pls tell me what to do,i have no this girl about a yr now, she going to be 18yrs in 2009 why i will b 24yrs by may 30 2009,she want to be going out with me.i think she is still very young. but she disturb me every time with calls that she is coming to my house.she is a mummy's girl, she is also a virgin.i have been avioding her.i dont no what to do now.i like her any way.pls i dont no if she is ok to my age.i mean if our age gap is ok.pls i want guys to tell me wat to do.

I think the age gap is ok for a relationship,it will only depend on her level of maturity.

I don't see any thing wrong with the age gap.

Poster, you've got no problem

It's ok to keep her as a friend, except u are thinking of sex. This I wont advise u to do. Keep sex out of it, abeg, except u want to derail ur concentration and hers too.

@poster
My only advice is don't go out with her out of pity.If you love her,go ahead.You seem like a nice guy,i mean for putting her first.Jus don't play her cos the playa always gets played

If its not for marriage mehn leave the small girl alone, for me you should consider that kinda gap when you know you are going to marry her, if am her brother or friend i wont advice her to be your girlfriend, she needs someone her level, cmon its like a 300level Uni boy dating SS2 girl thats ,And bout her wanting to see you, most girls hope to get dis-virgined at 18 and it seems you are the lucky winner, so if u wanna help her break, enjoy but go easy.

kooldamsel:

@poster
My only advice is don't go out with her out of pity.If you love her,go ahead.You seem like a nice guy,i mean for putting her first.Jus don't play her because the playa always gets played

You sure about that?

As long as you love her too and don't have any ill-feeling towards her and can handle her, I'll say, follow your heart

guy noting dey happen, opportunity come but once, don't wast your time becos some one somewhere is ready to do so if u are not yet ready.

@ poster
d babe wants to dash you her virginity and u dey fear??
i no disvirgin person before. oya pass am to me abeg.

my guy go for it but do me this favour watch and observe her behaviour since she mummys girl cause if yawa gas your own done finish.even if when it comes down to having that sex be very careful.