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When U Finally Beat Her She Will Run To Social Media For Sympathy / My Mother Beated Me ,what Should I Do. Should I Run?advice Pls (2) (3) (4)
| Who Do I Run To by HOPEBLANK: 8:18am On Feb 06, 2015 |
Since I have no one to talk to,let me come up here n type out my heart. woke up this morning ...switched on my phone and saw a message from someone I cherished in d family . Someone i respect and i cant look to d face n speak back at...that SMS made me look like a total LOOSER. lost my job some years ago and getting another has been hell. tried my hands on diff petty trades but nothing to write home about. can't even take care of my kids,had to hang them around,am even tagged a beggar by my own family. went to meet some bricklayers to allow do DT menial job of carryg cement or blocks and am told"madam you can't do this job", tried to go for sugar daddy things but my religion moral wouldn't allow me. my younger ones see me as an elderly one who has lost value before them. the thought of the money rit...al thing came into mind"something speaks in me...do it,at least you would be able to take care of ur children... but fear of d unknown....so I dare not in tears I sleep,in tears I awake,Lord I just need Your mercy. AM I REALLY A LOSER WHAT IS IT AM DOING WRONG?I KNOW AM NOT PERFECT BUT GOD I NEED YOUR HELP NOW. I REALLY NEED YOUR HELP NOW,NOT TOMMORROW BUT NOW. I KNOW YOU ARE UP THERE.YOU HEAR ME,YOU SEE ME AS I AM..PLEASE RESCUE ME |
| Re: Who Do I Run To by Lumpyy(f): 8:26am On Feb 06, 2015 |
You are doing the right thing calling unto God,patience ma,He will show you the way! 3 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: Who Do I Run To by pickabeau1: 8:28am On Feb 06, 2015 |
Are u a single mom/widow |
| Re: Who Do I Run To by Nobody: 8:28am On Feb 06, 2015 |
it is well your dry bones shall rise again,am in a similar situation I was even depressed and suicidal but I am coming out of it gradually the externals haven't changed but the me inside is changing. Go online and find some positive heart lifting mantras and spend 10minutes repeating them loudly to yourself over and over again(its called conditioning) slowly and steadily your circumstances will change for the better you may read this book it helped me I hope it helps you too and she has some great affirmations(mantras) http://sacred-texts.com/nth/shinn/gol/index.htm 1 Like |
| Re: Who Do I Run To by Alexk2(m): 8:29am On Feb 06, 2015 |
HOPEBLANK i can relate well with you coz i'm similar shoe.....but i can only encourage you never to give up on God..He is more than able and when He answer, it'll be great..shalom! 6 Likes |
| Re: Who Do I Run To by Nobody: 8:35am On Feb 06, 2015 |
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| Re: Who Do I Run To by HOPEBLANK: 9:00am On Feb 06, 2015 |
thanks fellow NLS....thanks @bisous reading d book, @brito n pickabeau1 marital status thing explaing is really a long issue.but would it e cruel to say am a single mom when both parties a paddling d same loosing canoe? humm  thanks fellow NLS....thanks @bisous reading d book, @brito n pickabeau1 marital status thing explaing is really a long issue.but would it e cruel to say am a single mom when both parties a paddling d same loosing canoe? hummall I want is a change from GOD.. I want to be able to take care of my kids. MY KIDS MY PRIORITY .LORD PLEASE HELP ME.DONT LET ME BE DROWNED IN THIS SEA. |
| Re: Who Do I Run To by Nobody: 9:03am On Feb 06, 2015 |
HOPEBLANK: It is well my sister, I will pm u now 1 Like |
| Re: Who Do I Run To by Nobody: 9:19am On Feb 06, 2015 |
HOPEBLANK:I wish you well....... when the need is greatest the help of God is nearest 2 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: Who Do I Run To by Meringe(m): 9:24am On Feb 06, 2015 |
No where is perfect, some that have the financial muscle might be having reproductive issues or marital issue, or even being depressed from lack of love. Life is not a bed of roses, its up n down, d ability to get up when you are down makes you a super human. If everyone here start narrating his or her own prob, I bet you that you will kneel down and praise God for even giving u the chance to live in hope. BE STRONG. 2 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: Who Do I Run To by ifyalways(f): 9:29am On Feb 06, 2015 |
Now, that you got the "emotional" part off your chest, can you now share your story/situation without sentiments, if you will ma'am? You could get help from here, someone might learn one or two things. 3 Likes |
| Re: Who Do I Run To by pickabeau1: 9:57am On Feb 06, 2015 |
well done guys if anyone can help with verification, it will help her Also HOPEBLANK what kind of job can or do you want to do |
| Re: Who Do I Run To by beckytunde(f): 10:02am On Feb 06, 2015 |
ifyalways:I think the poster has shared it all. madam Its well with you, just take to what everyone has written. thank God you let it out. d help from above that you called upon will harken to. don't give up on Your God. He hasn't and won't give up on you. be rest assured that if people that has gone through D's stage can overcome it all. you too will surely overcome. God bless you. read DT book DT bisous sent... |
| Re: Who Do I Run To by beckytunde(f): 10:10am On Feb 06, 2015 |
pickabeau1:please can u explain d verification thing. |
| Re: Who Do I Run To by Debbiemma(f): 10:22am On Feb 06, 2015 |
The lord is your strenght ma.sorrow may endure for a night but joy comes in the morning.Rain of open doors is falling on you now in Jesus name,Amen 2 Likes |
| Re: Who Do I Run To by pickabeau1: 10:27am On Feb 06, 2015 |
beckytunde: verify: ascertain the genuineness of something 2 Likes |
| Re: Who Do I Run To by ifyalways(f): 11:07am On Feb 06, 2015 |
