Have you ever turned down a lady who has expressed a romantic interest in you?

Ladies usually don't express their interest in a guy unless they know you well and it takes immense love in her heart for her to break the norms and take the lead in expressing interest. So guys, have you ever turned down a lady?
And to the ladies who has done this before, how do you feel when you're turned down by the guy you really cared for?

You dont turn down whats RARE

Yes. I hailed her courage and thanked her, but affirmed my love for my family, over everything else. It takes a brave and mature lady to do so. We both understand our boundaries and remain close till date.

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Hell No! It will discourage others

yeah! i've done that many times. expecially when you're very serious in your studies.

I have before. I actually just did last week. But I always show respect to them and keep them as friends Some friendship is greater than romance. However, some girls ended up hating me for it.

I turned down 3 when I was trying to woo my Gf (ex) simply because I didn't want to double date. We broke up some months later and I ended up losing 4 ladies.

lukuluku101:
Yes. I hailed her courage and thanked her, but affirmed my love for my family, over everything else. It takes a brave and mature lady to do so. We both understand our boundaries and remain close till date.

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iceberylin:
You dont turn down whats RARE

what if you don't love her?

I've done that at least up to 3 times; reasons are 1. The first one was not my taste cos I can't date a lady who is fatter than my mum, I turned down the second one due to age brackets, the girl is older than I am and I can't marry my elder sister's mate. The other one was turned down due to religious differences, she's a chronic SU xtian and am a practicing Muslim.

I've done that at least up to 3 times; reasons are 1. The first one was not my taste cos I can't date a lady who is fatter than my mum, I turned down the second one due to age brackets, the girl is older than I am and I can't marry my elder sister's mate. The other one was turned down due to religious differences, she's a chronic SU xtian that cannot convert to any other faith again and am a practicing Muslim.

Horlertoungy:
I've done that at least up to 3 times; reasons are 1. The first one was not my taste cos I can't date a lady who is fatter than my mum, I turned down the second one due to age brackets, the girl is older than I am and I can't marry my elder sister's mate. The other one was turned down due to religious differences, she's a chronic SU xtian that cannot convert to any other faith again and am a practicing Muslim.

U be mumu if u can't date someone older than you..
na small small girls u dey chase around.. u kinda sound like a perv.

ekundayoalo:
what if you don't love her?

you Bleep her.

ekundayoalo:
Have you ever turned down a lady who has expressed a romantic interest in you?

Ladies usually don't express their interest in a guy unless they know you well and it takes immense love in her heart for her to break the norms and take the lead in expressing interest. So guys, have you ever turned down a lady?
And to the ladies who has done this before, how do you feel when you're turned down by the guy you really cared for?

Lol, just yesterday. But i still want her to confess more. The funniest thing is that she's deeply in love but i don't trust these girls

Codedrock:

U be mumu if u can't date someone older than you..
na small small girls u dey chase around.. u kinda sound like a perv.

You're a daft. How can I be dating someone who's older than I am? It's the guys of your kind who carry sugar mummy around. Mtcheeeew

Codedrock:

U be mumu if u can't date someone older than you..
na small small girls u dey chase around.. u kinda sound like a perv.

wicked

Classicalmusic:
Lol, just yesterday. But i still want her to confess more. The funniest thing is that she's deeply in love but i don't trust these girls

well, you'll have to try

iceberylin:

you Bleep her.

that's bad! Not good. You'll make her regret her action.

ekundayoalo:
well, you'll have to try

Try on these girls? Lol, i guess you didn't understand that.

I hate it when a girl tries to convince me. Women are really unpredictable.

Classicalmusic:
Try on these girls? Lol, i guess you didn't understand that.

I hate it when a girl tries to convince me. Women are really unpredictable.

Yeah, now I think I get what you're trying to say. But not all of 'em though

Codedrock:

U be mumu if u can't date someone older than you..
na small small girls u dey chase around.. u kinda sound like a perv.

U no tell us say u b senator yerima broda, team under 14, u most b a paedophile

Yes man, have don dat, I wasn't ready 2 waste someones time when I knew I was not interested in the relationship B4 I go come open thread say person pour me acid oh.

Chidonc:
Yes man, have don dat, I wasn't ready 2 waste someones time when I knew I was not interested in the relationship B4 I go come open thread say person pour me acid oh.

Yeah. She wanted to know where our friendship was heading cos everyone including her siblings wanted to know who I was to her. I did not give her the appropriate answer and all hell was let loose. Refused talking to me till we parted ways.

Feraz:
Yeah. She wanted to know where our friendship was heading cos everyone including her siblings wanted to know who I was to her. I did not give her the appropriate answer and all hell was let loose. Refused talking to me till we parted ways.

You don't have affection for her? Or why don't you talk to her about it?

ekundayoalo:
You don't have affection for her? Or why don't you talk to her about it?

Wasn't ready for one back then. We stopped talking after that, well, she stopped talking after that.