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Re: Using Condom In Marriage:good Or Bad? by agoadiv(m): 11:10pm On Feb 21, 2015 |
i don't think so cos it will help in controlling kid manufacturing 1 Like |
Re: Using Condom In Marriage:good Or Bad? by bamog(m): 11:11pm On Feb 21, 2015 |
Chukzcolin: ![]() Chukzcolin:if nah money u want!! He dey!! If nah bugatti!! He dey!! Ferrari no b problem!! Oya make we dey roll nah!! |
Re: Using Condom In Marriage:good Or Bad? by bamog(m): 11:15pm On Feb 21, 2015 |
chibarbie: ![]() |
Re: Using Condom In Marriage:good Or Bad? by yankit(m): 11:16pm On Feb 21, 2015 |
danielmichael:why must we discuss about sex all the time... i think nairaland is heading towards flirting blog. 2 Likes |
Re: Using Condom In Marriage:good Or Bad? by sheftyxz(m): 11:18pm On Feb 21, 2015 |
ifysimple: please I will what to know the billings method. can you share more light on it please |
Re: Using Condom In Marriage:good Or Bad? by Nobody: 11:22pm On Feb 21, 2015 |
diddydiva:Biblically, nothing like unwanted pregnancies. Any semen should naturally go in, so you rely on her cycle as birth control and not condom. Temporal ways are not what heaven knows oh. |
Re: Using Condom In Marriage:good Or Bad? by jerrymej(m): 11:29pm On Feb 21, 2015 |
IVORY2009: LOL. For christ say this is your wife! Why must you use condom for christ sake? Then you're not ready to have a baby any way. |
Re: Using Condom In Marriage:good Or Bad? by Ninilowo(m): 11:30pm On Feb 21, 2015 |
bamog:chei! |
Re: Using Condom In Marriage:good Or Bad? by Ninilowo(m): 11:34pm On Feb 21, 2015 |
If papa shekau had used one and some of our leaders' babaz had used this simple device eh? We wouldn't have bn in this mess . 1 Like |
Re: Using Condom In Marriage:good Or Bad? by IVORY2009(m): 11:35pm On Feb 21, 2015 |
jerrymej: have you ever heard of the word, "prevention is better than cure"? |
Re: Using Condom In Marriage:good Or Bad? by Nobody: 11:44pm On Feb 21, 2015 |
danielmichael: Which kind of questions are these kwa nu? ![]() ![]() ![]() 1 Like |
Re: Using Condom In Marriage:good Or Bad? by Dubemkelly(m): 11:47pm On Feb 21, 2015 |
Very good, its one of the contraceptive methods and I see nothing bad in it 1 Like |
Re: Using Condom In Marriage:good Or Bad? by twinee(f): 12:06am On Feb 22, 2015 |
justmag:. Those pills sometimes have side effects, while condoms doesn't...... 1 Like |
Re: Using Condom In Marriage:good Or Bad? by Nobody: 12:14am On Feb 22, 2015 |
justmag:it depends on the lady, I know somebody that was beginnin to have spots all over her skin like measles. in fact, she became ugly with a confused skin colour. 1 Like |
Re: Using Condom In Marriage:good Or Bad? by Nobody: 12:17am On Feb 22, 2015 |
Daninya11:best comment so far!!! I have thought of this topic before too, and I also remembered the story of Onan. Many people here are just giving false reports because they indulge in premarital sex. |
Re: Using Condom In Marriage:good Or Bad? by justmag(m): 12:35am On Feb 22, 2015 |
shadowgwalker: Mmmm and who confirmed that it was d pill dat caused this?? Well...I can only speak for two people who used it. So idk |
Re: Using Condom In Marriage:good Or Bad? by justmag(m): 12:36am On Feb 22, 2015 |
twinee: condoms can break! Lol. |
Re: Using Condom In Marriage:good Or Bad? by justmag(m): 12:39am On Feb 22, 2015 |
chibaik: I know two people using the same pill and they are perfectly fine. I think it depends on the pill. If it's some over the counter cheap product then I can understand why someone may have side effect. The most side effect I heard is partial diziness in the first two week and that's it. |
Re: Using Condom In Marriage:good Or Bad? by ohenhen1: 12:56am On Feb 22, 2015 |
Am not married. I currently don't use condoms with my long time girlfriend. I don't plan on using condoms when I get married. |
Re: Using Condom In Marriage:good Or Bad? by Smarvin(m): 1:00am On Feb 22, 2015 |
adconline: Sometimes I get confused about what is right or wrong in these kind of topics. You r right. But what kind of method do they adopt before the contrceptives invention? |
Re: Using Condom In Marriage:good Or Bad? by NobleG1(m): 2:25am On Feb 22, 2015 |
danielmichael: Drop your bible for a moment to use common sense. Bible was written by humans at a time they thought earth was flat. And they had no clue that earth was just one of more than septillion planets in the universe. |
Re: Using Condom In Marriage:good Or Bad? by Nobody: 2:33am On Feb 22, 2015 |
Do married people actually use condoms? I don't think I could ever use condom on someone I've had sex with without condom, it's kind of weird. |
Re: Using Condom In Marriage:good Or Bad? by oluking: 2:45am On Feb 22, 2015 |
kelvin100: your lack of experience speaks . |
Re: Using Condom In Marriage:good Or Bad? by jerrymej(m): 2:54am On Feb 22, 2015 |
