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My Inconsiderate Girlfriend....(pics) by rx1121: 11:44am On Feb 22, 2015 |
Morning my fellow Nairalanders , I just need your advise on this issue going on between me and my long time girlfriend , we never had an argument on any reasonable things than her material talk or needs, she knows I hate it cuz I like doing things for her out of pressure sometimes I even go extra miles cuz I truly love this babe tbh. We break up so many times but she begged and I accept her back but last week she said something bad and I can't take it anymore. She said am giving her ATTITUDE cuz I said "oh that's nice" to her material talk again and she also told me to check Instagram and other social network to see how girls are looking good, this is the girl that once told me that she never worn some of the clothes and other stuffs I bought her last year. I just can't take it anymore and since then I stopped talking to her and now she has been begging me again even tho I can't take it anymore I still need some matured advise. Why I post this issue is because she sent me a touching message even tho it doesn't touch my heart no more. She said I know u have a great heart please forgive me and stop ignoring me, I was like u know I av a great heart then u treat me like shit? Hmm u try lol P.S : I'm not an attention seeker I just need matured advise as this happen to me for real and it's still fresh cuz it's just a week plus issue. I know many people will say am a fool but I don't care, I only need an advise. Forgive any typing error as my heart is running a relay at the moment.lol 3 Shares
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Re: My Inconsiderate Girlfriend....(pics) by thaoriginator: 11:48am On Feb 22, 2015 |
Lol ![]() She bleeps your neighbor? 1 Like |
Re: My Inconsiderate Girlfriend....(pics) by ivyy(f): 11:49am On Feb 22, 2015 |
Pls 4give her. Try talk to her though I just don't like the alwys breaking up , mking up part coz one day trust me its gona be for goood. Save yourselvs b4 its too late 4 Likes |
Re: My Inconsiderate Girlfriend....(pics) by ronald4lif(m): 11:58am On Feb 22, 2015 |
It wasn't necessary bringing forth the message sha. I also think you've to forgive and let things come back to normal. You see, bro most girls are like that and sometimes you just can't blame them. Some ladies are using Instagram and other social media platforms to oppress others and she may have wanted to have a share of those goodies too. Let her demands not worry you way too much as chances are the girl next door will be demanding too. Work out on the relationship and try to curtail the demands to your accepted limits 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Inconsiderate Girlfriend....(pics) by Nobody: 11:59am On Feb 22, 2015 |
ivyy: Lol... Don't make use of this advise. I mean it's totally in-acceptable from every angle. Ask yourself: Why should you make up with someone who doesn't value you or your gifts? Just forgive her but let her go. It's clearly written on the wall, she needs your expensive gifts and not your love amigo. 13 Likes |
Re: My Inconsiderate Girlfriend....(pics) by Nobody: 12:01pm On Feb 22, 2015 |
ivyy: You forget to advice him on the issue of the girl demanding like her life depends on him.... |
Re: My Inconsiderate Girlfriend....(pics) by Samiceman: 12:04pm On Feb 22, 2015 |
Dafuq is this? Guys done finish for market nee? Am highly disappointed in ur girlfriend |
Re: My Inconsiderate Girlfriend....(pics) by ronald4lif(m): 12:04pm On Feb 22, 2015 |
kevinberry: Bro, which girl no dey demand? How many are they. True let him try to contain her demands but it can't be brought to a zero level. Women have needs that are to be met 1 Like |
Re: My Inconsiderate Girlfriend....(pics) by Nobody: 12:06pm On Feb 22, 2015 |
rx1121:Bro please forgive her,and talk sense into that her skull..let her know that if she is not ready to love you for love sake rather than asking for material things like you are her father..then she is on her own...like seriously I prefer devil than a girl that demand...happy sunday to you 1 Like |
Re: My Inconsiderate Girlfriend....(pics) by ivyy(f): 12:06pm On Feb 22, 2015 |
Aprime: There's a reason why she fell for him and is inlove with him asides the vanity of gifts. If she's still wiling to stay aand apreciate him for who he is. She sure as hell deserves another chance. So op do have THAT TALK WITh HER n see if she's gona change for goood. No one here understnds her like you do the decision is ultimatly yours. Mr aprime while you can quote me, do not cross my words. Its rude ![]() 3 Likes |
Re: My Inconsiderate Girlfriend....(pics) by DesChyko: 12:06pm On Feb 22, 2015 |
Just tell her that any more of those excessive demands, even Jesus won't make you change your mind. |
Re: My Inconsiderate Girlfriend....(pics) by Beamborla(f): 12:07pm On Feb 22, 2015 |
Stop giving her excessively and see if she stays 4 Likes |
