All they seem to be after is the money and the trappings of a good time that follows with such wealth, but how can true love be successfully found amidst these fading hoolabaloo of wealth and affluence? Good advice needed.

Maybe you should act like a broke ass by not displaying your affluence for a while as you search for your miss right and be sure not to look forward for luck at some places where true love can't be seen i.e. you don't go looking for a nun type at a nite club. If you are however lucky as I am, you love can even walk into your life unexpectedly without even spending a city touring sweat.

Be stingy. No gifts, no free food, nada. Let her foot her bills.

If she sticks without asking/complaining, she's for real

davidylan, DaviDylan, *davidylan, 4Him, davidyla n. . .
na wa o.

@poster i think u should pretend at first that ure not that loaded then if she still sticks wt u,dn shes the one uve been lukin 4.after dt u could make her knou u are lllllllloooooooaaaaaadddddddeeeeeeeedddddd.

The worst mistake you can make is to pretend to be broke. you can never find true love in the midst of lies and dishonesty.Just be patient you will find a woman who loves you, and not your money afterall there are still a lot of women who are not materialistic  i happen to know a lot.

so this lunatic davidylan is so desperate to find a woman that he begins to elucidate and promote himself as someone rich, hardworking and get this *Handsome*

Now i have heard it all from this slowpoke.

Why did you tell your teeming audience too that your real name is olumuyiwa from the rustic barbaric parts of Abeokuta and you were once a very local boy who got exposed small to western education and now bragging that you are rich and handsome! lol

Mumu you better go bar beach go find the love of your life before you start to de disgrace ya self here!

@Adambroda.hhaaaaaahaaaaaa.pls take it easy on him

Poster is an imposter, just letting all those slow pokes out there know it

@ Adam hey! take it easy on the poster ok,cus no one really cares if he is rich or not,as a matter of fact this post is applicable to some of us in nairaland.now back to the topic,well here is what I have to say,this is how you can really tell of a lady who truely loves you, a lady who is not extravagant, a lady who is willing to stick with you and tolerate your imperfections, a lady who shares your joy,pain,laughter,sadness,happiness and sorrow, above all a lady who is willing to mould you into a family, now you can spot a lady who may just have all these qualities by her decent dress code, as for our ladies reading this please always remember you are what you wear.wish you all a merry christmas and a happy new year in advance.

@Topic,Forget what you have or what you think you have,be cool headed and do things the way every other person wud do,true love wud come your way just like it comes to every other person.Dont go fronting ! be yourself.
btw how rich,young and successful etc are you sef?

Ebony-Silk:

Poster is an imposter, just letting all those slow pokes out there know it

thanks a lot . . . the impostor has been reported and i hope he'd be gone before the end of the day.

Adam how Dumb can you get?

Felifeli . . . dont blame me, blame those who wield the big ban stick.

imitation, they say, is the sincerest form of flattery

David isn't this like the 100th impostor? What is your secret? LMAO!!

davidylan:

thanks a lot . . . the impostor has been reported and i hope he'd be gone before the end of the day.

Adam how Dumb can you get?
Felifeli . . . don't blame me, blame those who wield the big ban stick.

I have been warned by the moderator not to call you an olori buruku oloshi, asin win, ode, fool, slowpoke, goat, idiot and stupid animal, so i will respect the moderator and not call you an olori buruku oloshi, asin win, ode, fool, slowpoke, goat, idiot and stupid animal for your insolence!

Meeeen . . . .

Adam Brody,

u are such a case

@topic

Yes he can . . .  he fell in love with me!

@poster

it may be hard for you . . . . you sound a lill arrogant and way too self absorbed. That spells bad boy which means you will always get the ones looking for life on the fast lane.

@naja haje

NaJa HaJe:

@topic

Yes he can . . . he fell in love with me!

@poster

it may be hard for you . . . . [s]you sound a lill arrogant and way too self absorbed[/s]. That spells bad boy which means you will always get the ones looking for life on the fast lane.

In fact if i had my way, i would have washed your feet like the christian jesus for being the most sensible poster so far on this thread for seeing that wily good for nothing slimy snake davidylan for what he is.

Imagine an arrogant and self absorbed person like him looking for a responsible and homely girl to wreck her life through NL?

Please use your feminine power and influence to advise on lookers and neutral chicks to ignore such bloviates and find a more decent man who is more humble and not hypocritical!

Ignorrance is not bliss. Must we slap the nonsense out of you before you recognize that the poster is an imposter?
Or do you just enjoy swiming in your sea of stupidity? shugomu

People can be mad.

@topic, you're not supposed to complain man.  you should be happy. If you don't want to attract women with your money, do as Jesus commanded the young man in the Bible. give all your possessions to the poor and follow Christ. The women will stop sniffing your suit. 
when you become poor as a churchrat, the woman who decides that she wants to marry you must TRULY love you. there problem solved! you can't eat your cake and have it too. lol

A lot of women have the similar problem. haha

Adam Brody:


Please use your feminine power and influence to advise on lookers and neutral chicks to ignore such bloviates and find a more decent man who is more humble[b] and not hypocritical[/b]!

if any female needs looking out for, it's you she should look out for mister. Why the hypocrisy (talk about irony)? well at least you started a topic about how far from decent you are. lol

OMG!!!
Was the Op Nimshi

This Adam whatever needs to get laid seriously or why is he wanking over Davidylan.

