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Re: My Boyfriend Said Am Not A Wife Material, Plus Our Chat Pics by Nobody: 1:20pm On Feb 24, 2015 |
ifoundmyperfect:That's true I am surprised she even asked the question |
Re: My Boyfriend Said Am Not A Wife Material, Plus Our Chat Pics by Neplusultra(f): 1:22pm On Feb 24, 2015 |
donodion:Lol @ ur examples of benefits and and pregnancy out of wedlock ![]() ![]() |
Re: My Boyfriend Said Am Not A Wife Material, Plus Our Chat Pics by Nobody: 1:24pm On Feb 24, 2015 |
Op don hear am today. |
Re: My Boyfriend Said Am Not A Wife Material, Plus Our Chat Pics by Nobody: 1:24pm On Feb 24, 2015 |
Idowuogbo:Oh Lord. ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() 2 Likes |
Re: My Boyfriend Said Am Not A Wife Material, Plus Our Chat Pics by ify84(m): 1:26pm On Feb 24, 2015 |
Y did you sleep in his house before if u can't do those tinx..... U asking 'must a girl act as a wife to prove....' by sleeping in d house, u are already acting as a wife... Therefore u shd complete wat u started by cooking, washing, etc........ Don't sleep in a guys place, u are not his wife |
Re: My Boyfriend Said Am Not A Wife Material, Plus Our Chat Pics by justi4jesu(f): 1:27pm On Feb 24, 2015 |
Re: My Boyfriend Said Am Not A Wife Material, Plus Our Chat Pics by nkemdi89(f): 1:28pm On Feb 24, 2015 |
vjsmiles:Hahahahaha funny. |
Re: My Boyfriend Said Am Not A Wife Material, Plus Our Chat Pics by Neplusultra(f): 1:30pm On Feb 24, 2015 |
Boss13:See vex na ![]() |
Re: My Boyfriend Said Am Not A Wife Material, Plus Our Chat Pics by afoo02(m): 1:58pm On Feb 24, 2015 |
vjsmiles:best excuse man can give after VAL |
Re: My Boyfriend Said Am Not A Wife Material, Plus Our Chat Pics by Nobody: 2:16pm On Feb 24, 2015 |
Keep forming I'm not his wife until your parents put u up on OLX. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Boyfriend Said Am Not A Wife Material, Plus Our Chat Pics by donodion(m): 2:16pm On Feb 24, 2015 |
zizibabe1: ok o my sister no vex...when you type in CAPITALS its equiv of shouting at commenters.pls note. And since you agree that not cleaning or showing ,wifely materials during courtship still made you nabbed the "...carat gold ring"...good.However if i may ask,now that you married,do you stil showcase same "ive overdone all that before"?...i trust the answer would be No!!!. Your example was a clear case of ex who didnt deserve you as a person and not necessarily your dometic finese. Btw,would you before God and man state the so called ex never wish you "the one"for him? even now that you are settled?? Might i dare you to keep up the show as you were during courtship,now in marriage and see if there wont be grumble and mumble here and there.? (i sincerely wish you happy married life) But saying its unnecessary to showcase proper home training as a lady during courtship (vis a vis helping your BOBO cook,clean,sort his place) as was in your case would yet land other sisters seeking their better halves the Mrs Title. No be so. An ingrate would remain and ingrate,nevertheless a stubborn goat always on errand always knows which grass is sweeter than others. 2 Likes |
Re: My Boyfriend Said Am Not A Wife Material, Plus Our Chat Pics by temmym4(m): 2:21pm On Feb 24, 2015 |
