mohawkchic:

~What i don't get is why Some African men especially let their Ego take precedence & get the best of them !! In the process,they loose focus of working together as a Unit & put more emphasis on who earns the bigger paycheck!!

~Heard of so many r/s gone down the drains b/c of this factor! Quite sad! Misplaced Priorities!!

JJYOU:

sad  why do people go into relationships?

~What you mean? was it meant as a rhetorical question ? or -Is the[i] "Sad"[/i] in your reply in refrence to me saying

mohawkchic:

~What i don't get is why Some African men  especially let their Ego take precedence & get the best of them !! In the process,they  loose focus of working together as a Unit & put more emphasis on who earns the bigger paycheck!!

~Heard of so many r/s gone down the drains b/c of this factor! Quite sad! Misplaced Priorities!!

mohawkchic:

~What you mean? was it meant as a rhetorical question ? or -Is the[i] "Sad"[/i] in your reply in refrence to me saying

ehie007:

for me i don't see anyfin wrong with that, all depends on who is in control, i know some people whose wives earns more, but the men are in charge of the home, before you marry such woman, u will have to let her know that ur in charge and her money shouldnt get into her head, its no easy to find husband, its only stupid women that have money more than their husbands that will start misbehaving, because they will loose eventually,

for me i wont mind if my future wife has more money or earns more than me, because i can handle it, but if u know as a man that u wont be able to handle it, its better u don't venture into marrying her, capishe

farotika:

U don't have to turn yourself into a monster to ur wife just because u want control of the house. Some men do that because of inferiority complex.

What both need is understanding, togetherness, love and respect for each other. When these virtues are present, you wont even know or think of who is earning more.

farotika:

U don't have to turn yourself into a monster to ur wife just because u want control of the house. Some men do that because of inferiority complex.


What both need is understanding, togetherness, love and respect for each other. When these virtues are present, you wont even know or think of who is earning more.

TOYOSI20:

Need i say more??

~No M'am! 

C2H5OH:

I don't give a shit if she earns more. The more the merrier. So long as she doesn't grow a pair of balls because of it.

nikkylolly:

LMAO! What's your definition of 'growing a pair of balls'?

mohawkchic:


~Heard of so many r/s gone down the drains b/c of this factor! Quite sad! Misplaced Priorities!!