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Re: Reasons Why You Shouldn't Stay In Family House During NYSC by free2ryhme: 8:07pm On Feb 06, 2015
And he just posted nonsense
Re: Reasons Why You Shouldn't Stay In Family House During NYSC by Emlina(f): 8:08pm On Feb 06, 2015
Batch A 2015 tins...

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Re: Reasons Why You Shouldn't Stay In Family House During NYSC by tiamiyukunle69(m): 8:09pm On Feb 06, 2015
Lols. Counter thread. Me no kuku stay for family house during my NYSC days and I enjoyed it wella grin
Re: Reasons Why You Shouldn't Stay In Family House During NYSC by HFOG(f): 8:09pm On Feb 06, 2015
Whatever. If I had to serve again, I'll still stay in family house.
Re: Reasons Why You Shouldn't Stay In Family House During NYSC by fleps(m): 8:10pm On Feb 06, 2015
right
Re: Reasons Why You Shouldn't Stay In Family House During NYSC by ElectronByte(m): 8:11pm On Feb 06, 2015
Don't think many male Corp members would like staying in family's house. It's flexing period full of seed sowing
Re: Reasons Why You Shouldn't Stay In Family House During NYSC by ayusco85(m): 8:12pm On Feb 06, 2015
Na so
Re: Reasons Why You Shouldn't Stay In Family House During NYSC by pamcode(m): 8:24pm On Feb 06, 2015
Martins301:
XtraSmooth404 what do you think?
can you enlighten me sir what family house and nccf stuff, *i was just admitted into university
Re: Reasons Why You Shouldn't Stay In Family House During NYSC by jevic(m): 8:33pm On Feb 06, 2015
Tell me do you love this family(NCCF)?
Re: Reasons Why You Shouldn't Stay In Family House During NYSC by Nobody: 8:38pm On Feb 06, 2015
pamcode:
can you enlighten me sir what family house and nccf stuff, *i was just admitted into university

Man NYSC still far from you seeing that you just got admitted into school. Anyway, NCCF is Nigeria Christian Corpers Fellowship. Muslims have theirs and Catholics have theirs as well. NCCF family house is a house where christian corpers reside. Any christian corper can stay there as long as there is vacancy and especially if you are holding a very important position in the fellowship. Hope this helps. And please, concentrate on graduating first my guy.

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Re: Reasons Why You Shouldn't Stay In Family House During NYSC by UnimkeAk(m): 8:49pm On Feb 06, 2015
UnimkeAk:
I live on my own terms.
I like my prayer private between me and my maker, I no d follow anybody drag who pray pass,
I fast when necessary,
I eat when I like and randomly,
I dont do tarry nights,

I stayed in family house 4 like a month b4 I got an accommodation (I sabi select things)

Since Me I no fit to pretend ,I didn't fit in at all, every body knew that I didn't like praying, dem sabi say I like women, I hated their food(y on earth wuld u cook just beans alone?)

I bin dey worry dem wella, na only me bin no d go church on sunday, rural rugged ke(the only rugged I kno is ___ grin), I no go anywr.

But I thank God 4 family houses sha, my mumu ppa didn't hv an accommodation, and fed poly, oko doesn't hv a hostel, everybody stays off camp, so getting an accomodation (not just any kind, a decent 1) was so hard.

Thank God for that my 1month in ACF. (Anglican corpers Fellowship, Aguata zone)

U guys helped a nigga.

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Re: Reasons Why You Shouldn't Stay In Family House During NYSC by mcprince32(m): 9:01pm On Feb 06, 2015
The family house is a great avenue to grow and nature spiritually
Re: Reasons Why You Shouldn't Stay In Family House During NYSC by mcprince32(m): 9:01pm On Feb 06, 2015
The family house is a great avenue to grow and mature spiritually

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Re: Reasons Why You Shouldn't Stay In Family House During NYSC by mcprince32(m): 9:01pm On Feb 06, 2015
The family house is a great avenue to grow and mature spiritually.
Re: Reasons Why You Shouldn't Stay In Family House During NYSC by MadCow1: 9:11pm On Feb 06, 2015
politics..

