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Somebody Help Me. by Enockia(m): 12:54pm On Dec 27, 2008 |
i really need help!!! please somebody tell me wat to do when u lose ur loved one |
Re: Somebody Help Me. by plappville(f): 4:55pm On Dec 28, 2008 |
Take heart life goes on, cos even if u cry from now till 10 yrs time the person will not come back to life. so learn not to think too much, occupy ur day with other friends and try contibuting in table discussion by so doing u will feel less pain of ur lost loved one. Hope this help. |
Re: Somebody Help Me. by JJYOU: 5:08pm On Dec 28, 2008 |
sorry to hear that. sad to say the memory and pain never goes away. just pray for yourself in the area of healing and get doing things you ought to do and get on with your life. you have your life ahead of you. we lost my Gran and mum some few yrs back. i know they are with Christ i still miss them and the pain i just cant describe. especially that of my mum. you cannot forget uniquely nice people. infact you should never forget your loved ones. if you have the means do something to make their memory live longer than them. may God help you and pour His healing balm on you and yours. Christ is always friend of the wounded heart. may He make you whole my brother |
Re: Somebody Help Me. by tpia: 3:24am On Dec 29, 2008 |
I seriously doubt Enockia lost his loved one in the manner people are thinking. He's probably referring to his girlfriend who dumped him after he cheated on her with her friend. He's been moaning everywhere since the alleged incident and breakup. ![]() bros, take heart. Next time try not to get caught by the "before I knew it" bug. Knowing it isnt that hard. |
Re: Somebody Help Me. by t4tgirl(f): 3:29pm On Dec 29, 2008 |
cry then cry some more, then cry till ur too tired of crying, if u do this for a while u'll get tired of crying and start living!!! Life goes on, who knows, it just might get better. The sooner u create new memories the old ones fade away |
Re: Somebody Help Me. by sexyLeamon(f): 3:52pm On Dec 29, 2008 |
t4tgirl:please ya ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() |
Re: Somebody Help Me. by Angolobabe(f): 11:04pm On Dec 30, 2008 |
Only time can heal u its ok to mourn or cry take ur time ,dont let people rush u by telling u to move on with ur life as its always not that easy,try to spend more time with some close family and friends and do things that u like to will keep u busy.talking about it with anyone that will listen, it will also help release the sadness by sharing them than keeping it to urself, |
Re: Somebody Help Me. by Ben13: 10:52am On Dec 31, 2008 |
Call the loved one many names to decrease the pains. |
Re: Somebody Help Me. by Cure: 2:26pm On Jan 02, 2009 |
Jesus is the greatest comforter ;come to Him through prayer .He come comfort u. |
Re: Somebody Help Me. by realnikky: 5:34pm On Jan 03, 2009 |
Just try and be strong, believe in the bible hope of resurection.talk 2 sm1 bot it,cry when u are in mood to cause it helps 2 lessen d tension in you. |
Re: Somebody Help Me. by mohawkchic(f): 5:50pm On Jan 03, 2009 |
~Only way i learned how to cope is by keeping the memories of that loved one alive!! Remember them for what they were . . .you do cry some,feel like there's nothing worth living for . . .you'll have a moment that will remind you of that individual,something will trigger off a memory . . . .take one day at a time! ~Appreciate every passing Emotion of life & Pray for the pain to ease over the years!! Its aint easy but hey . . .Its a pain we all have to dael w/ as death is Inevitable!! |
Re: Somebody Help Me. by topkin(m): 9:41pm On Jan 04, 2009 |
I just guess u have to deal with it somehow. . . . Life is not always fair but try & be fair to urslf. Cheer up, life does not end there. |
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