You are not married & you cant do stuffs for him, yet you have the effrontery to collect his money as well as sleeping with him.. Stop hiding behind not being married yet and using that as an excuse for being lazy and irresponsible. It doesnt take anything out of you when u behave like a woman trained to be responsible even in a common relationship. These are the qualities Men watch out for before taking a decision to live with you forever. @ OP. Am sorry but if everything he posted was true, then HE IS RIGHT. I doubt how he will know how good u can cook when you wont even go inside the kitchen. How will you make him know u can take care of the home when you cant even lay the bed u both slept on overnight? The fact that you are both in the room, u know it s unkempt and the woman in you couldn't wake up to make amends shows how dirty you might be, doubt if u even clean your own personal room anyway. Being responsible is not a thing you can reserve, it comes out naturally. When you are not, you are not. My advice, kindly turn a new leaf before your next relationship or else, you are on your own 1 Like |
Re: My Boyfriend Said Am Not A Wife Material, Plus Our Chat Pics by JideTheBlogger(m): 2:25pm On Feb 24, 2015 |
vjsmiles: abi oo. Some prepaid baes even do help atimes according to what have read on some blogs ![]() ![]() ![]() |
Re: My Boyfriend Said Am Not A Wife Material, Plus Our Chat Pics by donodion(m): 2:25pm On Feb 24, 2015 |
Neplusultra:my sister but its true na. Some men marry only daughters of rich men or women.knowing fully well even if they end up as hand bag carrier for their oshopeypey babe,naira still go dey rain. Same as some marry simply cos "one of the babe on the line" got pregnant.I have of example of one in my church then. Hes got this beautiful sister who was still in uni then while he was working for then NEPA. Somehow his ex flew in from UK and sought to "catch up on old times"( and the ex was no match in terms of beauty with the one in naija).it took only one nite of unprotected sex....thats all. The lady in church then nearly committed suicide as the preg lady insist she was not aborting. It wasnt a small fight o.Family inclusive.The bobo begged tire.Anyway he and his akata wife like play like play have 4 kids now. so you see,people marry for various reasons not even necessarily for love. 1 Like |
Re: My Boyfriend Said Am Not A Wife Material, Plus Our Chat Pics by imeba2k3(m): 2:33pm On Feb 24, 2015 |
YOU DON'T NEED A PROPHET TO TELL YOU THAT YOU AREN'T A LADY TALKLEES OF WIFE MATERIAL... Biko you need serious counseling on how to be a Girlfriend at least. If sex is all you offer him then you're in the relationship for sport 2 Likes |
Re: My Boyfriend Said Am Not A Wife Material, Plus Our Chat Pics by Neplusultra(f): 2:35pm On Feb 24, 2015 |
[quote author=donodion post=31038694] my sister but its true na. Some men marry only daughters of rich men or women.knowing fully well even if they end up as hand bag carrier for their oshopeypey babe,naira still go dey rain. Same as some marry simply cos "one of the babe on the line" got pregnant.I have of example of one in my church then. Hes got this beautiful sister who was still in uni then while he was working for then NEPA. Somehow his ex flew in from UK and sought to "catch up on old times"( and the ex was no match in terms of beauty with the one in naija).it took only one nite of unprotected sex....thats all. The lady in church then nearly committed suicide as the preg lady insist she was not aborting. It wasnt a small fight o.Family inclusive.The bobo begged tire.Anyway he and his akata wife like play like play have 4 kids now. so you see,people marry for various reasons not even necessarily for love.[/quote True dat. ] |
Re: My Boyfriend Said Am Not A Wife Material, Plus Our Chat Pics by Neplusultra(f): 2:36pm On Feb 24, 2015 |
donodion:True dat |
Re: My Boyfriend Said Am Not A Wife Material, Plus Our Chat Pics by madeinnigeria: 2:49pm On Feb 24, 2015 |