If you can't stand people trying to politicise everything and clamour for positions and titles then please avoid Family house. I say so because the politics involved to become President and other positions brings out the true demons hiding behind those fake born again persona. I remember how the NCCF bus caused wahala because two guys (Papa and one senior Brother) were driving the thing like it was their personal car.

Control...

If you hate being bossed around by your fellow corper under the name of Papa or Mama backed by the Holy Ghost, then please avoid Family house as some of those people with titles tend to start thinking they are your father's and mothers for real.

Cluster phobia..

If you enjoy your space and don't like being inside a confined space with overly righteous Christians then avoid Family house like a plague. Because you would find yourself inside a small confined space with some really annoying born again self made pastor wannabes and prayer warriors who would be all up in your business, using your items like it was their constitutional right and expecting you to put up with their bullshit because you are also a christian living in thier community.

Hypocrisy...


If ever there was a place where the highest concentration of hypocrites could be found all together in one place, go to NCCF family house..

Too many rules and regulations..

If you are a free spirit who hates living under so many tight rules and regulations, then when you see NCCF family house, was a cross road go the other side.. The rules in some family houses would make you pray to live in Kirikiri maximum. Curfews, dress codes, relationship caveats, prayer time, food time, etc..

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Re: Reasons Why You Shouldn't Stay In Family House During NYSC by vanen2: 9:11pm On Feb 06, 2015
If you are not prepared for Christ, you will be Left Behind. No body will enter Heaven by suprise. Jesus said it's better to make Heaven with one eye and one hand than to enter hell with both eyes and hands. This means it's better to suffer pain physically, hunger, persecution, insults and forfeit worldly pleasures etc for the sake OF CHRIST. MAY THIS WORDS OF GOD CHANGE YOU.
Re: Reasons Why You Shouldn't Stay In Family House During NYSC by semasir: 9:12pm On Feb 06, 2015
In some places, you can even stay years self especially when they have spacious environment.

eunylondon:
Am prospective batch A 2015 corper. Of a truth, I like privacy very much n I can't imagine staying in d family house. But my question is....can one stay in d family house after camp for few days so as to enable u to search for a house Cos u hv to find where to sleep for days wen searching for a house..n am not cut out for d hotel thing. Pls I need reply....
Re: Reasons Why You Shouldn't Stay In Family House During NYSC by Nobody: 9:15pm On Feb 06, 2015
It depends on ur state of deployment... If u re serving @ FCT (esp. AMAC) & u have no f&f there. U've gotta swallow ur "privacy et al" & "enjoy" family house.




Meanwhile,
I'VE DECIDED #KeepItGoodWithGoodluck#
Vote 4 PDP!
Re: Reasons Why You Shouldn't Stay In Family House During NYSC by Specialist900(m): 9:32pm On Feb 06, 2015
Family house? I no fit stay o, the few days I stayed when I went to visit a friend just reminded me of the camp days. Waking up early at 4.30am and light out

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Re: Reasons Why You Shouldn't Stay In Family House During NYSC by temi4fash(m): 9:37pm On Feb 06, 2015
I stay in a family house in kwara state and its not as bad as its written here. I dont know of other family houses but these one wey I dai stay dai make brain. And the rules are not something one cannot adapt to since they are easy and not as rigid as nccf. Na girls gan gan b the wahala for family house.. Too many mysteries and wahala cna not be separated from them.
Re: Reasons Why You Shouldn't Stay In Family House During NYSC by Olaoladimeji(m): 9:45pm On Feb 06, 2015
eunylondon:
Am prospective batch A 2015 corper. Of a truth, I like privacy very much n I can't imagine staying in d family house. But my question is....can one stay in d family house after camp for few days so as to enable u to search for a house Cos u hv to find where to sleep for days wen searching for a house..n am not cut out for d hotel thing. Pls I need reply....
You can stay in family house until you secure an accommodation. That was actually what I did too when serving and besides if your journey to your place of primary assignment involve traveling for two days or you travel to another state while serving and you need somewhere to stay over instead of going to an hotel you can always go to the family house and sleep over. You only need your NYSC I'd card for admittance.
Re: Reasons Why You Shouldn't Stay In Family House During NYSC by lacreamieboie(m): 10:34pm On Feb 06, 2015
Thank u!
Re: Reasons Why You Shouldn't Stay In Family House During NYSC by OkikiOluwa1(m): 10:35pm On Feb 06, 2015
Martins301:
First I must admit that this thread was inspired by XtraSmooth404's thread. I seek to give all potential corp members a glimpse of the other side of the coin since the author of the other thread did not dwell on that.