beckytunde:Well, I did'nt get it, unless maybe she edited part of her post. What hapened:- she lost her job/business folded, the hubby nko, what she studied in school, what she can do etc She does not have to respond oooo.I just asked, she can decide to ignore. 1 Like |
| Re: Who Do I Run To by HOPEBLANK: 1:12pm On Feb 06, 2015 |
ifyalways:thanks NLS bisous am really enjoying that book. thanks so much pls ifyalways don't b offended. I might not be able to divulge some sensitive issues but I can always pm you for any answer needed. thanks to all DT made attempt to pm me.replied all. |
| Re: Who Do I Run To by nnamdiosu(m): 1:25pm On Feb 06, 2015 |
HOPEBLANK: its well ma. a lot of people are going through even much more worse issues than you. are you a Christian? I suggest you read the whole book of job. job went through what your going through..... even more. but I want you to know that God really loves you and he is working out something for you. its all a test and ur going to pull through victoriously. remember s teacher is always silent during a test in a class. 1 Like |
| Re: Who Do I Run To by KanwuliaJara: 1:28pm On Feb 06, 2015 |
Where is that 'God' of impossibilities? Is it failing you?  Na which kain GOD you dey serve? The 'GOD' of frustration? 1 Like |
| Re: Who Do I Run To by Nobody: 4:35pm On Feb 06, 2015 |
HOPEBLANK:Am glad you are ,I pray it works wonders for you.....I need to re-read it too 2 Likes |
| Re: Who Do I Run To by Nobody: 4:58pm On Feb 06, 2015 |
@hopeblank please answer Ify's questions its not everyone who will PM you and you may miss out on help this way All she is asking you is to give some more practical detail so that people who may be able to address your specific situation can assist Eg you say that you lost your job, what exactly do you specialise in and are good at From what you also said, your husband too is in need . .again what are the specific requirments. The more detail you give (within reason of course and pls do keep your privacy as that is important) the more that people have give specific help. It is well When there is breath, there is always hope 3 Likes |
| Re: Who Do I Run To by jaybee3(m): 5:01pm On Feb 06, 2015 |
Lumpyy:How is this a practical solution Ma'am? Patience on what exactly or God will just perform miracles without her actively seeking practical solutions? 2 Likes |
| Re: Who Do I Run To by jaybee3(m): 5:06pm On Feb 06, 2015 |
@OP I'm sorry you are going through these issues but you need to remain positive and channel whatever energy you have to get yourself out of this mess. You first need to weed out the spirit of entitlment as that's the first logical step. You've analysed your current situation and the next thing to do is put plans in place no matter how minute they may appear at this point in time. Do you have any qualifications? - we need to know so as to ascertain if helping you find employment is the way forward What skills do you have? - This is necessary so we can match your skills to any training that might be beneficial to you going forward How are you currently surviving - You might need to downsize if there is some sort of wastage on the income you currently have Give us more insight and let's try to help you out |
| Re: Who Do I Run To by HOPEBLANK: 5:08pm On Feb 06, 2015 |
chaircover:thanks for putting more light, stay within Lagos,social sciences graduate worked as an administrative personnel . kids still young bisous thanks again |
| Re: Who Do I Run To by jaybee3(m): 5:10pm On Feb 06, 2015 |
HOPEBLANK:What's the household income How many kids do you have What's your monthly expenditure like? |
| Re: Who Do I Run To by HOPEBLANK: 5:20pm On Feb 06, 2015 |
jaybee3:three kids and d last is barely a year. income varies monthly depending on sales.dabble into sales. u need a stuff. I help you get and get my profit from it.and there are times nothing comes in. monthly expenditure depends on what comes in. or how well I was able to manage previous gainings. I try as much as possible to cut my expenses to what I have. won't pride myself but I can say am a good manager of resources. my kids are my only priority.all my expenses are based on their needs. thanks |
| Re: Who Do I Run To by jaybee3(m): 5:29pm On Feb 06, 2015 |
HOPEBLANK:Thanks for the response but are you able to be more specific? Just give me like an average monthly income. What's the average household total expense? What kind of neighbourhood do you reside at? Do you know if there is any gap in the services provided in this neighbourhood of yours? Who is your ideal customer and what kind of goods are they interested in |
| Re: Who Do I Run To by pickabeau1: 5:33pm On Feb 06, 2015 |
You are saying a lot and not saying much at the same time |
| Re: Who Do I Run To by Fhemmmy: 5:42pm On Feb 06, 2015 |
Madam, Sorry to hear all these, however, to get the help you NEED, you will have to talk, and i mean really talk and answer the questions that Jaybee, Pickabeau1 asked you as well as that of Ifyalways . . . If those kids are truly your priority, you gotta start speaking . . . Inasmuch as you wanna keep some secret, you would agree that it is NOT easy to get help without people being able to verify your claim. . . 3 Likes |
| Re: Who Do I Run To by HOPEBLANK: 5:52pm On Feb 06, 2015 |
jaybee3:an average of 10k income-----depends n not all months average household expenses of 8k children wears, shoes,anything I find to do. thinking of kerosine cos I stay around ketu--- ikorodu suburbs my customer cut across d salary earner,fulltime housewives, partisan anyone who needs what I offer and if I c a promo,contact d person in charge,we talk about price and percentage I would be getg if I bring in person hope I've been able to answer some of the questions |
| Re: Who Do I Run To by pickabeau1: 5:57pm On Feb 06, 2015 |
Your response is better now So Do you need any type of help and what type of help do you need specifically |
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