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Re: My Fiancee Slept With Another Man...is It Right To Go On With Her? by Bigsteveg(m): 1:21pm On Feb 22, 2015 |
Prixus: Nice point. Advice taken |
Re: My Fiancee Slept With Another Man...is It Right To Go On With Her? by AkpanUnanam(m): 1:25pm On Feb 22, 2015 |
hmmmmmmm.........related to my predicament years back |
Re: My Fiancee Slept With Another Man...is It Right To Go On With Her? by Nobody: 1:30pm On Feb 22, 2015 |
dpoladapo604: go ahead. half of ur children will belong to alfa and woli. |
Re: My Fiancee Slept With Another Man...is It Right To Go On With Her? by Temptee101(m): 1:36pm On Feb 22, 2015 |
khiaa:There is absolutely nothing to re-read here. The guy should let go of her; I know it's somewhat difficult but he should try and he will surely be glad he did in the nearest future. Sometimes we are blinded by our feeling which most times turn out bad. |
Re: My Fiancee Slept With Another Man...is It Right To Go On With Her? by Pdizzle(m): 1:37pm On Feb 22, 2015 |
Bwaal: real talk 1 Like |
Re: My Fiancee Slept With Another Man...is It Right To Go On With Her? by gsainttrinity(m): 1:46pm On Feb 22, 2015 |
blackchukky: I disagree! If i have any reason to suspect my lover, i would do everything to find out the truth including snooping, spying, survilience, hacking. . You name it. I'd rather do this than contract Hiv and other deadly complications because i don't want to appear sneaky. I told my girlfriend sometime back '' Trust is earned, its not a gift. '' because i love you does not mean i must trust you when you have not proved you are trust worthy... Don't trust me either until you have every reason to. Finally, check you lovers phone if you have to. . Its for your own safety. Be wise! 2 Likes |
Re: My Fiancee Slept With Another Man...is It Right To Go On With Her? by tomzman: 1:46pm On Feb 22, 2015 |
pretydiva:Coming from a girl, 3 gbosa for u jare. Some guys amaze me. |
Re: My Fiancee Slept With Another Man...is It Right To Go On With Her? by IYANGBALI: 1:53pm On Feb 22, 2015 |
savanto:point of correction,they are not married,go back and read the post again. I still stand by my point,looking into people,s phones is looking for high blood pressure,your client looked for it and he got it big time |
Re: My Fiancee Slept With Another Man...is It Right To Go On With Her? by GatJokez(f): 1:54pm On Feb 22, 2015 |
Sounds like she's a chronic liar, OP. Free yourself of more future pain and anguish. People who cheat, don't just stop. Especially after you already intercepted the first time and she continued on knowing how you felt. Oh and what's this about telling she was trying to get money off the alpha? ...... was that supposed to make you feel better? Don't be played for a fool . As far as looking through each other's phones - if a person has nothing to hide, then the person won't care. She reacted like she did because she was hiding her affairs from you. I, for example, wouldn't care if my bf look through my phone because I have nothing to hide. Obviously something made you feel suspicious and you followed your instinct. There are plenty of girls who would appreciate a guy being sincerely in love. Time to start healing your heart. |
Re: My Fiancee Slept With Another Man...is It Right To Go On With Her? by nortcentrallord(m): 2:03pm On Feb 22, 2015 |
Alfa again. Na wa for these alfa's oh. Na so mohammed talk mek alfa's d do? Chai! Na waohhhhh. |
Re: My Fiancee Slept With Another Man...is It Right To Go On With Her? by kelvyn7: 2:05pm On Feb 22, 2015 |
ivyT: which Kain beg, d guy no warn her b4? na only God know how many times Afar chop her. she fit even bring STD to d guy. u know say if d guy no check her fone b4 na so she 4 just dey chop dey go, haba! so tay she even do abortion, ahhhh. u sef tink am naaa |
Re: My Fiancee Slept With Another Man...is It Right To Go On With Her? by cozy7(m): 2:08pm On Feb 22, 2015 |
Honestly, I would hv suggested u forgive her, but her lies show she's a habitual cheat. I don't no abt u but I can't live with a liar. |
Re: My Fiancee Slept With Another Man...is It Right To Go On With Her? by pretydiva(f): 2:15pm On Feb 22, 2015 |
olaideeeedris:..d guy nor even need advice 4 dis kind tin b4 he know d next step 2 take |
Re: My Fiancee Slept With Another Man...is It Right To Go On With Her? by Nobody: 2:28pm On Feb 22, 2015 |
nekaa: Your earlier post though was in reference to the time he met her. Question is, who set a time limit to propose to a lady? It can be 2 weeks, a month or 5 years. Now he has looked and not leapt. |
Re: My Fiancee Slept With Another Man...is It Right To Go On With Her? by ohaleoghene(f): 2:33pm On Feb 22, 2015 |
