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Please Help Me! We Love Each Other But our Genotype Is “AS” by jidxin(m): 8:02pm On Feb 21, 2015 |
“I have a girlfriend, that we’re planning for better future, as times goes on, we later knew that our genotype is AS and we love each other, pls. I need your advice pls. What should i do?”
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Re: Please Help Me! We Love Each Other But our Genotype Is “AS” by webincomeplus(m): 8:04pm On Feb 21, 2015 |
Only few problems in this world are worse than having a sickler child. Don't allow the love to blindfold you. If you go ahead and later have a sickler child, you'll regret not parting ways after discovering your genotypes. So, I advise you to save your future from regrets by parting ways now. I know it's hard, but coping with the challenges of nurturing a sickler child is harder. Be better safe than sorry. 4 Likes |
Re: Please Help Me! We Love Each Other But our Genotype Is “AS” by zico18(m): 8:08pm On Feb 21, 2015 |
You had better forget about love now & find someone who are compatible with healthwise so you won't forget about love later. |
Re: Please Help Me! We Love Each Other But our Genotype Is “AS” by olaideeeedris(m): 8:17pm On Feb 21, 2015 |
Love? I've got one advice for u: QUITTTTTTTTTTT! |
Re: Please Help Me! We Love Each Other But our Genotype Is “AS” by Hopez456(m): 8:22pm On Feb 21, 2015 |
Please Don't because of love make life miserable for the unborn child. Read this book ' Dazzling Mirage' By Dr. Olayinka Egbokhare or watch its movie adaption u will learn a lot. |
Re: Please Help Me! We Love Each Other But our Genotype Is “AS” by jidxin(m): 8:27pm On Feb 21, 2015 |
but we can just give birth to one or 2 .... d chances for SS re slim |
Re: Please Help Me! We Love Each Other But our Genotype Is “AS” by menix(m): 8:40pm On Feb 21, 2015 |
Oga OP.. Give ur self brain nah, can't blive som1 will b seeking such advice @ 2015. Y suffer an innocent soul(ur kid) bcous of dat english word called "LOVE".. If u know ow pained I am seeing dis ur post nd ur follow up post, nah confirm sakpa I 4 give u for ur ogo.. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Please Help Me! We Love Each Other But our Genotype Is “AS” by Vision4God: 8:51pm On Feb 21, 2015 |
So painful but u hav no option xcept to QUIT. Or marry & nevr procreate (which is hard 2 fulfill) Or bear d consequences. God ease ur pain n reward u wt anoda godly lady |
Re: Please Help Me! We Love Each Other But our Genotype Is “AS” by flyingdutchman(m): 9:45pm On Feb 21, 2015 |
Options: (1) If you and your spouse can afford 1. 8 to 2m naira, do a PGD (preimplantation Genetic Diagnosis): sperm cells from the male is used to fertilize egg from the female. Several embryos are developed and analyzed for their genotype. The disease free ones are implanted into the woman. (2) Do an in-depth analysis of the percentage of A and S genes. Path care lab does it. If the A is significantly high for an AS, you could decide to try naturally. Amniocentesis: An invasive method of taking samples of fluid from the woman in order to determine foetal genotype. (3) Quit the relationship (4) Exercise faith: A renowned medical fertility expert told me that while there is a 25% chance of getting a Sickler, there is a 75% chance of getting a non Sickler child. That said, there is particular order in which the children could come. Because each time sperm cells are released, millions come out. And the egg to be fertilized could be in any state. So, you could have AS, AS, AS, AS or AA, AS, AS, SS, SS... it all depends on nature. Medical science has since evolved 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Please Help Me! We Love Each Other But our Genotype Is “AS” by Dyt(f): 10:38pm On Feb 21, 2015 |
flyingdutchman: They cld also have SS SS AS AA, SS AS AA SS, SS SS SS . RISK FUCKING RISKY 1 Like |
Re: Please Help Me! We Love Each Other But our Genotype Is “AS” by armadeo(m): 11:03pm On Feb 21, 2015 |
Walk away. This love will turn to weariness, sulking then hate. Walk away now!! |
Re: Please Help Me! We Love Each Other But our Genotype Is “AS” by flyingdutchman(m): 11:11pm On Feb 21, 2015 |
Dyt:We are saying same thing. They could come out in any sequence. After all the other options, is this the only one you understood? Of course not! You're just bent on the negatives alone. Some of us have gone down that path. I'm glad I did |
Re: Please Help Me! We Love Each Other But our Genotype Is “AS” by Dyt(f): 11:33pm On Feb 21, 2015 |
flyingdutchman: Wow So its advicable to go ahead? Sorry no vex o I just gave a wider explanation on ur sequence ni Op ooo Them say u can follow the positives oooo Pls I like to read the path u are glad u did Might be an inspiration to some other couples out there 1 Like |
Re: Please Help Me! We Love Each Other But our Genotype Is “AS” by Nobody: 2:16am On Feb 22, 2015 |
