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So Once Again Where Do You See Yourself In 5yrs? by Nobody: 12:31pm On Feb 02, 2015
YoungLadies.......where do you see yourself
in 5yrs? Where do you see your future going?
Whether you see yourself married or single
with a career, what you do now will
determine how comfortable you'll be.
A woman must have goals, she must see
herself more than a wife, you are a soul that
came to earth for a reason, your life also has
a purpose..
A woman must be independent, you must
learn to stand on your own two feet, not for
oppression or for competition with a man, but
for survival....
A woman that have no dreams will become,
her friends errand girl, you will be that one
friend amongst them that everyone calls
whenever they need someone to send back
and forth, while they are at work or in their
business place....because they know you are
always available, you have no life, no future,
always available...
A married woman that totally depends on her
hubby for everything is building resentments,
a man will respect you when you have
something you can bring to the table.....even
if he is well to do, his respect for you will
multiply, not because he want your money,
but because you are representing him well in
public......
In this day and age, no man wants a liability
for a wife, they want an independent woman,
they want your support, they want a mate
that they can borrow her mind when it's time
to make decisions.....
You are inviting abuse and resentment if you
wait on a man for your total well being, if
he's feeding, clothing and doing it
all.....eventually he will want to control you,
matter of fact he owns your, you are his
property, because if he says no.....no is no,
you will have no opinion, if you disagree, you
will not get what you want from him.....if he
says sit you must sit or no money, no food,
no clothing.....for your self respect, have
your own, for your dignity, have your
own....you won't have a say in your own
home....
Eventually you will start to resent him, more
importantly, you will start to resent and hate
yourself.......you will lose respect of
people....
So once again where do you see yourself in
5yrs? start to look at what you can do today
to better your tomorrow....do you need to go
back to school, it's never too late, what do
you need to do to make that happen? do you
prefer to learn a trade? How will you make it
happen?
Your future and the future of your children
depends on it......your hubby may decide to
leave or God forbids he dies, where would
you be?
Wake up, think on this....yes you are a
woman, but your purpose here is not to be a
bystander.....you are also capable of
leading........
There's nothing wrong if you lend or even
give your hubby money to start a business....
NOTHING!
Those days of them saying female children
are worthless are over...........
OVER!
STAND UP!!!
Re: So Once Again Where Do You See Yourself In 5yrs? by DeeBoiyy: 12:49pm On Feb 02, 2015
In five years i see you in kirikiri angry angry
Re: So Once Again Where Do You See Yourself In 5yrs? by iceberylin(m): 1:08pm On Feb 02, 2015
Swearing into office..

President things cool


#BELIEVE
Re: So Once Again Where Do You See Yourself In 5yrs? by KingTom(m): 1:23pm On Feb 02, 2015
I see myself married to Sarimah, with 20 children, and also President of the Nigerian Medical Association(NMA) as well as Chief medical Director (CMD) in my hospital grin grin grin
Re: So Once Again Where Do You See Yourself In 5yrs? by Nobody: 1:34pm On Feb 02, 2015
In five years from now I see dangote being by driver
Re: So Once Again Where Do You See Yourself In 5yrs? by Sarimah(f): 1:41pm On Feb 02, 2015
KingTom:
I see myself married to Sarimah, with 20 children, and also President of the Nigerian Medical Association(NMA) as well as Chief medical Director (CMD) in my hospital grin grin grin
I like your faith grin
Re: So Once Again Where Do You See Yourself In 5yrs? by KingTom(m): 1:44pm On Feb 02, 2015
Sarimah:
I like your faith grin
Shebi 20 children is not too much grin
Re: So Once Again Where Do You See Yourself In 5yrs? by Sarimah(f): 1:53pm On Feb 02, 2015
KingTom:
Shebi 20 children is not too much grin
Nah...why not make it 40?
Re: So Once Again Where Do You See Yourself In 5yrs? by KingTom(m): 1:55pm On Feb 02, 2015
Sarimah:
Nah...why not make it 40?
Okay, the more the merrier, shall we try 60? grin
Re: So Once Again Where Do You See Yourself In 5yrs? by Nobody: 1:57pm On Feb 02, 2015
maybe I should go and ask T.B. Joshua
Re: So Once Again Where Do You See Yourself In 5yrs? by Sarimah(f): 2:01pm On Feb 02, 2015
KingTom:
Okay, the more the merrier, shall we try 60? grin
u aff craze finish grin
Re: So Once Again Where Do You See Yourself In 5yrs? by KingTom(m): 2:02pm On Feb 02, 2015
Sarimah:
u aff craze finish grin
No I still get small uncraze with me grin
Re: So Once Again Where Do You See Yourself In 5yrs? by Sarimah(f): 2:05pm On Feb 02, 2015
KingTom:
No I still get small uncraze with me grin
I doubt
Re: So Once Again Where Do You See Yourself In 5yrs? by KingTom(m): 2:31pm On Feb 02, 2015
Sarimah:
I doubt
cry cry

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