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Re: Could This Be Why Lovers Cheat by SeanT21(f): 1:45am On Jan 08, 2009
OgidiBoy:

Now you people are getting me all confused now. I totally need a drink before I start going crazy. sad sad

Get yourself a glass and redeem yourself!!
Re: Could This Be Why Lovers Cheat by H2O2: 1:46am On Jan 08, 2009
Moonblock,
No man is above temptation.
Re: Could This Be Why Lovers Cheat by Nobody: 1:47am On Jan 08, 2009
vicade:

I don't see how u can't see girls are worse.

I am guy. If i see a gril that has the looks and the goods and i approach her she has a choice to reject or accept. No one can question why i approached her but if she refuses me then fine but saying i should not go after her or try my luck is out of the question,

If she accpets, what level is she ready to go. Some girls say no sex(even though they are not virgins) till marriage. I respect that. Others sleep with every guy as if it is not a mutual thing, as if the guy raped them or used juju.Then she gets used and she does not learn her lesson and it happens all over again and who do they blame? Guys.

Our work is to ask for it. The power of whether it is going to happen or not is in the hands of the ladies and most ladies misuse such power and claim to be victims afterwards.

As for ladies waiting for Mr. perfect or willing to date a man who will never cheat more than once you will probably be waiting till menopause because there is no Mr. Perfect. On the other hand, what you don't know wont hurt you.

I still maintain that girls follow the money. how many girls do you know ask GOD for guidiance to find out if a guy approaching her is for real or not because the approach is nothing. Accepting or rejecting is the KOKO. So it is better to pray for guidiance on whether a guy is for good or not instead of praying that no guy should toast or approach you.
The Koko be Naija men are becoming shameless. Them no dey even fear naija women anymore. Imagine the sleazy excuse: The devil made me do it.

sillyboy:

@ toyin.
Am not justifying anything oooo
am only trying to make u guys see from our angle. . .
that way u girls will see berrra. . . .
because most of una dey blind when it comes to men and what the devil makes us do.

FirstWe are not Jesus Christwe are only trying to be Christ like and also note that some are not christians and do not have any Christ to look up too.

We will only try to be like Him but we can never be a God like He is.

Girls are manipulative abi. . . .?
I have realized that girls are more manipulative when it comes to sexwhy?
I think because they love it as much as we do but wouldnt admit it.

Moreover, in the issue of cheatingif you ask me, I would say Girls cheat more.
It's more rampant to see single girls going after married men than seeing single boys going after married men. . .

85% of girls that boys cheat on has boyfriends or someone they are datingwhile the15% are are either married or are Catholic "sisters". . .even those ones sef. . . . lipsrsealed

The only thing that makes it look like boys cheat more than girls is because. . .
we boys talk about our escapedes while the girls keep it as secret until they are caught red handed.

Lastlyanybody that doesnt cheat now does not mean he or she wouldnt cheat in the future. . .
Sh*ts happens.

Shhh, baby. If the devil made you do it, then why not shame the devil? Why continue to shame y'all self?
Re: Could This Be Why Lovers Cheat by ztyle(m): 1:49am On Jan 08, 2009
Please guyz can i get a summary of this thread, i'm lost undecided
Re: Could This Be Why Lovers Cheat by SeanT21(f): 1:49am On Jan 08, 2009
ztyle:

Please guys can i get a summary of this thread, i'm lost undecided

Liberian boy,LOL

Why do MAN cheat?
Re: Could This Be Why Lovers Cheat by Moonstone(f): 1:50am On Jan 08, 2009
H2O2:

Moonblock,
No man is above temptation.
Oh nice names. . .  angry tongue
I didn't say any man is above temptation. I just hate silly excuses like "I was drunk" or "She came on to me". Since when did guys become puppets?  angry
Re: Could This Be Why Lovers Cheat by H2O2: 1:51am On Jan 08, 2009
SeanT21:

Liberian boy,LOL

Why do MAN cheat?
Correction,
Why do lovers cheat
Re: Could This Be Why Lovers Cheat by vicade(m): 1:51am On Jan 08, 2009
The devil that made the naija man do it  abi? And it is Angel Gabriel that made the naija girl accept from devil sent abi.

In primary school we were taught that both the giver and reciever are guilty of Bribery.

There you are.
Re: Could This Be Why Lovers Cheat by Hesperus(m): 1:51am On Jan 08, 2009
I think guys (and girls too!) cheat primarily because they have become too used to their partners and just want a breath of fresh air. Does not necessarily mean they have fallen out of love with said partners. Which is why people tend to code their kurukere moves, cos they dont want to end up hurting their loved ones.
I think dat summarises it basically.
Re: Could This Be Why Lovers Cheat by H2O2: 1:53am On Jan 08, 2009
vicade:

The devil that made the naija man do it abi? And it is Angel Gabriel that made the naija girl accept from devil sent abi.

