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My Experience by excel81(m): 11:34pm On Feb 22, 2015
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In sept 2, 2014 I almost HAD a Sex with a lady when i visited her but God saved Me. Av removed everythig on me and HER but about to perform, i felt like something pull me from her.

In Dec 26, 2014 i escaped another one From Another lady that came To visit me. She has removed my things and she too was naked. She has also held MY PENIS with her 2hands and about to dip it inside her stuff when suddenly i felt as if someone dragged me off her.
In Feb 7, 2015 another lady tried to av sex WITH me, and I also escaped. She romancmed me and d rest wen she was dragging me to bed before i refused AND ran out.
I discovered that every lady that sees me want to av me, maybe thru sex or R/SHIP. Not that am handsome.
I had no job, am SCOUTING with someonoe, and no father, no mother.
Pls no insults and this is not a fairy tale, it is still happening to me, AM 34yrs and EVEN till now no serious r/ship. What do u think is wrong with me and can i do?
Re: My Experience by Nobody: 11:36pm On Feb 22, 2015
Hmm op this is really serious.
Okay let me start by saying I admire the way you remember dates.

Now about your situation. I believe its psychological although I am not ruling out the spiritual.
What's your belief about sex. Do you think its right to engage in it before marriage. Is it the reason you withdraw?

Are you scared of sex, are you afraid of the outcome of the sex or are you scared you won't please her.
What actually is making you not to go ahead with it. This are questions you should ask yourself.

Was there anything sexually traumatic that happened while you were growing up? Were you sexually abused?

Op, I am no psychologist but ask yourself this questions and be honest about the answers. Once you know what the source of the problem is, you can tackle it from there.
You could also see a psychologist for professional assistance.

If nothing works then you can handle it from a spiritual perspective

Op all is well

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Re: My Experience by iceberylin(m): 11:39pm On Feb 22, 2015
Dreamer grin
Re: My Experience by sinaj(f): 11:39pm On Feb 22, 2015
i fink u r havin anoda wet dream wink
Re: My Experience by skylane: 11:41pm On Feb 22, 2015
excel81:
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In sept 2, 2014 I almost HAD a Sex with a lady when i visited her but God saved Me. Av removed everythig on me and HER but about to perform, i felt like something pull me from her.

In Dec 26, 2014 i escaped another one From Another lady that came To visit me. She has removed my things and she too was naked. She has also held MY PENIS with her 2hands and about to dip it inside her stuff when suddenly i felt as if someone dragged me off her.
In Feb 7, 2015 another lady tried to av sex WITH me, and I also escaped. She romancmed me and d rest wen she was dragging me to bed before i refused AND ran out.
I discovered that every lady that sees me want to av me, maybe thru sex or R/SHIP. Not that am handsome.
I had no job, am SCOUTING with someonoe, and no father, no mother.
Pls no insults and this is not a fairy tale, it is still happening to me, AM 34yrs and EVEN till now no serious r/ship. What do u think is wrong with me and can i do?
my brother pray against marine spirit wife that's how they behave,they make your so miserable and poor,no relationship if atall u av then it will not last a week,atimes a day, I don't know brother if you dream about a woman and children

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Re: My Experience by Ace119(m): 11:44pm On Feb 22, 2015
Your problem is BIBLICAL
wash your head with iron sponge in a flowing river
with soap.....

Your story nor enter at all
Re: My Experience by Kennywills7(m): 12:15am On Feb 23, 2015
missjenna:
Hmm op this is really serious.
Okay let me start by saying I admire the way you remember dates.

Now about your situation. I believe its psychological although I am not ruling out the spiritual.
What's your belief about sex. Do you think its right to engage in it before marriage. Is it the reason you withdraw?

Are you scared of sex, are you afraid of the outcome of the sex or are you scared you won't please her.
What actually is making you not to go ahead with it. This are questions you should ask yourself.

Was there anything sexually traumatic that happened while you were growing up? Were you sexually abused?

Op, I am no psychologist but ask yourself this questions and be honest about the answers. Once you know what the source of the problem is, you can tackle it from there.
You could also see a psychologist for professional assistance.

