modelmike7:
. . . . . . So, do you mean you actually gave out your virginity @ Primary 4? I hope not!

yes like as a said @primary 4 and also @age of 11. I was sexually abused by my father.

Evandiv:
yes like as a said @primary 4 and also @age of 11. I was sexually abused by my father.

. . . . . . . . I am very happy that you said you are doing good and fine now. Why don't you advice the OP how you were able to get it off your mind, it might just help her. . . . . What a world we live in! Thank God for your life now.

Edusouls:
we humans have not yet understand the kind of world we live in, God himself has laws and curses evil and wickedness, my brother the final truth is that many people are set to dammnation many have sold their souls to the devil...

Yea ma broda I agree with u but u need to know dat even if any has sold his/her soul to devil, there is still hope for such person as long as God is concerned...d ball most times is in d court of such person to make d decision to genuinely change his/her evil ways... I believe dat dos who are of age set for damnation are those who have chosen to b among d dammed but if one dosnt want to b dammed, it very very possible to be undammed by God trust me.

*amazed*Where am I? this place really looks like Sodom and Gommorah! I suspect family altar is at work here... deliverance and Revival needed urgently and very seriously.
*Scream* somebody Helepppp!

Dis is quite unfortunate bt such is life. U need 2 forgt abt d past because dat has gone. Focus on ur future n think abt gettin married afterall u a graduate. Things culd be better if u ar married!

exactly the same thing am saying, God saves those who wants to be saved, but dont let it be too late...

EOOJ:



Yea ma broda I agree with u but u need to know dat even if any has sold his/her soul to devil, there is still hope for such person as long as God is concerned...d ball most times is in d court of such person to make d decision to genuinely change his/her evil ways... I believe dat dos who are of age set for damnation are those who have chosen to b among d dammed but if one dosnt want to b dammed, it very very possible to be undammed by God trust me.

Edusouls:
exactly the same thing am saying, God saves those who wants to be saved, but dont let it be too late...

Ok ok...now I get u. No mind me jare.

Yes bossss

Go to MFM to will deliver u

This is really bad.I just can't imagine what pleasure a father or parent can derive from seeing the unclothedness of his offspring,let alone penetrating it...really disgusting.I know of a man who has already defiled/disvirgined his now 5 year old daughter,he started the incestous act right from when she was two & her unreasonable mother has never taken any legal action against him,all in the excuse of"do u want him to kill me?" ...still shaking my head for her. @ topic,all the poster needs is to seek a sex therapist & willingly take her mind off indiscriminate sex,of course the therapist will inculcate in her a balanced psychology on sex & with determination on her part to abide by the therapic rules/measures,her present dillema will be a thing of the past.

FrancisTony:
There's nothing spiritual about your case.

All you need is self counselling and trying hard to abstain from sexual thoughts whenever it comes to your mind. Get a pure & chaste friend to confide in/with, i.e who will, well-advise you whenever you get the urge..

I don't believe your daddy was cursed, either--we are always quick to divulge everything to spiritual realm.

I believe it's an act he learnt. Perversion!

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OP,I can't imagine what u must be going through in your life. Pls accept my sympathy.

We may have 2 leave out d spiritual part for now. Cos if it was, I believe d numerous deliverances conducted on u shld hav solved d problem. I think even if it weren't ur dad,but someone else(houseboy,driver,neighbour,etc),withd frequency u had it @ such tender age,u'd have still bn in ds situation.

Dear,u're most likely suffering from an addiction...sex addiction. Don't know if uv heard of that but there are many people in similar conditions,and with similar stories as yours. It may surprise u that a handful of d guys u call 'players' also have a history of childhood sex abuse(from older girls). Guys don't grieve abt d past,so u may never know.

Having sex (and regularly) @ such tender age,d sensation must have registered in ur brain as one of those essential cravings to be satisfied regularly...just like food for hunger and water for thirst. I can imagine u were also very sexually active in ur secondary sch days, far away from ur dad. It's d cravings...cravings created in ur brain by ur childhood experience.

What I think u need is a visit to d psychiatrist/psychologist for evaluation and possible therapy. In some societies,there are actually therapy groups for conditions like this. But for a start,pls try a psychologist. He/she cld put u through on d next step 2 take(I suspect d suggestion of a psychiatrist will not go down well with u. In ds part of d world,we associate psychiatry with madness).

I also think u may need 2 get in touch with Evandiv. She stated in her post she was also abused by her father,but she's doing just fine now. She may be of help to you.

I wish you well.

adexsimply:
According to the bible, we're all products of inbreeding

As in how? hope u wount mind to shed more light, cos as for me am not.