For weeks now, this topic has been haunting my mind. I do wonder why most of the so called lovers break up despite the proclaimed love at the onset of their courtship. I keep on imagining what could have caused a divorce in once a happy relationship. Then I found what I think should be responsible for this ignoble act.

There is a bit confussion between "love who you marry and marry who you love". The misapplication of these dicta explain why rifts are so common among both dating and married lovers. It is not a gainsaying to conclude that 90% singles nowadays will cite inability to "see" true lovers. But the question is "is there any true lover in existence? To your surprise NO is the answer.

What I think would solve the issue of breaking up or divorce is the application of "love who you marry rather than "marry who you love". This explains why the marriage of most of our parents lasts even for almost decades. All though they fight, they solve it amicably. The reason is that they love who they marry not the other way round. Ask majority of them how they met or started their relationship, they wil tell you they hardly know each other, they just met maybe through friends or maybe a case in which father introduces suitor to his daughter.

They started the love and in small time, got married, then started assessing each other's behaviour, therefore end up love and respect each other's weakness and strength. But if "you marry who you love", what wil happen if the love fades because to be sincere love fades.

*crossed legs *









It's true.

falconey:
great write up

Optimall:
*crossed legs *
It's true.

So not only me never sleep?

When people marry for wrong reasons,wrong things is bound to happen..

Hmm! Really good tot.