **Differences Between Independent Women And The Broke Ones** by Baddestguyp(m): 2:09am On Jan 16, 2015 |
kudos, op tell them, broke ladies full NL |
Re: **Differences Between Independent Women And The Broke Ones** by Nobody: 2:30am On Jan 16, 2015 |
all these girls never wake up....choii op...pray to ya GOD they dont find dis on front page.... dey will pour you pepper on your body and give u HOT WATER to wash it off.... u know how it taste like na....lols fear nairaland babes oooo 1 Like |
Re: **Differences Between Independent Women And The Broke Ones** by Nobody: 2:56am On Jan 16, 2015 |
No cheap girl for nairaland oo,80%of them are virgin,remember a cheap girl can never be virgin |
Re: **Differences Between Independent Women And The Broke Ones** by Rapmoney(m): 5:47am On Jan 16, 2015 |
patrickdarlins: Am covered with the blood of Jesus |
Re: **Differences Between Independent Women And The Broke Ones** by Rapmoney(m): 5:48am On Jan 16, 2015 |
Ipledge: Sorry, but I expected this from you! |
Re: **Differences Between Independent Women And The Broke Ones** by Nobody: 5:50am On Jan 16, 2015 |
I'm an Independent young lady, i get my things for myself! no help from parents well a little bit of their help sha! |
Re: **Differences Between Independent Women And The Broke Ones** by Rapmoney(m): 6:13am On Jan 16, 2015 |
Nneka123: If truly you are, then thumbs up for you! |
Re: **Differences Between Independent Women And The Broke Ones** by Nobody: 6:29am On Jan 16, 2015 |
Rapmoney:thanks! nice article by the way 1 Like |
Re: **Differences Between Independent Women And The Broke Ones** by Welrez(m): 7:30am On Jan 16, 2015 |
A lady who is doing well is far better to date than a chronic dependant. I'm speaking from experience. You may be starved of time with her but, trust me, it only makes it worthwhile. 1 Like |
Re: **Differences Between Independent Women And The Broke Ones** by LadyX(f): 7:42am On Jan 16, 2015 |
Number 5 is so true! 5. ...She uses a phone worth 120k, but her father's phone is wearing a rubber-band, lest, it falls apart All her electronic gadgets total 350k but her father's zinc house has a leaking roof She carries a hair of 65k, yet the television in their parlor is a pregnant 14 inch 1980's colour Tv What a life? 2 Likes |
Re: **Differences Between Independent Women And The Broke Ones** by Nobody: 7:55am On Jan 16, 2015 |
Rapmoney: you better be ooo |
Re: **Differences Between Independent Women And The Broke Ones** by Rapmoney(m): 8:05am On Jan 16, 2015 |
patrickdarlins: Why not? No weapon fashioned against us shall prosper! As far as we speak the truth. |
Re: **Differences Between Independent Women And The Broke Ones** by Rapmoney(m): 8:15am On Jan 16, 2015 |
Welrez: Bro, I 'd rather be lonely than date a sucking-blood! A woman who does nothing? Nah nah...I can't date. 1 Like |
Re: **Differences Between Independent Women And The Broke Ones** by jmoore(m): 8:20am On Jan 16, 2015 |
This makes sense. 1 Like |
Re: **Differences Between Independent Women And The Broke Ones** by AZeD1(m): 8:20am On Jan 16, 2015 |
To all them dudes who come around and ask what ladies offer in a relationship, this post is specifically meant for you. Read, re read and digest. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: **Differences Between Independent Women And The Broke Ones** by Welrez(m): 8:31am On Jan 16, 2015 |
Rapmoney:Personally, I rate a hardworking woman far above a beautiful one. Don't ever go for beauty alone. 5 Likes |
Re: **Differences Between Independent Women And The Broke Ones** by niggi4life(m): 8:59am On Jan 16, 2015 |
I totally agree with ALL the listed points.. you are so correct By the way.. This should make front page Shout out to all the Independent women 3 Likes |
Re: **Differences Between Independent Women And The Broke Ones** by Rapmoney(m): 9:01am On Jan 16, 2015 |
Welrez: If I date a lady for beauty alone, make I suspend for air My blood goes cold for lazy women who depend on men for everything. |
Re: **Differences Between Independent Women And The Broke Ones** by Rapmoney(m): 9:03am On Jan 16, 2015 |
AZeD1: Thumbs up for the suggestion, bro! |
Re: **Differences Between Independent Women And The Broke Ones** by Nobody: 9:06am On Jan 16, 2015 |
The shoes on my feet I've bought it The clothes I'm wearing I've bought it Cause I depend on me If I wanted the watch you're wearin' I'll buy it The house I live in I've rented it The car I'm driving I've bought it. All the women who are independent Throw your hands up at me All the honeys who makin' money Throw your hands up at me All the mommas who profit Nairas Throw your hands up at me All the ladies who truly feel me Throw your hands up at me 6 Likes |
Re: **Differences Between Independent Women And The Broke Ones** by Rapmoney(m): 9:07am On Jan 16, 2015 |
niggi4life: Bro, I just feel that there are certain things a woman should be able to provide for herself. It amazes me when I see some women depending on men for almost everything! Including airtime! Does it mean she can't provide such for herself as a complete human being? |
Re: **Differences Between Independent Women And The Broke Ones** by Rapmoney(m): 9:20am On Jan 16, 2015 |
sexyseun: Ehnnn...u sure so? |
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