This year August 20th to be exact, my marriage will be 10 years. I have been having different thots on how to go about celebrating it. kindly suggest for me what i could do. I have been thinking on a trip to las vegas with wify, what do you think or kindly suggest other romantic places that could be nice and economical. lets go on this trip together as i planned it.
regards.

1st i have kicked of with my application for visa in order to secure one for me and wify before the August date. cheers

What do you think of Las vegas. Will it be fun, if you have been there b4, tell me about fun fill activities for couples that could boost both emotional and sexual closeness

10 long yes
Damn
Congrats

Sorry I don't know anywhere but how has the journey been so far.
I like to read it

Dyt:
10 long yes
Damn
Congrats

Sorry I don't know anywhere but how has the journey been so far.
I like to read it

well not too bad. but like yoruba proverb or adage says, " every household remove chickens at nite to keep them in proper place" i hope i passed the right message. So if any one tells you that in their village chickens don't sleep in wrong places it is a lie. Meaning every marriage has gotten its own challenges but you must be committed to the union for it to work, but importantly God. But interestingly our sex life has been fantastic so far, just like when we newly got married, despite the fact that my wife was a virgin at 31 when we got married. however thanks for your interest

bugativeron:

despite the fact that my wife was a virgin at 31 when we got married.

:O

Faints
Stands up
Runs away


Sex life still great? She's a super woman
*thumbs up*

dytbabe:


:O

Faints
Stands up
Runs away


Sex life still great? She's a super woman
*thumbs up*

yeah you can say that again. she is, i was just fortunate to have such person as a wife, who forgives me of all my transgressions and over look my shortcomings.

dytbabe:


:O

Faints
Stands up
Runs away


Sex life still great? She's a super woman
*thumbs up*

I must mention to you that God has been good and kind to us.

Dyt:
10 long yes
Damn
Congrats

Sorry I don't know anywhere but how has the journey been so far.
I like to read it

so do you want gist about how we met and how we have been coping together?

bugativeron:

so do you want gist about how we met and how we have been coping together?

Pls feel free
I enjoy love stories

dytbabe:


Pls feel free
I enjoy love stories

Ok, it goes thus;

We first met in 1994. she just graduated from her master degree program looking for job. I just came back a six month training abroad with a multinational coy. She was not dating any body but i just got into a relationship with a long time friend who we both had religious differences she being a Muslim and me xtian. So i met her at that point when I was in a relationship. I went for a religious ceremony in my place of worship, in between worship she came in with another guy who I later found out was the younger brother in the course of our gisting later in the evening.
After the program most people stayed back to gist and catch up with what has been going on. So i walked up to the brother and we got gisting, later he introduced me to her sister whom he said was on the look out for a job since she just graduated.
so i promised getting one for her later, however they should keep in touch. 2 days later the brother came to my house with her cv and I said no prob.

This happened in April, 2004, I never saw her again while i continued with my relationship. 3 months later my elder brother who is a medical doctor came down to Lagos from North that he is in need of a young lady to date and who could be of wife stuff so naturally she came to my mind course i liked her from the on set but i needed to sort out my existing relationship. so i said to my bro, well I know someone and he was like you don't mean it? so that night we went to their house, she actually stayed with her uncle who was a senior govt official in one of FG agency. we met her and she was so excited to go introduce me and my bro to her uncle's wife. we gisted for about 20 mins or there about before we left.
I guess it wasn't love at first sight for she and my bro. But for me I have done my part. so we never got to see again until 2months later when i went to her house to drop an invite for aptitude test which my office is organizing for her. she was so excited to see me and same with me.

your comment so far

Reading on

Congrats. Hapy married life ahead and more years

'10th year anniversary' and you are still on nairaland

daben1:
'10th year anniversary' and you are still on nairaland

So u think here is just for ur age mates alone?

Dyt:


So u think here is just for ur age mates alone?

hmmmm guess your dad is here too... My regards to him

daben1:
hmmmm guess your dad is here too... My regards to him

I know where kids of ur age belong
I forgive u

Dyt:



I know where kids of ur age belong
I forgive u

thanks, but i know 'women' of your type are doing something reasonable in their husband's house instead of sleeping and waking up on Nairaland...*joblessness*

So we got married some months later. It was such a big one cos she was the first person t9 get married from amongst her sibling and also the 1st grandchild to do so.
So after wedding nights we had our honey moon some where on the out skirt of lagos by the beach.
The wedding nite was good. We got to our hotel room and started counting the money gift we got. It was so much close to about 500k. That was in 2005. We were so excited and we jumped into bed excitedly. But alas there was a challenge.
Now to the main task that nite. I found out that sleeping with a 30 something year old virgin is not a child's play.
I kept at it but was crying and weeping. She tried cooperate as much as she could but the pain was unbearable. By the time it was morning time the hotel bed spread was damn soaked in pool of blood and beyond redemption. I had to go plead with the hotel management and paid for the damage to the fabric.
so later in the I called my folks and told them my was a virgin. The following weekend they travelled to her folks place some two states away from lagos to go give them a goat and show appreciation for the kind of gift they got.

wristwatch:
Congrats. Hapy married life ahead and more years

thanks

ronald4lif:


I know him

You both are in the real world

We both are in the E world

*Coughs*

I never knew my work has just started. We couldnt perform our husband and wife duty very well because most nites wify was in pains and the hymen was yet to be broken. Then we started quarelling. For me I felt she wasnt enduring enough for her she felt I was insensitive to her pains. Gosh sex became a nightmare in the 1st one week. However gradually with endurance and patience on my part and she too very ready to cooperate we over came the barrier. By two weeks later men it was heaven on earth. So the story goes

Dyt:
Reading on

So it went my sister.