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5 Reasons Ladies Find It Difficult To Approach Guys by Nobody: 8:13am On Jan 27, 2015 |
this topic has been going on for years, many guys don't seem to understand the reasons why ladies refuse to approach them. Having grown up in an environment filled with ladies I know much about them and I came up with this thread 1). Shyness This is one of the main reasons why ladies find it hard to approach guys the lack confidence and when they eventually get the boldness to approach they guy of their dreams they get the cold feet. 2). Arrogance Some ladies are just so arrogant and full of thereselves they can't seem to reckon with the idea of approaching a guy they've instilled the idea that guys alone should approach a lady and not otherwise 3). Fear of rejection Even we the guys fear rejection talkmore of the ladies, most ladies are afraid of rejection this sometimes can be a psychological problem both to the guys and the ladies. The key to this is boldness and nothing else. 4). Fear of been ridiculed This is a known fact to all that guys tend to be childish in cases like this, some guys even go as far as to tell all the guys in their department by so doing ridiculing the lady.[/ 5). Respect Some ladies believe that when they approach a guy, the guy automatically looses respect for the lady and tend to treat her like cabbage. composed by----samflexxy 7 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: 5 Reasons Ladies Find It Difficult To Approach Guys by MuguliciousMUGU: 8:16am On Jan 27, 2015 |
7) money if the guy does not have money the lady would be so shy, arrogant, fear of rejection, fear of being riducled and respected to approach you. She will combine all those your 6 reasons together. Don't try the ladies... 47 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: 5 Reasons Ladies Find It Difficult To Approach Guys by Nobody: 8:17am On Jan 27, 2015 |
Re: 5 Reasons Ladies Find It Difficult To Approach Guys by englishmart(m): 8:24am On Jan 27, 2015 |
Well it depends on the girl(s). I've actually lost count on the number of girls that have asked me out. And I can't remember saying no to any of them 8 Likes |
Re: 5 Reasons Ladies Find It Difficult To Approach Guys by vizkiz: 8:24am On Jan 27, 2015 |
these nigerian chicks better wake up!!! Its 2015 for furck sake 3 Likes |
Re: 5 Reasons Ladies Find It Difficult To Approach Guys by englishmart(m): 8:26am On Jan 27, 2015 |
MuguliciousMUGU: You have the right to remain silent for anything you do or say from henceforth, shall be regarded as bullshit 13 Likes |
Re: 5 Reasons Ladies Find It Difficult To Approach Guys by alberto2k(m): 8:26am On Jan 27, 2015 |
*observing from the roof of my Bus* Sammie... Nice one jare May your ancestors continue to increase your knowledge. 1 Like |
Re: 5 Reasons Ladies Find It Difficult To Approach Guys by skywalker888(f): 8:27am On Jan 27, 2015 |
Op I like your threads they are always short and precise nice one Back to the topic I agree with all the points 2 Likes |
Re: 5 Reasons Ladies Find It Difficult To Approach Guys by skywalker888(f): 8:29am On Jan 27, 2015 |
englishmart:ah bross take am small small now 5 Likes |
Re: 5 Reasons Ladies Find It Difficult To Approach Guys by MuguliciousMUGU: 8:29am On Jan 27, 2015 |
englishmart:englishmart may type like a confused person, and think like a confused person, but don't be deceived by his looks, because he is truly a confused person... 18 Likes 1 Share |
Re: 5 Reasons Ladies Find It Difficult To Approach Guys by MuguliciousMUGU: 8:30am On Jan 27, 2015 |
skywalker888: don't mind him, he thinks through his an*s 2 Likes |
Re: 5 Reasons Ladies Find It Difficult To Approach Guys by ggrin(f): 8:30am On Jan 27, 2015 |
englishmart:in ur weird dreams 4 Likes |
Re: 5 Reasons Ladies Find It Difficult To Approach Guys by chibwike(m): 8:30am On Jan 27, 2015 |
thats how its meant to be..its not their fault |
Re: 5 Reasons Ladies Find It Difficult To Approach Guys by ArchEnemy(m): 8:32am On Jan 27, 2015 |