In primary school we were taught that both the giver and reciever are guilty of Bribery.

There you are.
grin grin Thank you jare ma bru
Mooning is a known misandrist.
Re: Could This Be Why Lovers Cheat by H2O2: 1:54am On Jan 08, 2009
Hesperus:

I think guys (and girls too!) cheat primarily because they have become too used to their partners and just want a breath of fresh air. Does not necessarily mean they have fallen out of love with said partners. Which is why people tend to code their kurukere moves, because they don't want to end up hurting their loved ones.
I think that summarises it basically.
Abi o, that's what I think too. Obviously there are various other reasons lovers cheat, but that has got to be the biggest one.
Re: Could This Be Why Lovers Cheat by SeanT21(f): 1:54am On Jan 08, 2009
Moonstone:

Oh nice names. . .  angry tongue
I didn't say any man is above temptation. I just hate silly excuses like "I was drunk" or "She came on to me". Since when did guys become puppets?  angry

how about~~~

She kissed me first
After we had sex,I felt nothing.
I dont know what I was thinking
Re: Could This Be Why Lovers Cheat by Moonstone(f): 1:57am On Jan 08, 2009
H2O2:

grin  grin Thank you jare ma bru
Mooning is a known misandrist.
Dude you are testing me!  tongue
Are you looking for justification on why you should cheat too?
Men can hide. I know married men in my community (NIGERIAN) that are masking as single guys to get girls. Who do you blame then? The unsuspecting ladies or the possessed, married, self-destructive buffoons?
SeanT21:

how about~~~

She kissed me first
After we had sex,I felt nothing.
I don't know what I was thinking
Thank you jare!
Those are the best ones. Because she kissed them first, they must continue to term
After sex, I felt nothing - During sex, what did they feel?
I don't know what I was thinking - Obviously they are possessed. Exorcism is the best.
Re: Could This Be Why Lovers Cheat by Treetop20(m): 1:57am On Jan 08, 2009
women are funny cheesy
a man will be tempted to cheat
we are visual beings but pray he fears God
because that is what will put him off and also has
strong love for you. I also think men cheat because they
do not know what it feels like after. if they did i don't think they would
Re: Could This Be Why Lovers Cheat by H2O2: 1:59am On Jan 08, 2009
SeanT21:

how about~~~

She kissed me first
After we had sex,I felt nothing.
I don't know what I was thinking


Moonstone:

Oh nice names. . .  angry tongue
I didn't say any man is above temptation. I just hate silly excuses like "I was drunk" or "She came on to me". Since when did guys become puppets?  angry

Body no be wood.
Couple that with the problems the man is having with his lover.  He doesn't feel appreciated by her, she keeps pushing him away, and the killer is if the seductress approaches him when he's sexually frustrated.  Abeg man go blow steam o
Re: Could This Be Why Lovers Cheat by SeanT21(f): 2:00am On Jan 08, 2009
Treetop20:

women are funny cheesy
a man will be tempted to cheat
we are visual beings but pray he fears God
because that is what will put him off and also has
strong love for you. I also think men cheat because they
do not know what it feels like after. if they did i don't think they would


Man are too weak so they fall for temptation fast!!
Re: Could This Be Why Lovers Cheat by H2O2: 2:02am On Jan 08, 2009
Moonstone:

Dude you are testing me!  tongue
Are you looking for justification on why you should cheat too?
Men can hide. I know married men in my community (NIGERIAN) that are masking as single guys to get girls. Who do you blame then? The unsuspecting ladies or the possessed, married, self-destructive buffoons?Thank you jare!
Those are the best ones. Because she kissed them first, they must continue to term
After sex, I felt nothing - During sex, what did they feel?
I don't know what I was thinking - Obviously they are possessed. Exorcism is the best.

LOL Moonshow,
You know me, I don't cheat. And we both know the devil wears prada
Re: Could This Be Why Lovers Cheat by sillyboy(m): 2:03am On Jan 08, 2009
" A good Bleep is not meant for one girl"

Note. . . .: its a quote.
Re: Could This Be Why Lovers Cheat by ztyle(m): 2:03am On Jan 08, 2009
# H202- Me Too i don't Shit,Oop Cheat  smiley
Re: Could This Be Why Lovers Cheat by Moonstone(f): 2:04am On Jan 08, 2009
H2O2:

Body no be wood.
Couple that with the problems the man is having with his lover.  He doesn't feel appreciated by her, she keeps pushing him away, and the killer is if the seductress approaches him when he's sexually frustrated.  Abeg man go blow steam o
Body no be wood but if a man is getting all that and more from his lover, what is he looking for? Most men are just selfish and not understanding.

