Dapo4u:


Are you seeking for advice or you want us to tell you what you think we should be telling you? It appers to me you have made up your mind and you want to know if we all agree with you. No one is saying you shouldn't test the water with the new guy, but it is a taboo to have sex with someone who isn't the father of your unborn child. I am even surprised that your new guy doesn't know about this.

I haven't made my mind up about the whole sex thing..I wasn't sure if it was a taboo that's y I asked I wasn't raised in Nigeria n he is Ghanian not Nigerian so don't think he knows either.... So it's jus an advice bwt the whole taboo thing not on the relationship! Thanks

Don't try it,u will just kill yourself at childbirth...why cant he wait for you to have the baby&then u guys can have fun...dont dare it ooo pls