IVORY2009: What does that mean? So you didn't truths her to be non effective and you still went ahead to marry her? Come on, for christ sake, she's your wife and not your flirt, unless you know you that she's infected. Even so do you have 100% assurance on the condom to protect you. I think the word "protection" here is silly, and if not so, then tell me how 'll you make her to conceive at least to give you a baby! |
Re: Using Condom In Marriage:good Or Bad? by clovislouis(m): 3:00am On Feb 22, 2015 |
Chukzcolin:u re a dude Pls. No girl would say this 1 Like |
Re: Using Condom In Marriage:good Or Bad? by AreaFada2: 3:11am On Feb 22, 2015 |
So nothing a decent person can do again without church or religious approval. Our underdevelopment is really in our minds. Not just politics or poor infrastructure. All begin in our enslaved minds. 1 Like |
Re: Using Condom In Marriage:good Or Bad? by shevon: 3:24am On Feb 22, 2015 |
Daninya11:Biko, no vex but I beg to differ on the part of your comment I quoted. The biblical record says, "But Er, Judah's firstborn, was wicked in the Lord's sight; so the LORD put him to death. Then Judah said to Onan, โLie with your brother's wife and fulfill your duty to her as a brother-in-law to produce offspring for your brother.โ But Onan knew that the offspring would not be his; so whenever he lay with his brother's wife, he spilled his semen on the ground to keep from producing offspring for his brother. What he did was wicked in the Lord's sight; so He put him to death also."(Genesis 38:7-10, NIV) Some have mistakenly assumed that Onan's sin was masturbation. However, it seems that this is not the case (please, note the emphasis on seems) Onan was prematurely withdrawing from sexual intercourse with his new wife, Tamar. This is a form of birth control still practiced today (coiitus interruptus per Latin - or should I say Catholic - parlance). Onan had an obligation to provide his wife with a child, and his brother with an heir (Deut. 25:5-6; Matt. 22:24). He was now the oldest son in a tribe that was supposed to be fruitful and multiply in fulfillment of God's promise to Abraham. As the heir of Judah, he was destined to one day become the tribe's spiritual and moral leader. Onan's sin was in purposely disobeying his father, denying his wife the opportunity of conceiving the child that she wanted (and probably needed). There were strong cultural and practical reasons for her desire for children, especially a male heir. Onan enjoyed sex, but rebelliously prevented its natural result, the conception of a child. He was selfish, and showed disrespect for his brother, his wife, his father, and God. God judged Onan not fit for his ultimate position as the leader of this especially important tribe of God's chosen people, which was destined to be the line of King David, and ultimately of Mary and Joseph, the parents of Jesus. The tribe would one day become known as โthe Jews.โ Onan died in the land of Canaan before grandfather Jacob and all his descendants went into Egypt (Genesis 46:12). Tamar, his wife, later bore a child who is listed in the genealogy of Jesus Christ. My post is not to support masturbation (and I'd say whoever is without sin as far as masturbation is concerned should cast the first stone) or promote fornication/adultery, it is just for us to put things in the right perspective but I may be wrong because I am not an authority on this topic. For the records, I feel sex is meant for both procreation and to promote closeness between a husband and a wife; having to procreate more than you have capability to take care of while you are trying to engender closeness is wrong and as such you should try and control birth while you enjoy sex (this is strictly my own opinion). Every individual have their beliefs and practice, what is good for one man may be a sin to the other person. So the mode for which each person practice this rest solely on the individual. If you like sef, no Bleep unless you wan born and after the pikin don enter, hang ya boot, na ye sabi. ![]() Let's not try not to misconstrue facts just to promote an argument. Abeg, like I mentioned when I started, no vex, I don't mean any disrespect. This is just the way I see that part of your post I quoted. Regards. 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Using Condom In Marriage:good Or Bad? by kelobestline(m): 3:29am On Feb 22, 2015 |
as a partner; for hw long do you wonna use condom ![]() |
Re: Using Condom In Marriage:good Or Bad? by Jennifer89(f): 4:37am On Feb 22, 2015 |
what kind of mumu question is this eh ![]() 1 Like |
Re: Using Condom In Marriage:good Or Bad? by yallowtin(f): 4:55am On Feb 22, 2015 |
adconline: Comment on point for Gods sake why born wetin you no fit feed? It's a sin to mankind! 1 Like |
Re: Using Condom In Marriage:good Or Bad? by kevoh(m): 5:10am On Feb 22, 2015 |
With threads like this,just ban religion shikena! ![]() 1 Like |
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