Don't try it,Ts ur future....this same thing happened to me,it was some months to our introduction,i almost went OFF but i gave myself self O.T&broke it myself...twas so hard but eventually we did....thank God we did,we r still good friends....please don't so that ur children wont curse you later 1 Like |
Re: Please Help Me! We Love Each Other But our Genotype Is “AS” by Blendy77(f): 5:06am On Feb 22, 2015 |
If u love her that much and ur finances are okay or a bit stable, u cod either do PGD using ivf or a simpler option is doing ivf with donor eggs. |
Re: Please Help Me! We Love Each Other But our Genotype Is “AS” by greatgod2012(f): 7:35am On Feb 22, 2015 |
This is one of the reasons i always say love alone is not enough for and in marriages. Except you're ready to marry and not procreate. If you can do this and go for adoption instead, then, you can go on and marry each other, but if you both plan to have your own biological child/ren, then, think twice, lest this love be later cursed. Abali1......come here o! |
Re: Please Help Me! We Love Each Other But our Genotype Is “AS” by flyingdutchman(m): 8:31am On Feb 22, 2015 |
Dyt:My wife is AS and so am I. It isn't just about love. Its about wisdom and determination to do research. I have stated possible options. OP can do proper research over them. And yes, if OP wants to go ahead, I'd support them. That's why I gave options. They are called options for a reason. I would never ever discuss my private life on the social media. OP DO RESEARCH OO! |
Re: Please Help Me! We Love Each Other But our Genotype Is “AS” by Dyt(f): 11:05am On Feb 22, 2015 |
flyingdutchman: Lol u can share privately na |
Re: Please Help Me! We Love Each Other But our Genotype Is “AS” by flyingdutchman(m): 5:21pm On Feb 22, 2015 |
Dyt:This geh self! you be chinch? You can worry oo! Dunno if you're being sarcastic or u wanna learn for real. flyingdutchman0314@gmail.com |
Re: Please Help Me! We Love Each Other But our Genotype Is “AS” by Nobody: 2:02am On Feb 23, 2015 |
jidxin: Per pedigree, you have 25% chance of having SS child. So, that's a given. All hope is not lost if you really feel love should conquer all. Let me be one to give you options aside from splitting with your AS partner You have choices: 1. Have an SS child w/ consequences obviously : please try and avoid this for the sake of the child. 2. Avoid pregnancy by both getting sterilized: your snip it, she snips it. 3. Do reproductive technology and choose a donor egg or donor sperm 4. Use your own sperm/egg, but utilize genetic testing in utero to do genotyping; if AS fetus; abort. If AA or AS: keep fetus. The fourth option is the best for you cost wise; only thing it is fairly risky procedure to perform early in gestation. Can you afford fancy in utero genetic testing? I wish you all the best. |
Re: Please Help Me! We Love Each Other But our Genotype Is “AS” by Dyt(f): 8:19am On Feb 23, 2015 |
flyingdutchman: Na wa o oga So u don't reply mails again |
Re: Please Help Me! We Love Each Other But our Genotype Is “AS” by flyingdutchman(m): 8:04am On Feb 24, 2015 |
Dyt:Negative, me lady! Sheck ya inbox |
Re: Please Help Me! We Love Each Other But our Genotype Is “AS” by Abali1(m): 3:40pm On Feb 27, 2015 |
jidxin:greatgod2012, you see why I didn't bother much. His mind is about made up, he is just looking for justification for the decision he is about taking. |
Re: Please Help Me! We Love Each Other But our Genotype Is “AS” by sisisioge: 4:10pm On Feb 27, 2015 |
Hmmm, OP pls listen to the voice of reasoning. I have seen a couple who claimed love and went ahead to get married. They had four children, only the last was AS, first three were SS. Gosh, it was a sad tale. They lost the first two to the sickness and the last(AS) in an accident. The mother died of depression and the remaining SS child and father were roughing it the last time I checked. Open your eyes, love is never enough for any relationship. My beautiful friend who is an AS asks any intending guy his genotype like it was a social exchange. Be careful...the Lord will strengthen you. 1 Like |
Re: Please Help Me! We Love Each Other But our Genotype Is “AS” by Wendy80(f): 5:34pm On Feb 27, 2015 |
menix: wicked. OP Use ur head and not Ur heart. 1 Like |
Re: Please Help Me! We Love Each Other But our Genotype Is “AS” by Nobody: 11:48pm On Feb 27, 2015 |
I know of someone who prayed that God should take the life of his sickle cell child. Please like someone said don't b blinded by love ❤. My oga in d office told us a story of his room mate in school who finally died during NYSC cos he was ss. |
Re: Please Help Me! We Love Each Other But our Genotype Is “AS” by jidxin(m): 12:00am On Feb 28, 2015 |
but miracle still happens .....if my level of faith is strong |
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