wen we started dating he was a bit fat but i rily didn't care cos he was handsome and i love him. but all of a sudden he jst started 2 blowup. i rily dn't undastand plus he sweats alot, probably cos he's fatter. i hate 2 say dis but his startin 2 av body odour 2 and his hairy chest . . . . . . . . . god! i rily dn't no how 2 tell him 2 loss weight and wax his hair. i still love him and i dn't wnt 2 hurt his feelin? what should i do?
its not lik am lookin 4 a mr perfect or this things av reduced d love i av for him. its jst dat ting could b better if dis things change

Na white boy you dey nack?

Communication is the key . . . Talk to him 'bout it.

Realy,its somehow hard cos u must be very careful so he wnt take it personal or think u are probably tired of him.so jst try n use scope like on a good day when he is in a good mood o.jst tel him how mch u love him n dt u dnt like slim guys,dt u like everything about him bt u feel it wld be better if he trims down a little bit but dt nothwtstanding u lyk him whichever way.i am so sure he wl get the message and he wld find something to do about it.it all depends on how u say it sha.

wait until his tommy blocks his deek before you tell him, thats when you go know say, black man is not the same as white man.

bronx_dog:

wait until his tommy blocks his deek before you tell him, thats when you go know say, black man is not the same as white man.

his not white, his black,nigerian.

I wouldn't mind if my girl is outspoken to any new development cus i like to know her mind always.apparently your guy would probably take your's as an offence or not.if so, i totally say you go with dolly's.it's brilliant and he's not going to have any inkling.

@poster,

it is well!

Agba tio yokun, Awun loni! The man without pot belly is a miser!

dollyn:

Realy,its somehow hard because u must be very careful so he wnt take it personal or think u are probably tired of him.so jst try n use scope like on a good day when he is in a good mood o.jst tel him how mch u love him n dt u dnt like slim guys,dt u like everything about him bt u feel it would be better if he trims down a little bit but dt nothwtstanding u like him whichever way.i am so sure he wl get the message and he would find something to do about it.it all depends on how u say it sha.

add to that where and when you say it.  topup, busybein, sisi, karmamod  and others this is in your pay grade please help

where are my lovely sisters nwando and gamine hiding this whole christmas and new year?

Nothing says go lose weight like free membership to a gym.

I belive in callin a spade a spade. U should tell him about these things nd if he really loves u like u do him then he'll understand nd do sometin. Wish u best of luck.

@ POSTER
i even tink say na beta tin u wan tell person b4 sef

Truth hurts!
He wont kill u
Tell him before he needs a crane to leave his bed

if truely you are in love with him tell him the truth and get him something to stop the odour,make him what you want him to be .

dere is no event comin up. how would i jst wake one morning and send him deodorants. it will look insultive

Jokingly say to him,That you want him to loose weight.

i av done dat a couple of times but there were no changes. i guess he tot i was jokin

Oh my,Then i think just tell him.

There is this adage that women like talking about most times: the way to a man heart is his stomarch. And most of our Nigerian ladies take this very serious and perharps I believe u might have bn into it too. How do u expect the man to remain the same when u are over feeding him. You dont have to talk to him directly, but you have to change his habits, eating, sleeping and excercise. U dont have to tell him, it is ur duty to make him the way u want. U treat him like a baby. If he comes home with bad body ordour just drag him to bathroom and give him a nice warm sure with mind blowing blowjobs. U change his diet give him more vegetables. Dont allow him to eat too much meat and beans (most Nigerian men believe to enjoy is to eat meat). U encourage him to start doing excercise by u also doing it together with him.

It seems you don't have good communication with him and is bad. On a very good day just tell him 'you don't smile good try and work on ur fat'. My girl do tell me when something is not right. Or if you can't, just get a sim and text him as someone not u

mixy12:

It seems you don't have good communication with him and is bad. On a very good day just tell him 'you don't smile good try and work on ur fat'. My girl do tell me when something is not right. Or if you can't, just get a sim and text him as someone not u

thats a good idea. i'll try dat. thanks

olanajim:

@poster,

it is well!

Agba tio yokun, Awun loni! The man without pot belly is a miser!

yes o. eni toba yokun ni ke gbowo fun,

OutlukBabe:

There is this adage that women like talking about most times: the way to a man heart is his stomarch. And most of our Nigerian ladies take this very serious and perharps I believe u might have bn into it too. How do u expect the man to remain the same when u are over feeding him. You don't have to talk to him directly, but you have to change his habits, eating, sleeping and excercise. U don't have to tell him, it is ur duty to make him the way u want. U treat him like a baby. If he comes home with bad body ordour just drag him to bathroom and give him a nice warm sure with mind blowing blowjobs. U change his diet give him more vegetables. don't allow him to eat too much meat and beans (most Nigerian men believe to enjoy is to eat meat). U encourage him to start doing excercise by u also doing it together with him.

Go with this . , Its a good one!!

what makes you believe so

If you love him, help to encourage him on what to do, it is not a big deal.

OutlukBabe:

There is this adage that women like talking about most times: the way to a man heart is his stomarch. And most of our Nigerian ladies take this very serious and perharps I believe u might have bn into it too. How do u expect the man to remain the same when u are over feeding him. You don't have to talk to him directly, but you have to change his habits, eating, sleeping and excercise. U don't have to tell him, it is ur duty to make him the way u want. U treat him like a baby. If he comes home with bad body ordour just drag him to bathroom and give him a nice warm sure with mind blowing blowjobs. U change his diet give him more vegetables. don't allow him to eat too much meat and beans (most Nigerian men believe to enjoy is to eat meat). U encourage him to start doing excercise by u also doing it together with him.

ah, ujujaon your mother taught you well, jeez which man will ever reisist a bath like that, makes me wanna have body odour too

desthan:

ah, ujujaon your mother taught you well, jeez which man will ever reisist a bath like that, makes me want to have body odour too

nna bros e be like say u know wetin dey my mind that bath go sweet well well

What the heck are you guys talking about