am beginning to believe that the statement “girls want money” doesn’t hold very true for most naija
Maybe I am mistaken, maybe not but some guys have received more money from girls dated than they spend.

when I gave them money, it was not because they demanded for it directly or indirectly, but because I chose to give them money.
It really depends on the vibe you send out to the girl while vibing her. Girls will always classify men either as Providers or Lovers.


If you send out the vibe of a lover, then you will have all the benefits of a lover and the girl won’t expect much from you expect a short fling and just fun between the two of you. Thus between the ages of 18-24 girls give more priority to lovers and play around with them.
The worst part is for a girl to classify you as a Provider. Basically the moment she begins to notice that you are relationship material, then she will even withhold the sex to buy more time from you. She will make you play the role of husband in her life. Most girls settle down with providers who happen to be the nice guys or the beta males.
Thus any girl will classify her men as Lovers or Providers. Most bad guys are always classified as lovers thus enjoy the benefits such as one night stands and booty calls. But girls don’t settle down with them. They only have fun with them while in their prime,

But if a girl below 25 is making direct financial demands, then you can expect the following:
1. You Sent out the vibe that you are a provider thus she expects you to play that role.
2. She’s a LovePeddler and past providers made her one.
3. She’s living on her own thus has real needs.


Otherwise, the myth of “you need money” just doesn’t hold any water. Especially if you give off Lover signals not provider signals.

If you splash money on a girl, of course, she expects you to continue splashing it. If you take her for a classic dinner date on the first date instead of the bar in your area then she’s already seeing you as a provider.