H2O2:

LOL Moonshow,
You know me, I don't cheat. And we both know the devil wears prada
I know you don't cheat so I don't understand why you are supporting the dogs that DO cheat.
sillyboy:

" A good Bleep is not meant for one girl"

Note. . . .: its a quote.
Oh really? Well a good lay is not meant for one guy either!
Note. . . it's a modification of that quote.  angry
Re: Could This Be Why Lovers Cheat by SeanT21(f): 2:05am On Jan 08, 2009
sillyboy:

" A good Bleep is not meant for one girl"

Note. . . .: its a quote.

That is not an excuse.

ztyle:

# H202- Me Too i don't Shit,Oop Cheat  smiley

Z,You sleeping with all those liberian girls down waterside.DONT LIE!! tongue
Re: Could This Be Why Lovers Cheat by H2O2: 2:05am On Jan 08, 2009
Treetop20:

women are funny cheesy
a man will be tempted to cheat
we are visual beings but pray he fears God
because that is what will put him off and also has
strong love for you. I also think men cheat because they
do not know what it feels like after. if they did i don't think they would

Thank you! The brain ceases to function at that point.  The mind and body take over.

ztyle:

# H202- Me Too i don't Shit,Oop Cheat  smiley
LOL
Re: Could This Be Why Lovers Cheat by OgidiBoy(m): 2:06am On Jan 08, 2009
sillyboy:

" A good Bleep is not meant for one girl"

Note. . . .: its a quote.


So you are spreading the wealth. That's a very good quote, I'd have to use that.
Re: Could This Be Why Lovers Cheat by H2O2: 2:07am On Jan 08, 2009
Moon,

You said kissing is alright.  Don't you know kissing is cheating too?  How many women get wet off kissing, or just fantasizing about other men in their minds?  don't think any man would appreciate some random dude making his woman wet.
Re: Could This Be Why Lovers Cheat by ztyle(m): 2:07am On Jan 08, 2009
# SeanT21 -  Sista where did u get that news from?  shocked No girls @ Waterside Only Rev.Sista!  wink
Re: Could This Be Why Lovers Cheat by Moonstone(f): 2:09am On Jan 08, 2009
H2O2:

Moon,

You said kissing is alright.  Don't you know kissing is cheating too?  How many women get wet off kissing, or just fantasizing about other men in their minds?  don't think any man would appreciate some random dude making his woman wet.
Do not get me wrong - Kissing is not alright but it is SOMETIMES a legitimate excuse. I wouldn't kiss another man if I had a bf. I consider it disrespectful.
Re: Could This Be Why Lovers Cheat by H2O2: 2:10am On Jan 08, 2009
but it can happen accidentally, like sex.
Re: Could This Be Why Lovers Cheat by sillyboy(m): 2:10am On Jan 08, 2009
@ Ogidi.

Yes ooo. . . .

Talking about the dynamics of economics and attempt in having a perfet societal organization. . . .
Infact, dont let us go into the nitty gritty of academical back-up for the quote.

let me give u another quote you could like.

"the fact that someone else drove your care for some minutes doesnt stop the car being yours"
Re: Could This Be Why Lovers Cheat by ztyle(m): 2:10am On Jan 08, 2009
Moonstone:

Do not get me wrong - Kissing is not alright but it is SOMETIMES a legitimate excuse. I wouldn't kiss another man if I had a boyfriend. I consider it disrespectful.

Preach on my dear!  smiley
Re: Could This Be Why Lovers Cheat by SeanT21(f): 2:12am On Jan 08, 2009
ztyle:

# SeanT21 -  Sista where did u get that news from?  shocked No girls @ Waterside Only Rev.Sista!  wink

shocked

You Lie O Bassa Boy.I heard the news through the grapevine. tongue

I got spies all over MONROVIA!!
H2O2:

but it can happen accidentally, like sex.

So taking your clothes off and getting in bed with another woman is on "accident".All the time you take to UnCloth,You could not think right or where you pussy whooped!!
Re: Could This Be Why Lovers Cheat by vicade(m): 2:12am On Jan 08, 2009
sillyboy:

" A good Bleep is not meant for one girl"

Note. . . .: its a quote.

Best post of the night and the morning. True yarns

Boys cheat,Girls cheat. The Later is the Greatest Cheater cos u never get to hear about it.
Re: Could This Be Why Lovers Cheat by Treetop20(m): 2:13am On Jan 08, 2009
it doesn't take anything to cheat
like it can happen in a millisecond
from kissing to ripping the clothes off
to moaning and groaning and after
"what the Bleep have i done"? cheesy

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