well, guys are hard wired to love sex, even in dreams and there is nothing women can do about it

and from experience, i will say women tend to be more faithful cos they are not easily turned on by most of what will turn every guy on.

95% guys cant stand looking at a nude woman when the atmosphere is one that's conducive for sex, without giving in

whereas a lady can stand this and even watch a porn movie with you in such environment, and nothing happens

Beyonce's song is simply asking men a simple question, how would you feel if we(women) treated you(men) the way you treat us? its not hard to see that men in general think that they can get away with anything, a man considers himself disrespected if a woman cheats on him but it's all fine and dandy for him to cheat on his woman right? a woman is as much a human being as a man and deserves the same consideration a man does, this isn't a cry for woman's liberation,its simply common sense especially when you take in the fact that some men treat their house pets better than they their wives!! the new breed of faithless women out there is simply a product of man's insensitivity, what goes around ultimately comes around,

What a man can do,a woman can do it much better.

Beyonce's song is simply asking men a simple question, how would you feel if we(women) treated you(men) the way you treat us? its not hard to see that men in general think that they can get away with anything, a man considers himself disrespected if a woman cheats on him but it's all fine and dandy for him to cheat on his woman right? a woman is as much a human being as a man and deserves the same consideration a man does, this isn't a cry for woman's liberation,its simply common sense especially when you take in the fact that some men treat their house pets better than they their wives!! the new breed of faithless women out there is simply a product of man's insensitivity, what goes around ultimately comes around,

What a man can do,a woman will do it much better

webdezzi:

well, guys are hard wired to love sex, even in dreams and there is nothing women can do about it

and from experience, i will say women tend to be more faithful because they are not easily turned on by most of what will turn every guy on.

95% guys can't stand looking at a nude woman when the atmosphere is one that's conducive for sex, without giving in

whereas a lady can stand this and even watch a porn movie with you in such environment, and nothing happens

rubbish, shw me whr u got this ur yeye analysis from.

Beyonce is simply telling guys to see things from ladies' perspective. Society makes a hero-a don juan- out of a guy that's hugely successful with ladies while a lady exhibiting the same behaviour is called a SLUT, LovePeddler or is simply regarded as CHEAP. This mentality has embedded itself into our psyche. Beyonce's song simply brings us back to earth. This is one song we really ought to think about while doing our thing. Of course ladies are no saints either.

jaymobb:

rubbish, shw me whr u got this ur yeye analysis from.

why not quote out the part that is false, thank God, u be man

webdezzi:

well, guys are hard wired to love sex, even in dreams and there is nothing women can do about it

and from experience, i will say women tend to be more faithful because they are not easily turned on by most of what will turn every guy on.

95% guys can't stand looking at a nude woman when the atmosphere is one that's conducive for sex, without giving in

whereas a lady can stand this and even watch a porn movie with you in such environment, and nothing happens

thats right!!!

if i ever become a serial rapist with a propensity for policewomen, this video is the reason why.


on a serious note, there's no excuse for cheating.  if you're going to be a player at least be up front about it. 

oh and women do get turned on, they just have more self-respect about it.

i thimk it says what men really are like

Beyonce's song is simply asking men a simple question, how would you feel if we(women) treated you(men) the way you treat us? its not hard to see that men in general think that they can get away with anything, a man considers himself disrespected if a woman cheats on him but it's all fine and dandy for him to cheat on his woman right? a woman is as much a human being as a man and deserves the same consideration a man does, this isn't a cry for woman's liberation,its simply common sense especially when you take in the fact that some men treat their house pets better than they their wives!! the new breed of faithless women out there is simply a product of man's insensitivity, what goes around ultimately comes around,

Well bear in mind that males and females are genetically different too. Men are more pocessive of women because our people were traditionally always polygamists. And men are the seeds of life, women have the gestation period when child-rearing. Men don't have that, so men's bodies are programmed to reproduce, keep going all the time (LOL?). Human's so-called "societies" and our minds evolve faster than our primitive human bodies.

^^^^Not sure if that made sense, ^^^^

But,

With all that being said though, I am not a cheater. I am a firm believer in monogamy (is that the right word?). Especially in this day and age, with all of the diseases and everything. And plus, I know I am a serious catch, and simply will not allow just any bebe to have the pleasure of enjoying me. No way! I may befriend a shorty, or perform for her if she has a party, but that be it.

Beyonce had a good point, which in short, is that if she were a boy, she'd know to treat her loved one better because as a woman she knew how it felt for her guy to betray/mistreat/not appreciate her.

As for the girl playa issue, girls have more self-control, so cheating is a rare thing with us femmes. As for guys . . .

if beyonce was a boy? what if she was really a boy living in gaza strip with isreali missles flying over her numb skull
she would find better inspirations for reasonable songs. why are artists today repeating and over emphasizing intellectual miopic
topics? ish.

Funny post and funny replies. shio

SHE IS MY CUZIN U KNOW I LIKE THE VIDEO

You know that Beyonce was exploring her lesbian side using 'if i was a boy' as a decoy.

Sometimes beyonce i must confess sings crap. Like single ladies. Maybe she wont have sung dat if she dint marry hova.

Really funny the way people view the whole thing, well the Song is nice I enjoy it I like the video and all that but was just wondering if what she said about men was really true and that there are no women with that kind of character too, some people said its men that basically do that kind of thing, while some agree that there are women that do it as well, Men are not the only ones culpable as there are women too that are into cheating.

Songs like this should get people thinking not for us to criticize her only.

@knowme
and you're asking 4 the explanation of the song when your xter is the perfect example of it.
you guys were talking about the culture in Nigerian, wake up call!!! Beyonce is not Nigerian. that is to show you that its not about Nigeria or the country or the culture. ITS MEN and what society at large as allowed to them.

@topic
this is the only song of Beyonce's i think makes sense. when i heard it i said 'now she's grown up'. that's life. It simply puts the guy in the girl's shoes so he knows what it feels like being treated the way he treats her.

i subscribe to that 'if i were a boy thingy' cos my policy is - if you do it to me, i'm gonna do it to you 2. then i'd forgive you.

don't h8

@knowme
and you're asking 4 the explanation of the song when your xter is the perfect example of it.
you guys were talking about the culture in Nigerian, wake up call!!! Beyonce is not Nigerian. that is to show you that its not about Nigeria or the country or the culture. ITS MEN and what society at large as allowed to them.

@topic
this is the only song of Beyonce's i think makes sense. when i heard it i said 'now she's grown up'. that's life. It simply puts the guy in the girl's shoes so he knows what it feels like being treated the way he treats her.

i subscribe to that 'if i were a boy thingy' cos my policy is - if you do it to me, i'm gonna do it to you 2. then i'd forgive you.

don't h8  

when i saw the video for the first time, i was shocked at the truth it revealed about us guys. i've been hearing the phrase "if the shoe was on the other foot" but never before had it graphically portrayed before. it was an eye-opener.
its a very deep video

Beyonce went straight to the point to let the boy know that if he was in her shoes and she was in his he would not like what he'll get from her behaviour.

The song was originally writen by BC Jean www.myspace.com/bcjean. Beyonce stole the song.

BULL SH**T, it does not make any sense to me. [color=#990000][/color]

beyonce is pagan now? intersting

ant who yes poster this is how most women think

She is flogging the issue from the wrong point of view.