for her to say she was pregnant means they went raw. sure u went raw on her too ,please go for medical screening soon. as to dumping her or not is left to you to decide . 1 Like |
Re: My Fiancee Slept With Another Man...is It Right To Go On With Her? by 190: 2:34pm On Feb 22, 2015 |
U never marry woman she don de go alfa this is why some men cut short their lives with such negative women around them anyhow sha. . . Na una sabi, its your business |
Re: My Fiancee Slept With Another Man...is It Right To Go On With Her? by savanto: 2:41pm On Feb 22, 2015 |
IYANGBALI: I was talking generally based on your comment rather than what the OP wrote. I have no problem with comprehension. I talked about marriage while the OP was only concerned about taking a barely 6 months old relationship to the next level. It is only natural that I let him know what he is heading into. If the OP wasn't contemplating marriage, I doubt if he would have had reasons to 'scatter his dada' OP was obviously taking a nose dive into marriage, hence his concern. It is quite unfortunate that I have no control over what you think but I still maintain that marriage is about open-mindedness. I do not want to encourage the OP on topic of boyfriend/girlfriend brouhaha because I feel he is searching for a wife material where it cannot be found. It is better you know the devil that you are dinning with if you check his/her phones. I know many will not agree with this because the truth hurts. If you are my girlfriend and you make phone conversations with 'yes, OK, no problem, fine, sir, sir, sir, dear, my dear, etc, I will pretend to be a maga but we ain't going no where with that. Na who be mumu? If you hide/code your phone from your spouse, it is a clear indication that you have something up your sleeves. |
Re: My Fiancee Slept With Another Man...is It Right To Go On With Her? by kelvyn7: 2:46pm On Feb 22, 2015 |
gsainttrinity: u make sense die. "if u have to" watch word |
Re: My Fiancee Slept With Another Man...is It Right To Go On With Her? by 100Cents: 2:51pm On Feb 22, 2015 |
dpoladapo604: There are many ladies like the bolded. Bro, stay away.. |
Re: My Fiancee Slept With Another Man...is It Right To Go On With Her? by kelvyn7: 2:53pm On Feb 22, 2015 |
Pdizzle: |
Re: My Fiancee Slept With Another Man...is It Right To Go On With Her? by lachenzy1(m): 2:55pm On Feb 22, 2015 |
Guy karry Bajaj take run oh.... If unna marry she go cause more more problem, na all doz kind gals were d believe fake pastors and imams and keeps talking about winch... She don't deserve u, keeping her again means u don't have any hope aside her, Guy plenty gud gals dey were ready marry. KEEP OFF |
Re: My Fiancee Slept With Another Man...is It Right To Go On With Her? by galaxy23: 2:55pm On Feb 22, 2015 |
Na u sabi |
Re: My Fiancee Slept With Another Man...is It Right To Go On With Her? by kennyok(m): 3:02pm On Feb 22, 2015 |
I believe. we all deserve forgiveness but looking at the way your story went i believed your girl felt she good handle the situations alone but I ve seen she was wrong,I may subject you forgive nd watch her closely and cut some of her freedom of decision... |
Re: My Fiancee Slept With Another Man...is It Right To Go On With Her? by ivyT(f): 3:06pm On Feb 22, 2015 |
marvelito: |
Re: My Fiancee Slept With Another Man...is It Right To Go On With Her? by Skmoda360(m): 3:12pm On Feb 22, 2015 |
princeogbeide1:you sound like MU...MU O..de |
Re: My Fiancee Slept With Another Man...is It Right To Go On With Her? by pretydiva(f): 3:12pm On Feb 22, 2015 |
tomzman:lolzzz..tnx |
Re: My Fiancee Slept With Another Man...is It Right To Go On With Her? by Gbanj11: 3:15pm On Feb 22, 2015 |
Stories like this are the reason i have trust issues |
Re: My Fiancee Slept With Another Man...is It Right To Go On With Her? by IYANGBALI: 3:34pm On Feb 22, 2015 |
savanto:ok. Av a blessed day |
Re: My Fiancee Slept With Another Man...is It Right To Go On With Her? by bigtt76(f): 3:35pm On Feb 22, 2015 |
Choi ...those alfas with jump up trousis and unkempt gemus ...some babes shaa |
Re: My Fiancee Slept With Another Man...is It Right To Go On With Her? by holysainbj(m): 3:38pm On Feb 22, 2015 |
My friend u are not married to her so no go vex much... Moreover havent u heard dat "to live a longer life on earth,dont go tru a womans fone...handbag too" |
Re: My Fiancee Slept With Another Man...is It Right To Go On With Her? by Nobody: 3:44pm On Feb 22, 2015 |
Is left for you to decide and stop disturbing us here after all you are matured enough to get marry*** |
Re: My Fiancee Slept With Another Man...is It Right To Go On With Her? by nekaa(f): 3:52pm On Feb 22, 2015 |
satope1:mstchwwwww |
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