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Re: Should I Tell My Husband? by yagbaboy1(m): 11:47am On Feb 25, 2015 |
For you not to have given that man a hot slap and shouted at the top of ur voice means (1) you already have a minus (2) if given more chance and that guys hand went to a more sensitive area, u would have given him a" bend down low" in that kitchen. Just my opinion Sha. |
Re: Should I Tell My Husband? by 9jatatafo(m): 11:47am On Feb 25, 2015 |
If I were you, I would have given him a dirty slap and the slap will alert your husband then you will explain to your hubby. Avoid that man as a plaque, he might rape you, so please tell your man and let your man give him a stern warning. That your hubby's friend is a dirty man, you and your husband went together to greet him and the friend had the boldness to touch you. Also why did you have to go to his kitchen alone? When you visit someone, simple courtesy demands that you make your request for whatever you want and you will be served. Don't just rush to the kitchen next time. |
Re: Should I Tell My Husband? by mrlaw93(m): 11:47am On Feb 25, 2015 |
Momma2:You re welcome to Nairaland. |
Re: Should I Tell My Husband? by Nobody: 11:48am On Feb 25, 2015 |
babyosisi: Ur word "capture" is hilarious....But why are men always behaving in such manner,i mean wanting to taste anything under the skirt¿..... 1 Like |
Re: Should I Tell My Husband? by loke(f): 11:49am On Feb 25, 2015 |
asadike:This is exactly what I wanted to say. Pls be sure your husband can handle it in a mature way otherwise I will advise you just stay away from his friend and handle it yourself.For sure in marriage, 1+1 is = 1 but some husbands can make 1+1 = 3 or more with this kind of information. Stay away and avoid him like a plague. Thanks. |
Re: Should I Tell My Husband? by rago(m): 11:51am On Feb 25, 2015 |
hmn, NAIRALAND nd superstories we dnt even no if some of dz posters nd commenters are real people with real personas no disrespect, i mean u hv so much time commenting on seemingly unreal situations nd phony people who perhaps just want attention. 4 all we no, ds OP cud b a teen mom spewing crocks. 1 Like |
Re: Should I Tell My Husband? by Mayour11(m): 11:51am On Feb 25, 2015 |
I hope there's nothing between you guys before you married his friend? |
Re: Should I Tell My Husband? by jbaby265(f): 11:52am On Feb 25, 2015 |
dnt tell him ..if i were u i will break his head at once..let him taste his blood. bastard |
Re: Should I Tell My Husband? by Nobody: 11:52am On Feb 25, 2015 |
Momma2: YOU ARE THE ONE I BLAME IN THIS SCENARIO why would you wear a sexy cloth to his house? Why did you go to his kitchen Your hubby must be very selfish to get angry cos what are friends for If they are true friends then no bad in sharing what they have. |
Re: Should I Tell My Husband? by Afam4eva(m): 11:52am On Feb 25, 2015 |
menix:I'm sorry to say but you're not a wise fellow. Somebody said she was touched and the first thing that you could muddle up is what she was probably wearing. You take your shallow thinking a step further by telling her not to inform her husband without realizing that that man and her husband will remain friends for a long time and they will definitely cross path and something like that can repeat itself in the future. @OP This is a no brainer. Tell your husband or call the marriage off. Everyone mustn't get married. 3 Likes |
Re: Should I Tell My Husband? by Mayour11(m): 11:53am On Feb 25, 2015 |
rago:Hope you are not the one that did it? 1 Like |
Re: Should I Tell My Husband? by jerrymej(m): 11:53am On Feb 25, 2015 |
Hmm! I suggests you tell your Hubby! He took you on a visit there, so what ever happens without his consents you have to let him know! It you let it go as such, then don't be surprised when it all happens again and it happens that your hubby gets to know about it. With such condition how will you explain things to your hubby that he'll understand? Don't you think he might thought within him self that such act has been existing between you and his friend? (where as it wasn't so)! And it's possible that it's even a setup between your hubby and his friend, to see how you might have cooperated with his friend to either fall for him! (thankgod you never intended to do so and you ran out of the kitchen). So what ever it is, tell your hubby. |
Re: Should I Tell My Husband? by fejikudz(m): 11:53am On Feb 25, 2015 |
Momma2:wat!!! 3weeks?? ABOMINATION, pls tell your husband sharp sharp before he find's a way to rape you |
Re: Should I Tell My Husband? by Nobody: 11:54am On Feb 25, 2015 |
