This is an extract From www.strongfamilyblog.com

Children are so much better off in a nuclear family, and unfortunately there are far too many families that have failed. While both husband and wife have responsibility to build and strengthen marriages to provide a stable environment for children, there are many things women can do to protect and preserve their marriage relationships.

Because Children From Broken Homes Always Have Hard Times Growing Up,
Same applies to children from abusive or a home where parents are always quarreling.

So Below Are My Best Advice to make your marriage stronger and also avoid divorce.

1. Honor And Respect Your Husband: Granted, your partner may not be the same person he was when you married. But he is still worthy of respect and honor. He is an incredible person in his own right. Consider making a list of his most amazing and endearing qualities so you can remember why it was you fell in love in the first place.

Note There Is A Thing Line Between Honoring your spouse and becoming over pleasing.

So the best way to do is to learn to make important decision and always consult him to know his opinions before you carry them out.

2. Communicate, communicate and communicate: The fastest way to break up a marriage is to loose good communication skills with your spouse.

There is no substitute for talking regularly and about everything. Our Husbands feel intimacy with us when we share openly about our lives, our interests, our dreams and our expectations. A family therapist friend of mine suggests that husbands and wives set aside 30 minutes each day without interruptions where the couple can just talk together. Effective communication is an important way to strengthen marriage.

My Book The Happy Marriage Guide was written to enable you build good communication skills with your husband. I would suggest your get a copy here.

3. Have Sex With Him A Lot: Honestly a man that has sex alot with his wife have very little tendencies to cheat,

When spouses don’t get busy regularly, they can lose physical connection. “removing the expectation of having long, technical lovemaking sessions.” Whether it’s a quickie in the shower or making out like teenagers before bed, “10 focused minutes can build more intimate moments than many couples have experienced in years,” he says. What’s more, “this can turn into longer lovemaking sessions.

Sex shouldn’t have a menu of its own, take it like water,

Its good to have early morning sex and its a very good form of exercise {lol}

4. Forgive Quickly: Hmmmm this is my best part of this article…

Often marriages begin to fall apart when one partner or another holds a grudge. Forgiveness is a gift that you give yourself more than one you give your partner. So refuse to hold grudges and have a forgiving spirit.

The Ability for you to forgive quickly would determine how long your marriage lasts.

Because a marriage where the wife is unforgiven pushes the man outside of the house, because no matter how hard you try to show you have forgiven him it would always reflect if you haven’t forgiven him genuinely,

And no man loves to be threatened in his home.

5. Don’t Hesitate To Get Help: If you are still having challenges, consider getting counseling or couples therapy. Often your workplace (or his) will have access to an employee assistance program or EAP, where you can get some initial help and a referral to others. You might consider starting with a trusted member of clergy if you share a religious heritage and then move beyond if needed.


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+The relationship must be goal oriented