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Help A Friend In His Trying Moment by mos123(m): 11:08am On Feb 22, 2015 |
First of all I would like to thank everyone that contributed in my last topic, I really gained a lot. To my story, finally the wedding activities have been put on hold for the main time after putting alot into consideration. But it's not really funny at all. Calls flying up and down, everybody want to know why but I only told my elder brother everything and he's the one that stood by me telling my family to allow me, that it's my life and that I'm old enough to know what is good for me. But my concern now is that: * can I ever still love again if I let her go? * will I ever marry? Reason is that I love this lady in question so much and the feelings I have for her, i've never had such for anyone before. Please I'm really disturbed and it's really affecting me emotionally and psychologically. It's even telling on my productivity in my place of work. I wish I could overcome this trying time. Any advice is highly welcome and appreciated. |
Re: Help A Friend In His Trying Moment by BeeBeeOoh(m): 11:14am On Feb 22, 2015 |
U can still love again, just give urself time & nature will take care of itself.. U must marry oh, because if u don't na dia me & u go begin get problem.. It Is Well Bro, Shalom.. |
Re: Help A Friend In His Trying Moment by mos123(m): 11:20am On Feb 22, 2015 |
BeeBeeOoh:Thanks for the contribution sir but life can be wicked sometimes and love is a bitch. |
Re: Help A Friend In His Trying Moment by BeeBeeOoh(m): 11:25am On Feb 22, 2015 |
mos123:that's why life is so interesting. Love isn't a dam my manche. And, Mind u that "Love Don't Hurt People, People Hurt People.. Gracias 1 Like |
Re: Help A Friend In His Trying Moment by Nobody: 11:37am On Feb 22, 2015 |
Guy forget love and get a job |
Re: Help A Friend In His Trying Moment by mos123(m): 11:55am On Feb 22, 2015 |
hbpeze:Hmmmm! It's seems you don't understand how I feel and what I'm going through? You can go through my previous topic to get clear picture. By the way I have a good job with of benefits like free healthcare for self, spouse and children,free lunch, free staff bus to & fro and so on. I'm a private person and I know some people may know me here if I give more details about myself and I purposely create this moniker for this purpose only. Thanks for your contribution though. |
Re: Help A Friend In His Trying Moment by Nobody: 12:19pm On Feb 22, 2015 |
Op, when you should be rejoicing that God showed you the kind of unfaithful and disrespectful partner she was, you're here troubling yourself... If you know what marriage is, you should be thankful to God you didn't end up with a cheat and someone who could abort your baby without your consent..In your previous thread, you said you were going to revenge after marriage, is that the kinda marriage/family you wish? marriage full of revenge,resentments and consequently sadness? ? ![]() Bottomline: Stop hurting yourself for no reason, she isn't worth it.. there are so many good women out there bro, you deserve one. Marriage is no child play.... All the best... 1 Like |
Re: Help A Friend In His Trying Moment by Nobody: 12:30pm On Feb 22, 2015 |
mos123: so na love come be the next thing ba |
Re: Help A Friend In His Trying Moment by Richy4(m): 1:11pm On Feb 22, 2015 |
Whatever it is, I just want to let you know that love will still locate you. Hmmmm.. have you ever been to a funeral were a young lady died living the husband and maybe children? Did you see how the husbands always feel like jumping into the grave? In fact some will over do it and people will physically restrained him ? Give that man that that put on that act 3 years, you will see him with another lady. Not that it was wrong but it is called moving on. |
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