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Note: Before Saying I Do. by DollarGenie: 12:39am On Feb 23, 2015 |
My Marriage lasted for 3days, + one month patched two in one life and 4months of indescribable divorce saga. After my experience, i felt i have something (an advice) for anyone out there planning to marry in few months/years time. My life was a horror Nollywood movie yet to be screenplayed (please contact if you are a producer). In Brief: We got to know each other through both parents. I liked her but wanted to date her for a while before getting married to her. My dad and her mum insisted that I perform necessary marriage rites. They pressure was so much that i gave in. I felt that there is nothing i can't handle, I'm a very calm person, i can live with any kind of person, i imagined. We did proper introduction after three days of sighting her the first time. The rest of the traditional marriage rites were performed within the next 31/2 months. The rest is big story, i lost lots of things, slept in several prayer centres, police stations, hospitals, visited many prayer ministries and churches. There was nothing i didn't do. My hearts bleeds each time i take a peep into the past. I focus on the future, and the wonderful life God gave me. |
Re: Note: Before Saying I Do. by ronald4lif(m): 12:46am On Feb 23, 2015 |
You serious bruv? |
Re: Note: Before Saying I Do. by Enegod(m): 12:50am On Feb 23, 2015 |
I just hope that you are a troll |
Re: Note: Before Saying I Do. by DollarGenie: 12:53am On Feb 23, 2015 |
Lesson 1: Follow your initial decision, Don't change your mind /decisions because of pressures from anybody. Do things at your own time. When it comes to marriage, Do not overlook anything, if it is bad, it is bad. |
Re: Note: Before Saying I Do. by mirexxx(f): 12:53am On Feb 23, 2015 |
Enegod: |
Re: Note: Before Saying I Do. by mirexxx(f): 12:56am On Feb 23, 2015 |
nansense! |
Re: Note: Before Saying I Do. by DollarGenie: 12:57am On Feb 23, 2015 |
Enegod:^ Joking Right? I'm Pouring my hearts outs. I don't want anybody to have the kind of experience i had. |
Re: Note: Before Saying I Do. by mkpakanaodogwu(m): 1:02am On Feb 23, 2015 |
Sory bro |
Re: Note: Before Saying I Do. by khassy(m): 1:45am On Feb 23, 2015 |
I'll comment when I wake |
Re: Note: Before Saying I Do. by khassy(m): 1:47am On Feb 23, 2015 |
Boring story..... Nollywood done get new script sha |
Re: Note: Before Saying I Do. by Enegod(m): 5:15am On Feb 23, 2015 |
Re: Note: Before Saying I Do. by DollarGenie: 6:51am On Feb 23, 2015 |
mkpakanaodogwu: Doesn't really need sorry from anybody! I just want people to conduct proper research before getting marriage and do not ignore any evil you discover in your research. |
Re: Note: Before Saying I Do. by texybaby(f): 7:25am On Feb 23, 2015 |
This is really sad...eyaaaa....I wonder y marriages crash down can't d issues b managed...wat happened to love,sacrifice, n patience..it gets me shivering... God help us |
Re: Note: Before Saying I Do. by mkpakanaodogwu(m): 7:57am On Feb 23, 2015 |
DollarGenie:u are right |
Re: Note: Before Saying I Do. by DollarGenie: 8:11am On Feb 23, 2015 |
Lesson 2: If he/she shows no remorse for ungodly actions to you or to others, do not ignore it. (excerpt) Before we got married, she narrated a story of how she planned to kill her step sister's sons and burn down her fathers compound if her sister had over stepped her borders. I only told her that such wickedness will lead her to regrets and encouraged her to be forgiving. |
Re: Note: Before Saying I Do. by texybaby(f): 8:09pm On Feb 23, 2015 |
DollarGenie: Jeezzzzzz was she really serious abt it?....n u weren't scared.... |
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