i knew this girl since my university days as a hoe.i cant thik of any one in school who hasn't slept with her.now my cousin comes home to meet my parents with this same girl.telling them of his plans to marry her by march.they have been going out for a year now.should i tell my cousin know that i slept with her too, please help,

Oh so sad,Dont tell him directly,cause you dont knw if she already did.Ask her to tell him.
_{What goes around comes right back.}

Tell him. He won't be happy with u if he finds out later from someone else. Then again, she might have repented

julery:

i knew this girl since my university days as a hoe.i can't thik of any one in school who hasn't slept with her.now my cousin comes home to meet my parents with this same girl.telling them of his plans to marry her by march.they have been going out for a year now.should i tell my cousin know that i slept with her too, please help,

Tell him jor

NO!!

The girl is a changed girl.People Change!!

i think u should tell him. no one wants 2 marry a exhoe, even if she as repented.

julery:

i knew this girl since my university days as a hoe.i can't thik of any one in school who hasn't slept with her.now my cousin comes home to meet my parents with this same girl.telling them of his plans to marry her by march.they have been going out for a year now.should i tell my cousin know that i slept with her too, please help,

  It means you probably slept with her too, Chei.! Please do tell him but with style, don't ask me how but just tell him. When you tell all these gals that their actions will always rebound like a basketball, they call you olskool.Now she is in for some RiDiCuLe

did the girl see you? did she recognise?
if yes, ask her to report herself to ur cousin before you.

somehow somehow sha, u cousin gast to know.

Dont tell him, tell his parents. . . He may not listen to u, but surely when mumsy and popsy sit him down, he will wake up. . . even if na jazz the girl take hold am!

not ur bleeping business

Jeez, this guy's really paranoid. Werrin concern you? You slept with the gril dint you? Does that make you trash too? Or please tell me the guy's a virgin then I'll understand what you are talking about.

Ask the guy and let me know if the girl ever cheated on him? If not, then shut your trap and mind your own business.

Brov. . .Tell him oh or you will not be able to forgive yourself if you do not.

I guess my question is if you slept with her then too

Besides stay out of grown folks business, it not your place to tell him because in your uni days i'm sure you were busy trying to lay every girl you could and i'm sure you wouldn't want that to disqualify you from marriage so why should it disqualify a girl   
Double standard seems to be a very prevalent thing in Nigeria always with the do as i say not as i do attitude

cos she slept around dont or cos u slept wiv her mean shes a hoe, hoe is a strong word and im sure she got reasons so dont judge but tell and see how much ur cousin loves her

Kunbee:

because she slept around don't or because u slept with her mean shes a hoe, hoe is a strong word and I'm sure she got reasons so don't judge but tell and see how much ur cousin loves her

Her reasons being she had an itching fanny?
Karma is a bitch.

And to you the poster you are also a LovePeddler because you slept with her you didnt date her you just whamm bam no thanks maam.

@Poster

Tell her to tell him and if she refuses then you can tell him.

whitelexi:

don't tell him, tell his parents. . . He may not listen to u, but surely when mumsy and popsy sit him down, he will wake up. . . even if na jazz the girl take hold am!

Good advise Lexi
Best I've read.

You said during her university days didn't you? How long ago was that If I may ask?

If long ago, maybe she has changed, youths can be wild, it's a common thing, not saying what she did was right, poke nosing is not a good thing o.