If nothing works then you can handle it from a spiritual perspective

Op all is well
U nail it!!!!!!!
If he can sit down and ask himself these questions & answering dem with truth and honesty then d problem will b solve without having a headache
Re: My Experience by Nobody: 12:21am On Feb 23, 2015
Kennywills7:

U nail it!!!!!!!
If he can sit down and ask himself these questions & answering dem with truth and honesty then d problem will b solve without having a headache
Sorry, are you being sarcastic?
Re: My Experience by mirexxx(f): 12:51am On Feb 23, 2015
hmm
excel81:
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In sept 2, 2014 I almost HAD a Sex with a lady when i visited her but God saved Me. Av removed everythig on me and HER but about to perform, i felt like something pull me from her.

In Dec 26, 2014 i escaped another one From Another lady that came To visit me. She has removed my things and she too was naked. She has also held MY PENIS with her 2hands and about to dip it inside her stuff when suddenly i felt as if someone dragged me off her.
In Feb 7, 2015 another lady tried to av sex WITH me, and I also escaped. She romancmed me and d rest wen she was dragging me to bed before i refused AND ran out.
I discovered that every lady that sees me want to av me, maybe thru sex or R/SHIP. Not that am handsome.
I had no job, am SCOUTING with someonoe, and no father, no mother.
Pls no insults and this is not a fairy tale, it is still happening to me, AM 34yrs and EVEN till now no serious r/ship. What do u think is wrong with me and can i do?
Re: My Experience by khassy(m): 1:53am On Feb 23, 2015
cut the mango tree in your compound... BTW send me those peeps number
Re: My Experience by Nobody: 2:04am On Feb 23, 2015
All these lies that you are sharing.................
Diaris God o...
Re: My Experience by stinggy(m): 5:56am On Feb 23, 2015
excel81:

In sept 2, 2014 [s]I almost HAD a Sex with a lady when i visited her but God saved Me. Av removed everythig on me and HER but about to perform, i felt like something pull me from her.[/s]

In Dec 26, 2014 i escaped another one From Another lady that came To visit me. [s]She has removed my things and she too was naked. She has also held MY PENIS with her 2hands and about to dip it inside her stuff when suddenly i felt as if someone dragged me off her.[/s]
In Feb 7, 2015 [s]another lady tried to av sex WITH me, and I also escaped. She romanced me and d rest wen she was dragging me to bed before i refused AND ran out.[/s]
I discovered that every lady that sees me want to av me, maybe thru sex or R/SHIP. Not that am handsome.
I had no job, am SCOUTING with someonoe, and no father, no mother.
Pls no insults and this is not a fairy tale, it is still happening to me, AM 34yrs and EVEN till now no serious r/ship. What do u think is wrong with me and can i do?

All these happened to you in dreams

Haaa shocked you need to beg your ancestors, they are really angry sad undecided
Re: My Experience by Finestlex(m): 6:27am On Feb 23, 2015
LMAO... WTF, am sorry but that nigga is gay..
sinaj:
i fink u r havin anoda wet dream wink
Re: My Experience by Kennywills7(m): 8:21am On Feb 23, 2015
missjenna:

Sorry, are you being sarcastic?
Actually its a compliment
Re: My Experience by excel81(m): 12:36pm On Mar 07, 2015
@missjenna; thanks alot. U tried to psychologize me and deduced some troubleshootings to d issue. But i must confess it is actually none of e aforementioned points.
The issue is d FEAR OF GOD and i Vowed that i won't av any pre-marital sex. And av prayer to God that at d point of action that God should always intervene, after all am human being. Maybe that is y many ladies couldn't wait and left.
Re: My Experience by excel81(m): 12:38pm On Mar 07, 2015
@ all; thanks alot for ur comments and concerns.
Re: My Experience by excel81(m): 12:42pm On Mar 07, 2015
excel81:
@missjenna; thanks alot. U tried to psychologize me and deduced some troubleshootings to d issue. But i must confess it is actually none of e aforementioned points.
The issue is d FEAR OF GOD and i Vowed that i won't av any pre-marital sex. And av prayer to God that at d point of action that God should always intervene, after all am human being. Maybe that is y many ladies couldn't wait and left.
Re: My Experience by Nobody: 1:14pm On Mar 07, 2015
Chaiiiiiiii @op is that you on your profile undecided

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