8. Norm The society sees it as a man's job 4 Likes |
Re: 5 Reasons Ladies Find It Difficult To Approach Guys by Nobody: 8:34am On Jan 27, 2015 |
Nice...all ur point works both ways....guys and girls have same problem |
Re: 5 Reasons Ladies Find It Difficult To Approach Guys by Nobody: 8:34am On Jan 27, 2015 |
samflexxy:this topic has been going on for years, samflexxy don't seem to understand the reasons why ladies refuse to approach him. Having grown up in an environment filled with ladies he dosnt seem to know much about them and I came up with this thread 1). Shyness This is one of the main reasons why samflexxy find it hard to approach gals. He lack confidence and when he eventually get the boldness to approach the girl of his dreams he get the cold feet. 2). Arrogance Samflexxy is just so arrogant and full of himsef dat hecan't seem to reckon with the idea of approaching a gal he hav instilled the idea that girls alone should approach a guy and not otherwise 3). Fear of rejection Even we the guys fear rejection talkmore of the ladies, most ladies are afraid of rejection this sometimes can be a psychological problem both to the guys and the ladies. The key to this is boldness and nothing else. 4). Fear of been ridiculed This is a known fact to all that samflexxy tend to be childish in cases like this, samflexxy even go as far as to tell all his guys in their department by so doing ridiculing the lady.[/ 5). Respect Samflexxy believe that when he approach a girl, the girl wil automatically looses respect for him and tend to treat him like cabbage. composed by----cutehector4u |
Re: 5 Reasons Ladies Find It Difficult To Approach Guys by chimerase2: 8:35am On Jan 27, 2015 |
Re: 5 Reasons Ladies Find It Difficult To Approach Guys by alberto2k(m): 8:37am On Jan 27, 2015 |
englishmart:What are u feeling like now? 2 Likes |
Re: 5 Reasons Ladies Find It Difficult To Approach Guys by alberto2k(m): 8:41am On Jan 27, 2015 |
Cutehector4u: |
Re: 5 Reasons Ladies Find It Difficult To Approach Guys by Nobody: 8:42am On Jan 27, 2015 |
alberto2k:lol. U wil hear frm me soon. |
Re: 5 Reasons Ladies Find It Difficult To Approach Guys by xynerise: 8:43am On Jan 27, 2015 |
englishmart:Noise maker. Guys be forming Leonardo DiCaprio 3 Likes |
Re: 5 Reasons Ladies Find It Difficult To Approach Guys by Hazardd(m): 8:53am On Jan 27, 2015 |
chibwike:who is this one... 2 Likes |
Re: 5 Reasons Ladies Find It Difficult To Approach Guys by tosyne2much(m): 9:00am On Jan 27, 2015 |
OP, you are da bomb.. Your write up are always short but precise 1 Like |
Re: 5 Reasons Ladies Find It Difficult To Approach Guys by Nobody: 9:02am On Jan 27, 2015 |
Cutehector4u:see this dude oooo |
Re: 5 Reasons Ladies Find It Difficult To Approach Guys by Nobody: 9:05am On Jan 27, 2015 |
alberto2k: |
Re: 5 Reasons Ladies Find It Difficult To Approach Guys by alberto2k(m): 9:11am On Jan 27, 2015 |
Cutehector4u: *Waiting* |
Re: 5 Reasons Ladies Find It Difficult To Approach Guys by Nobody: 9:23am On Jan 27, 2015 |
alberto2k:you dey wait for hector men the guy na boko o e go send one of in suicide bombers to your crip and you know the rest |
Re: 5 Reasons Ladies Find It Difficult To Approach Guys by Joshkid(m): 9:24am On Jan 27, 2015 |
englishmart:Hmmmm...I dey c tinz 1 Like |
Re: 5 Reasons Ladies Find It Difficult To Approach Guys by Nobody: 9:25am On Jan 27, 2015 |
samflexxy:hehehehehehe say mk I find small trouble ds mornin |
Re: 5 Reasons Ladies Find It Difficult To Approach Guys by HizMissy(f): 9:27am On Jan 27, 2015 |
Not the ladies' business. |
Re: 5 Reasons Ladies Find It Difficult To Approach Guys by Smartwizy(m): 9:33am On Jan 27, 2015 |
lol true........... buh abt 3 of my past exes wooed me........ dont quote me. |
Re: 5 Reasons Ladies Find It Difficult To Approach Guys by alberto2k(m): 9:39am On Jan 27, 2015 |
samflexxy:My grandpa don gimme jazz for bomb tay tay |
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