Re: My Inconsiderate Girlfriend....(pics) by Nobody: 12:08pm On Feb 22, 2015 |
ronald4lif:True they have needs,but males also have needs too...I hate it when a girl see having a boyfriend as her gateway out of poverty..it irritates me... 3 Likes |
Re: My Inconsiderate Girlfriend....(pics) by Trut(m): 12:09pm On Feb 22, 2015 |
I have observed that ladies of this days has similarities with kids under 5 years, they demand material things like kids. When a lady sees any new material things from a fellow lady, she will like to have her own. That's one behaviour of kids. 7 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: My Inconsiderate Girlfriend....(pics) by ivyy(f): 12:09pm On Feb 22, 2015 |
kevinberry: Talk to her, if she can't change , he obviously can't cope n shld exit the relationship. Its a no brainer. But from that text up there, she luvs him n he hld try give her atleast one last chance to prove her worth. U understnd now? 2 Likes |
Re: My Inconsiderate Girlfriend....(pics) by OGeeKush(m): 12:13pm On Feb 22, 2015 |
i swear i dnt knw what i ft talk for dis matter #so fringing twisted |
Re: My Inconsiderate Girlfriend....(pics) by ronald4lif(m): 12:14pm On Feb 22, 2015 |
kevinberry: True we all have needs. But there are some responsibilities that rest on the shoulders of a man in a relationship, and whether we like it or not money plays a vital role in putting up with these responsibilities. But anyways, I agree with you on the fact that some women take it way too much. They ought to know the financial capabilities of their men and set a limit on their demands that won't inconvenience him. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: My Inconsiderate Girlfriend....(pics) by Mhizizzy(f): 12:14pm On Feb 22, 2015 |
ronald4lif: God bless u for dah..........we gat needs although it sud not frustrate d man in our life buh we gat NEEDs |
Re: My Inconsiderate Girlfriend....(pics) by Nobody: 12:15pm On Feb 22, 2015 |
ivyy: Lo siento. ![]() I hope to remember not to next time. But just this one more time please — Sorry. 1 Like |
Re: My Inconsiderate Girlfriend....(pics) by ronald4lif(m): 12:18pm On Feb 22, 2015 |
Mhizizzy: I hear you ma'am ![]() |
Re: My Inconsiderate Girlfriend....(pics) by Nobody: 12:18pm On Feb 22, 2015 |
ronald4lif:Yea we should take the responsibility..but not when we are just dating 1 Like |
Re: My Inconsiderate Girlfriend....(pics) by ronald4lif(m): 12:20pm On Feb 22, 2015 |
kevinberry: Lol! As you say boss |
Re: My Inconsiderate Girlfriend....(pics) by Vyolet(f): 12:23pm On Feb 22, 2015 |
Take her back but this time around stop giving her anything. She should stay in the relationship without the money and gifts. Little girls be comparing life on social media with real life,if she sees other girls looking fresh on instagram does that mean they all put the whole stress on their bfs? |
Re: My Inconsiderate Girlfriend....(pics) by ivyy(f): 12:23pm On Feb 22, 2015 |
Aprime: Dickhead 3 Likes
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Re: My Inconsiderate Girlfriend....(pics) by coolestboy(m): 12:26pm On Feb 22, 2015 |
Why am i havin diz feelings dt she doesn't really mean those sowies up dia? She's nt genuinely begging u, datz nt how to beg 4 a cumback wen u truly love sb. My 5naira! 6 Likes |
Re: My Inconsiderate Girlfriend....(pics) by Nobody: 12:32pm On Feb 22, 2015 |
ivyy: babe the guy said matured advice Not sogbodo u let ur emotion control u too much This is an from an elder 2 Likes |
Re: My Inconsiderate Girlfriend....(pics) by Nobody: 12:34pm On Feb 22, 2015 |
ronald4lif: Guy I pity u ladies go do u strong thin with this kind of hart way u get 1 Like |
Re: My Inconsiderate Girlfriend....(pics) by ivyy(f): 12:35pm On Feb 22, 2015 |
oloyolo: Okay "babe" 2 Likes |
Re: My Inconsiderate Girlfriend....(pics) by ronald4lif(m): 12:36pm On Feb 22, 2015 |
oloyolo: Oh well...! |
Re: My Inconsiderate Girlfriend....(pics) by rx1121: 12:36pm On Feb 22, 2015 |
Thanks everyone, i have given her so many chance for her to change but she still won't change. I hate talking about my relationship with people cuz i know we all have flaws in our relationship but there was a time that i was really sad and my mom had to beg me to tell her what's going with me , then she called her and talk to her . Infact my mom even supported her so she won't feel bad but she also advice her blah blah but till today my babe won't get over it she keeps telling me that my mom knows alot and that is not true. Even in her recent message to me she said i knew u already told your mom about this, i didn't even bother to reply cuz i know she don pass her boundary involving that innocent woman. 1 Like |
Re: My Inconsiderate Girlfriend....(pics) by Nobody: 12:37pm On Feb 22, 2015 |
kevinberry: Yea right like he has not been talking to her |
Re: My Inconsiderate Girlfriend....(pics) by Nobody: 12:38pm On Feb 22, 2015 |
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