sweetcocoa:. But how do you know she's not a wife material? Because of all he listed? Is that what makes a woman? Is that what makes a good wife? Is it house chores that makes a marriage work? The laying of bed is definitely her fault cos she should learn to sleep in her own house with her legs closed...some guys see ladies as some kind of product with the manual in a box where u just read out the functions and off she goes...obviously the guy feels he's some kind of limited editon that's why he has d ballz to say such things...when the girl gets someone better than him that's when he starts going around telling ppl d girl was proud not knowing he's a semi- narcissist 2 Likes |
Re: My Boyfriend Said Am Not A Wife Material, Plus Our Chat Pics by adigun002(m): 2:49pm On Feb 24, 2015 |
If a guy can tell you this, he definitely wants you to change.... Besides bringing the mata it here is a 1 Like |
Re: My Boyfriend Said Am Not A Wife Material, Plus Our Chat Pics by adigun002(m): 3:08pm On Feb 24, 2015 |
classicB: if you're not lazy, show him! And you will have a MARVELOUS relationship.. Peace. |
Re: My Boyfriend Said Am Not A Wife Material, Plus Our Chat Pics by Nobody: 3:51pm On Feb 24, 2015 |
Hmm 11 pages and still counting , they have said all that is to be said , no need writing again, op a word is enough for the wise. |
Re: My Boyfriend Said Am Not A Wife Material, Plus Our Chat Pics by MercyMercy(f): 4:35pm On Feb 24, 2015 |
really dear,you just have to change. Like he rightly said,all these little things counts. |
Re: My Boyfriend Said Am Not A Wife Material, Plus Our Chat Pics by TopsugarIce(m): 4:40pm On Feb 24, 2015 |
MAY GOD NEVER LET ME SEE THIS KIND OF WOMAN (ClassicB). Amen 1 Like |
Re: My Boyfriend Said Am Not A Wife Material, Plus Our Chat Pics by Nobody: 4:47pm On Feb 24, 2015 |
after reading the comments on the first page I've come to the conclusion that we still have a lot of sensible girls on NL. lot of wife materials here too. now I can confidently say I don't mind marrying a girl from NL... ![]() 1 Like |
Re: My Boyfriend Said Am Not A Wife Material, Plus Our Chat Pics by iiiyyyk(m): 5:17pm On Feb 24, 2015 |
madeinnigeria: Can u tell us how to know a wife material? |
Re: My Boyfriend Said Am Not A Wife Material, Plus Our Chat Pics by iiiyyyk(m): 5:29pm On Feb 24, 2015 |
CONCLUTION. @ OP, Since 99% of comments on your tread said u are wrong. Truth be told in the sight of God u are wrong. What then is the essence of dating and courting? Is it just to sleep with him? 1 Like |
Re: My Boyfriend Said Am Not A Wife Material, Plus Our Chat Pics by sweetcocoa(f): 5:37pm On Feb 24, 2015 |
madeinnigeria:You are obviously not seeing the point I'm trying to make, so I leave you be. |
Re: My Boyfriend Said Am Not A Wife Material, Plus Our Chat Pics by madeinnigeria: 6:08pm On Feb 24, 2015 |
iiiyyyk:is there anything like wife material? Is it not a word ppl invented to demoralize ladies? Nobody knows who is perfect or the best for marriage its the intention of both parties that matter (whether they wanna live happily ever after or happily ever nagging) |
Re: My Boyfriend Said Am Not A Wife Material, Plus Our Chat Pics by madeinnigeria: 6:13pm On Feb 24, 2015 |
sweetcocoa:you are a very intelligent lady others would have tried to insult during the course of our discussion but u neva did. Dats very strange on here |
Re: My Boyfriend Said Am Not A Wife Material, Plus Our Chat Pics by sweetcocoa(f): 6:33pm On Feb 24, 2015 |
madeinnigeria:Lol, maturity has caught up with me, I guess ![]() 1 Like |
Re: My Boyfriend Said Am Not A Wife Material, Plus Our Chat Pics by naijaboiy: 7:04pm On Feb 24, 2015 |
This Op Yaff suffered today ![]() See bashing from left right and centre ![]() ![]() |
Re: My Boyfriend Said Am Not A Wife Material, Plus Our Chat Pics by Bamz(m): 7:18pm On Feb 24, 2015 |
iPopAlomo: Meanest post ever ![]() |
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