Welcome, Guest: Register On Nairaland / LOGIN! / Trending / Recent / NewStats: 3,201,337 members, 7,978,081 topics. Date: Thursday, 17 October 2024 at 06:34 PM |
Nairaland Forum / Nairaland / General / Romance / 6 Honest Reasons Men Have Sex With Their Exes (2476 Views)
5 Honest Reasons Why Some Nigerian Girls Are Still Single / Why Do Guys Stalk On Their Exes On Social Media / Nigerians Describe Their Exes With A Nigerian Food (Video) (2) (3) (4)
6 Honest Reasons Men Have Sex With Their Exes by dayoson0204(m): 7:49am On Feb 23, 2015 |
1. You’re familiar No need to impress you, no need to figure out what you like, no need to wonder if you’ll freak out when he tells you his weird fantasy. The same is true for you — being with a familiar warm body is appealing — but it won’t help you get over him and it won’t help you make a new dating life for yourself. 2. You’re available Unless he’s a master pickup artist, it’s not that easy to find someone to have sex with so if he’s looking for a quick lay and you’re available, he might take it. Protect yourself. Don’t go out for drinks with him, don’t let him stop by to drop off that sweater you left at his house and don’t answer his 2 am call. 3. He wants closure “Just one last time, then I’ll be over you.” Ever heard that excuse? It won’t work. Sex will only bring you closer; it’s rare that sex will make you realize that you weren’t meant for each other or will give you the feeling that “it’s over.” Because it’s not actually over if you’re having sex. Because uh…you’re having sex. It’s not over. 4. He wants to win you back Sex conjures all sorts of powerful feelings, and it’s impossible to be immune to them. Even hugging, let alone naked full body groping, produces the bonding hormone oxytocin, which can make you feel loving and cuddly towards someone you don’t want in your life anymore. And that’s his plan. The only way to make sure you’re not fooled by your body is to stay away from ex sex. 5. He wants a friend with benefits Ah the old friends-with-benefits conundrum. Here’s the truth: You can’t have a casual sexual relationship with your ex and sex is the least casual of all relationships. There are very few benefits a lot more drawbacks: It’ll hold you back from entering a new relationship; it might even prevent you from dating people, because you’ll still feel like you have a boyfriend, but not the one you want. 6. He misses you Aww, that’s sweet. But not a good reason to have sex. Missing someone is normal — it’s part of the grieving and recovery process — and if you have sex, both of you will have to start that process all over again – DennisMaladit |
Re: 6 Honest Reasons Men Have Sex With Their Exes by squarelead(m): 7:52am On Feb 23, 2015 |
True facts 1 Like |
Re: 6 Honest Reasons Men Have Sex With Their Exes by temitemi1(m): 7:56am On Feb 23, 2015 |
Forward ever! Backward ever!! Bygone is bygone |
Re: 6 Honest Reasons Men Have Sex With Their Exes by Nobody: 8:16am On Feb 23, 2015 |
Only foolish men have sex with their exes |
Re: 6 Honest Reasons Men Have Sex With Their Exes by Nobody: 8:19am On Feb 23, 2015 |
some are true, some are not. |
Re: 6 Honest Reasons Men Have Sex With Their Exes by iPopAlomo(m): 8:19am On Feb 23, 2015 |
Rubbish answer... the truth is... once deebé... forever deebé... 3 Likes |
Re: 6 Honest Reasons Men Have Sex With Their Exes by falconey(m): 8:24am On Feb 23, 2015 |
is always easy....you don't have to woo her again just few apology lines you will enter the place 1 Like |
Re: 6 Honest Reasons Men Have Sex With Their Exes by Akkord4gov: 8:37am On Feb 23, 2015 |
Kk |
Re: 6 Honest Reasons Men Have Sex With Their Exes by Samiceman: 8:49am On Feb 23, 2015 |
7. He wants to get even |
Re: 6 Honest Reasons Men Have Sex With Their Exes by tosyne2much(m): 9:01am On Feb 23, 2015 |
hahaha |
Re: 6 Honest Reasons Men Have Sex With Their Exes by JoeCutie(m): 9:30am On Feb 23, 2015 |
If your present girlfriend gives it to you well, I don't see the chance of you traveling down your ex's basement again. If you do, you're a glutton of the highest order. But if your babe doesn't give it to you, then... 4 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: 6 Honest Reasons Men Have Sex With Their Exes by Thanos(m): 9:41am On Feb 23, 2015 |
I only need one reason. Because I'm Hot |
Re: 6 Honest Reasons Men Have Sex With Their Exes by drkay10: 11:15am On Feb 23, 2015 |
PREMATURE EJACULATIONN IS OVER!!! Do you have problems with premature EJACULATIONN ? Are you unable to last more than a few minutes in bed? Have you ever felt embarrassed after having sexx? Has a woman ever made fun of you because of your poor "performance" in bed? Has a woman ever dumped you because you didn't satisfy her in bed? Do you lack sexual confidence when you are around women? ... IF YES, Then Logon To W W W. E N D P E . T K |
Re: 6 Honest Reasons Men Have Sex With Their Exes by Sarimah(f): 11:57am On Feb 23, 2015 |
Re: 6 Honest Reasons Men Have Sex With Their Exes by hahn(m): 12:14pm On Feb 23, 2015 |
As far as exes go, its "good riddance to bad rubbish". I wouldn't pee on any of them if they were on fire to put it out |
Re: 6 Honest Reasons Men Have Sex With Their Exes by Chubbiehills(f): 12:25pm On Feb 23, 2015 |
i smell lies |
Re: 6 Honest Reasons Men Have Sex With Their Exes by Chubbiehills(f): 12:29pm On Feb 23, 2015 |
hw tru? |
Re: 6 Honest Reasons Men Have Sex With Their Exes by mkpakanaodogwu(m): 12:35pm On Feb 23, 2015 |
Hmmmm |
Re: 6 Honest Reasons Men Have Sex With Their Exes by xmich(m): 12:54pm On Feb 23, 2015 |
story |
Re: 6 Honest Reasons Men Have Sex With Their Exes by Nobody: 11:21pm On Apr 25, 2017 |
iPopAlomo:You get am jare...
|
(1) (Reply)
Undeniable Emotions Unmarried Ladies Face Wen Their Friends Get Married / The Goal Of Every Relationship / I'm In Love With A Nairalander (brymo)
(Go Up)
Sections: politics (1) business autos (1) jobs (1) career education (1) romance computers phones travel sports fashion health religion celebs tv-movies music-radio literature webmasters programming techmarket Links: (1) (2) (3) (4) (5) (6) (7) (8) (9) (10) Nairaland - Copyright © 2005 - 2024 Oluwaseun Osewa. All rights reserved. See How To Advertise. 16 |