Without further delay, here are some reasons why you shouldn't stay in a family house during NYSC:

1. Privacy
If you are someone who cherishes his/her privacy or if you haven't lived a hostle life before then don't consider staying in a family house. If you are also in a relationship then family house is a no no. If you certainly like others disturbing you during your sleep or reading time and if you like others misusing your stuff, then you have no problem. Go ahead and stay there.
Also, if you don't mind logding your friends or relatives in a hotel or motel when they come visiting and want to stay with you for some time, family house is just for you grin

2. Food
Your freedom to cook and eat what you want will be limited. Even if the food is bad you will also have to manage it. If you don't mind contributing money to offset family house cooking expenses and then staying away from the food then family house is just for you. grin

3. Poor Cultural Assimilation
One important essence of NYSC is to get you to undersand and assimilate the culture of the people where your are serving so as to promote unity amongst Nigerians. Staying in family house will deny you, to a large extent, of such opportunity. By residing in a family house, you restrict yourself to interacting, most times, with fellow corp members. Thus you hardly get to mix with and understand the people in your community

4. Security
This is specially for those staying in volatile and violence prone states. Staying in a family house can make you all an easy target for marauders and haters.

Other reasons abound but I have to stop here to do something else. Feel free to add or constructively criticize.

Martins

Bro, this is a needless thread.
I only blame the inept mod that brought ya thread to the holy FP.
Anyone who wishes to stay in a Family House be it NCCF, RCCF, WCF, DLCF etc already is prepared to only evangelise during his/her NYSC & forget any youthful urge.
What's the privacy to be enjoyed or food to be enjoyed.
Ain't they exuberants?
Don't discourage people that want to be useful for Jesus during their NYSC.

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Re: Reasons Why You Shouldn't Stay In Family House During NYSC by macuwon(m): 10:43pm On Feb 06, 2015
family house ke? I ran away immediately i finished eating their food on the first day..
we were welcomed and all gathered in the parlour like sardines.. we were given food.. the next i heard was preaching and praise and worship.. and we were practically forced to participate..
mehn.. I was tired... needed space... needed to take a bath.. needed to take off my clothes.. needed to sleep!

so I just escaped during the worship! and yes! to a hotel.. next day i made a friend.. I operated from his lodge till I got my accommodation..

till date.. they are always inviting me for fellowship.. I will come tomorrow is always my answer! dem like me sha.

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Re: Reasons Why You Shouldn't Stay In Family House During NYSC by izutex007(m): 10:44pm On Feb 06, 2015
In line wt yokiti: staying @ the family huz isnt a bad idea.... @ OP one can stl stay @ d family huz and mingle wt d host community.... Its a tin of da hrt!!!



I stayed @ NACC fammily huz Ado Ekiti...if dia was one place to stay @ Ado as a corps members, i bliv Our louge wl d d place.
Re: Reasons Why You Shouldn't Stay In Family House During NYSC by nwonufestus(m): 10:51pm On Feb 06, 2015
nice one sha,bt me serving in canada
Re: Reasons Why You Shouldn't Stay In Family House During NYSC by Nobody: 11:10pm On Feb 06, 2015
OkikiOluwa1:


Bro, this is a needless thread.
I only blame the inept mod that brought ya thread to the holy FP.
Anyone who wishes to stay in a Family House be it NCCF, RCCF, WCF, DLCF etc already is prepared to only evangelise during his/her NYSC & forget any youthful urge.
What's the privacy to be enjoyed or food to be enjoyed.
Ain't they exuberants?
Don't discourage people that want to be useful for Jesus during their NYSC.

Thats your opinion.

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