1. They see no good in your dreams: Everybody has got dreams and we all need people to encourage and possibly work with us to fulfill our dreams. When you are in the midst of the wrong people, you allow them to dictate your future, and there is no way people can successfully dictate your personal vision for you. Hence they tie you down. What you’re capable of achieving is not a function of what other people think is possible for you. What you’re capable of achieving depends on what you choose to do with your time and energy. Look beyond the presumptions and mental limitations of others, and connect with your own best vision of how your life can be. Life is an open-ended journey, and what you achieve comes from what you expect to achieve and what you work to achieve.
2. They don’t forget about your past: Your past is your past, that is why it’s called past. The future belongs to the forward-minded people. Holding on to the unchangeable past is a waste of energy and serves no purpose in creating a better day today. If someone continuously judges you by your past and holds it against you, you might have to repair your future by leaving them behind.


3. They always give excuses of not having time for you: Communication is the stronghold of any relationship. Any relationship without regular interaction and communication may be heading for the rocks especially where there’s no commitment. You shouldn’t have to force someone to make a space in their life for you, because if they truly care about you they will gladly create space for you.
Being in a relationship with someone who overlooks your worth isn’t loyalty, it’s stupidity. Never beg someone for attention. Know your self-worth, and move on if you must.

4. You are gradually becoming negative minded because of your interaction with them. The negative people in your life don’t just behave negatively towards you, but towards everyone they interact with. What they say and do is a projection of their own reality – their own inner issues. This is important to remember because what these negative people say and do shouldn’t be taken to heart. Although you don’t have control over what they say and do; you do have control over whether or not you allow them to say and do these things to you. You alone can deny their venomous words and actions from invading your heart and mind. If you feel like these people are getting to you, take a break and give yourself some space to breathe. Positive things happen when you distance yourself from negative people. Doing so doesn’t mean you hate them, it simply means you respect yourself.


5. They don’t want you to be original: Spend time with people who see you the way you are, and not as they wish to think you are. Spend even more time with those who truly know about you, and who love and respect you anyway.


If someone expects you to be someone you’re not, take a step back. It’s wiser to lose relationships over being who you are, than to keep them intact by acting like someone you’re not. It’s easier to nurse a little heartache and meet someone new, than it is to piece together your own shattered identity. It’s easier to fill an empty space within your life where someone else used to be, than it is to fill the empty space within yourself where you used to be.


6: They motivate you wrongly: Truth be told, no human being is superior. No faith, race, size or shape is inferior. All collective judgments about others are wrong. Only judgmental hypocrites make them. If you judge others by their skin color, their body size, and their outer beauty, you will miss everything about who they really are. It is amazing the quality of people you will learn about and meet in this world if you can simply get past the fact that lots of people are not dressing and living the way you do. People who motivate you to judge or hate others are as bad as bad company gets. Avoid them at all costs.


7. They make you feel caged: Healthy relationships keep the doors and windows wide open. Plenty of air is flowing and no one feels trapped. Relationships thrive in this kind of unrestricted environment. You can come and go as you please, but you choose to stay because where you are is where you want to be.


If you want to be a part of someone’s life, all the open doors and windows in the world won’t make you leave. If someone has closed them all in an effort to trap you into something you don’t want to be a part of, it’s time to find the strength to kick down the door.

K

Nice one Op.
But you need to edit it, give it some spacing and bolding, So it would be ready for Fp.

blackjack21:
Nice one Op.
But you need to edit it, give it some spacing and bolding, So it would be ready for Fp.

Wow. Thanks!
How do I edit?