DISCLAIMER: Before you say, it's same with men, I am not generalizing but specializing. That's Why I Used "Some"


As I always say, I've been around ladies most of my life coupled with my psychological tendencies + BOOKS (very vital)


Focusing on ladies now; men grow and some of these tendencies grow with them but ladies? Almost all. Unless, she consciously works on herself.


Quickly, Seven Things Some Ladies Struggle With Are:


1. Opposite sex (men)


It's obvious, a girl who is forming for you sees you with another girl and jealousy sets in. Haven't you heard stories of grown up women fighting and quarrelling over men? It's like a lady's life revolve around being with a man. Don't pretend joor



2. Self esteem ( Being Themselves)


Ladies are naturally shy, Yea. Even the ones that don't look it. It's a struggle. If you doubt me, read most ladies PM. You'll see, " I want to be myself and I don't care what You think ". That's a struggle of self identity and esteem.



3. Their choices ( what they really want)

Who pursues several things a day like some ladies. That's the cause she is hardly in a relationship. Today she wants a man who fears God and loves children only. Tomorrow, I want a guy who is not so deep in spiritual things but loves me dearly + he's rich. This uncertainty is the main cause for the breakups.



4. Their "imperfections"( Their looks )


You need not tell me I'm so wrong on this. She has cup-sized bosoms so she's ashamed of wearing some tops. With flat butt, she needs a bum pad. Her head is a bit flat and she crosses all boundaries to get a huge weavon, or so...Are all these necessary?


5. Their future ( how their man and marriage will look like)


It's not totally bad to think about this but not to the extent of crying over it. I had a colleague who cries over this often. Can you stop worrying and struggling over this? Your aim of going to church, weddings, Social Networks etc, is no longer to have fun as you claim pretentiously, but to "find" him. Hmm...



6. Their Past ( if it will haunt them)


Some fear that with the countless abortions they've secretly had, karma will openly reward them with years of childlessness. Quit that thought already!
I got close to my now "Ex" who kept saying that she fears walking with any guy in public holding hands and all, because they may leave her. I cautioned her but she insisted. True to her words and worry, I left …


7. Their reputation ( I want to be known for this)


Is this not why NL guys call NL girls "fake"? They portray an unrealistic image of themselves and their expectations. They lie without thinking in trying to do that.
I believe in First Impression too but Must you lie?

You'll hear them condemn certain things like they're so innocent. Some things like nude pics in phones, indecency, lying, cheating etc.

I think you mustn't comment if you're guilty. Just keep shut.

Just three days ago, a colleague gave me her phone to help her do some restructuring. In the process, see Indecency naa! Thank God, they were already deleted...


You see enh, These struggles are there. Fight it through whatever means you may. Through right company, reading books, prayers, learning etc.

Thank me later.

Have a good evening

I dey cum
*modified*
OP I dey feel u die, But some of these things apply to guys/men also

Guys and their obsession with ladies! I mean to sit down and make lists,its crazy and a sign of joblessness TBH.

Well I thought it was thins like turning off the light before they sleep and pregnancy

Girls has more problem than NIGERIA
I guess they need change

Well I thought it was thins like turning off the light before they sleep and pregnancy

Girls has more problem than NIGERIA
I guess they need change
Too

They also struggle to wear tight cloths...then readjust them every few seconds on the street while walking as if they got shrunk.

i came quite early.
Let me book space first

Can I booked space here "Please

Struggling to be a perfect woman you mean?

.. some still strugle with food preparation

to boil water for gaari iz a problem, nt to talk of pounding yam!

how comes i don't struggle with any of d things d op mentioned... Oh! i 4got; i aint human
#just kidding#

Tired of all these

snowhyt:
how comes i don't struggle with any of d things d op mentioned... Oh! i 4got; i aint human
#just kidding#

U are a clown gurl. Wen I checked ur pix.. lolss

and to think that I would have been the first to comment if not for this network as a result of heavy rain.


nice one @op

wristwatch:


U are a clown gurl. Wen I checked ur pix.. lolss

hahaha

You said and I quote "It's like a lady's life revolve around being with a man. Don't pretend joor "

Says a guy who sits down every single day to think about lists to come up with about ladies And your life revolves around what exactly?

Thank Goodness you said "some" ladies sha.

nice one smith
#strugglingLadies#

SuperSuave:
I dey cum

inside puss.y or where


@Op, u nailed it.......

Adaeze003:
You said and I quote "It's like a lady's life revolve around being with a man. Don't pretend joor "

Says a guy who sits down every single day to think about lists to come up with about ladies And your life revolves around what exactly?

...Taking too life too personal will hurt you.

mirexxx:
nice one smith
#strugglingLadies#

My dear mirexxx, sup

prettyjo:
and to think that I would have been the first to comment if not for this network as a result of heavy rain.


nice one @op

Thanks Sweet

If they don't pretend, who will?

emusmith:


Thanks Sweet

u're welcm

wristwatch:


My dear mirexxx, sup

my dear wristwatch Lol
can u tell me ur name? or maybe nickname
this wristwatch sha

pweetixandy:
Guys and their obsession with ladies! I mean to sit down and make lists,its crazy and a sign of joblessness TBH.

OK, Jobful one. Your comments are what folks who can't try say...

We are used to hearing that and it's unnecessary

prettyjo:

u're welcm

How's your evening going?

emusmith:


How's your evening going?

going fine

emusmith:


...Taking too life too personal will hurt you.

Take your own advise...

Adaeze003:


Take your own advise...

OK

Adaeze003:


Take your own advise...

Ok

Yeah....you have a point.

Especially fighting over a man.