Please tell him. He's your husband, so I believe you love him, and wouldnt want him to have such a man as a friend. It isnt safe. I also think you should tell him for your own safety too. Such men who cant control themselves are the ones who go around rap/ing women and babies. Dont think you want such around your home. And please, completely ignore those posters saying you should let sleeping dogs lie by not telling your husband. I believe if they can say that, then they simply dont think sexual abuse/harassment in any form is a big deal. Those are not the kind of people you want to take advice from on this issue. 1 Like |
Re: Should I Tell My Husband? by Crysallis(m): 11:55am On Feb 25, 2015 |
Momma2: Before your husband's friend did this, he must have felt u have given him the chance to do what he did. and y wud u tell your husband when you can warn d guy yourself. |
Re: Should I Tell My Husband? by fairygeh(f): 11:57am On Feb 25, 2015 |
Momma2:Gbamest tell him |
Re: Should I Tell My Husband? by Saucekide25(m): 11:57am On Feb 25, 2015 |
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Re: Should I Tell My Husband? by kekeolu(f): 11:58am On Feb 25, 2015 |
@ ops, a successful marital relationship thrives best on absolute trust and openness . U ought to have informed ur hubby immediately his friend left ur place .Save ur marriage friends like that are bad influence on ur man. He is likely to turn the table on you if ur husband gets to know from other sources later. 1 Like |
Re: Should I Tell My Husband? by iaatmguy(m): 11:58am On Feb 25, 2015 |
Momma2:My dear tell him everything, he doesn't deserve to be your husband's friend. In fact destroy.any relationship they have.Those who said you shouldn't tell are superficial in thinking, he is covetous, your husband should run a away from that kind of person who knows they might get involved in deals financially, he might do otherwise |
Re: Should I Tell My Husband? by Vitaglyde: 12:00pm On Feb 25, 2015 |
The decision is urs but pls be sure before you act |
Re: Should I Tell My Husband? by Sike(m): 12:02pm On Feb 25, 2015 |
Just tell your husband. Period! |
Re: Should I Tell My Husband? by Godmother(f): 12:02pm On Feb 25, 2015 |
Afam4eva: Thank you ojare. 1000 likes for you. I wonder how some people reason to come up with silly explaination as the guy you quoted. Someone said she wore jeans and a free top and that one is busy saying nonsense. 1 Like |
Re: Should I Tell My Husband? by Nobody: 12:03pm On Feb 25, 2015 |
sauceny: I wrote it years ago, I sincerely believe in my heart that every man is capable of rape,molestation and pedophilia when the right opportunity presents.those who don't just have better self control. That is my long held conclusion. If it were not so,then tell me why fathers,uncles and cousins would want to have and do have carnal knowledge of their own flesh and blood. Tell me why a group of regular boys from decent homes will catch a girl and rape her turn by turn for sport. Tell me why many men will find a little immature girl sexually attractive including their own growing daughter. Why elementary school male teachers will want to de-flower their pupils 2 Likes |
Re: Should I Tell My Husband? by Adeyinka123: 12:04pm On Feb 25, 2015 |
daddynasa:Na d way d thing dey do me o. |
Re: Should I Tell My Husband? by omoiyagba: 12:04pm On Feb 25, 2015 |
Don't wast your time |
Re: Should I Tell My Husband? by Afam4eva(m): 12:05pm On Feb 25, 2015 |
babyosisi:#True. I think i have answers to this. |
Re: Should I Tell My Husband? by Lstar4real(m): 12:06pm On Feb 25, 2015 |
This is serious. ..please Kindly tell him because that kind of friend can murder your husband in no Time all because he want to have relationship with u.... Tell your husband and he should stay away from him....if your husband is very understanding.. He will run away... If its stubborn husband he will feel maybe u start to hate the Man....but u need to make him understand the Fact..... #Tellhim |
Re: Should I Tell My Husband? by Nobody: 12:06pm On Feb 25, 2015 |
babyosisi: Not everyone tho....How can i do that with my cousin,niece or sister.By the way,does it mean that you don't trust your husband as well or what ¿ |
Re: Should I Tell My Husband? by Nobody: 12:07pm On Feb 25, 2015 |
Afam4eva: What's your answer |
Re: Should I Tell My Husband? by omohanet(m): 12:07pm On Feb 25, 2015 |
I advice u tell ur man |
Re: Should I Tell My Husband? by enone(m): 12:09pm On Feb 25, 2015 |
Tell him because you silence will give the guy the courage to try it again! |
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