Na wa oh

o ga oooooooooooooooooooooo

It may sound like a cliche, but you dont find "true love" , it finds you , just keep an open mind (heart?) and remember that it comes unexpectedly and in the oddest ways.
I wish you all the best

This is what I think: Every post that was intended as a reply to the topic posted,save the ones that are as daft as the shithead posting them has a bit of the truth in it as regards the issue at hand. Talking about replies from musty,wesley,et al, they all speak a part of the truth.
Now herein lies the dilemma,as much as we try to explain it away,wish it on,or pretend that it doesn't abound,true love from a woman is exceedingly RARE people!!!
Do we have to repeat it all again,it's a topic that has been beaten to a pulp!, read my lips,nay fingers,you are the LUCKIEST man on God's planet earth if you get a woman that loves you just for Y-O-U. She's always more often than not there for a purpose a reason. Yes,she might love you some 70-90% but the whole nine yards, forget it!.
Coming to your scenerio,I'd say this,pretend that you are broke and she'll soon find out ( don't aske me how, they have their means,remember it's a big world and at the same time it's small as Bleep!). And when she does you are literally finished! how, she'll play the game with you, tally along knowing very well that you are not in the know that she's aware of your financial background. She'll act the way you want her to act, just like the dog in Pavlol's experiment. So here you are thinking that you got a good girl on your hands,news flash! you are being played. She knows you want her trust,and it's just a matter of time before you decide to reward her for her piousness and faithfullness during the so called trying times that you initiated mind you. End of story, you lose she wins,she got her man with all the wealth and you remained in the dark as regards the fact that she knew you were stinking rich from the beginning, the Eddie Murphy thing in Coming To America is not the route to go me boy save you can actually conceal your true financial status and you know how difficult that is in Naija, someone that knows your cousin's brother's mom's sister will tell on you. So your pauper persona is poof!!!
Another thing you have to know as regards this true love thing is this: How pretty or beautiful is she? is she loaded?, an ugly broka ass girl has little choice but to cling to a guy who show's interest in her moreoften than not regardless of his financial status. It's a long story but I'll cut it short.
LISTEN GOOD!!! you want to know a woman that loves you independent of your dough,looks et al, I'll tell you how if you can be patient enough.
A woman who is as rich as you are richer than you are,or almost as rich as you are,beautiful as they come,from a wealthy background and all the trappings that come with wealth going out with you is 90% likely in love with you for you!, how?, here's how,
Let's assume you were accompanied a friend to a birthday bash of this lady that looks as beautiful as well, lives in a swank apartment,cruises round town in a sleek BMW X-6,gainfully employed or even an employer of persons,holidays abroad like it aint a thing,I mean the whole works, now you jet into this party with let us say an M-Class right,and reasonably dressed,looking reasonably good,as in your features are just like the guy next door,not an oranguatang but definitely not an adonis or don juan either. So the party kicks off,of course you are feeling the celebrant,who isn't. Now here comes a guy who waltzes in and happens to be the cynosure of all eyes,of course you know guys like that, in the looks dept.he beats you flat, how about the green-backs let's see, he came in with a 2008 BMW-7.4, limited edition and in tow is an escalade, you know, his crew. That tells you one thing, he's loaded!, she get's on the dance floor and he showers her with dough, like they do,dollars and stuff.
Eventually you get a chance to have a quick word with the celebrant,and seeing there's nothing to lose you request her number and surprisingly she let's you have it,well,you tell urself it aint nuthing,as you've seeing her doing same to other guest. The party is over and you give her a call on a whim,she responds and stuff, cut a long story short,you checked her out at the office and Mr.BMW is there this time witn a Bentley Coupe parked on her driveway,but you discover she's feeling you, so blah blah blah, you end up dating, you can't believe your luck,dating a wealthy beauty queen, she bought you the car of your dreams for your birthday, now here's the poser: Does She Really Love You Or Is She After Your Money?
So my dear Poster?the answer to ur question is hidden in between these lines of mine, sniff it out. Sorry for the long retort.

I'm very tempted to laugh at this thread. It started out quite funny but I think Michelin and topup have answered in their epistles.
My answer? Be yourself, pray very hard and try not to buy girls by spoiling them too much with gifts.

@OP
Rich, young, successful and handsome are all relative. You may not be able to get real answers until you are able to tell us for example how rich.Every shoe get size.

my guy keep trying, u go see better one

dayokanu:

This Adam whatever needs to get laid seriously or why is he wanking over Davidylan.

Na wa oh

its been a long time since adambrody kissed a woman not to talk of making love

naaaa i think its just envy,because no matter how hard he tries in d religion section,he just can't beat david to the game,hence d anger

play more jare adam,maybe then u might be able to defeat dafidi

Moonstone:

I'm very tempted to laugh at this thread. It started out quite funny but I think Michelin and topup have answered in their epistles.
My answer? Be yourself, pray very hard and try not to buy girls by spoiling them too much with gifts.

no be small epistle oooo

i wonder who's got the time to read that novel they posted on here

Pennywise:

@OP
Rich, young, successful and handsome are all relative. You may not be able to get real answers until you are able to tell us for example how rich.Every shoe get size.

walahi na true yarn u yarn

this poster myt be a villager and be braggin to be rich because he has the only bicycle in the village