Does the guy you are dating have long-term potential? In general, women tend to rely on words, wheras men rely on action, so when men speak sweetly to the women, they believe them, even if the don't behave accordingly. Men, on the other hand see how women behave, and interpret the behaviour to mean what they want to believe, regardless of what the woman says. So, if you say you don't love him, but continue to have s*x with him, all your words are in vain, he interprete your action and draw his own conclusions.
The discrepancy between words and behaviour is especially problematic in marriage-bound relationship, so, watch out if your man is one of these five types.

1. The "help me until I'm ready" guy.
The "need help" guy is totally entrenched in his own insecurities. He only talks about his own problem and never yours. But he wants a lady by his side because he makes him feel worthy. So, he keeps her there by asking her to help him until "he's ready". But guess what: He'll never be ready, and so, he's not husband material.

2. The "dare to discuss marriage" guy.
Since he knows women believe in words not actions, he dare talk about marriage and future plans with you, knowing it's what you want to hear. But that's all he'll do, no further action is ever taken. There is never a time frame for actions; actions are even never discussed, and if they come up, the conversations suddenly goes in different directions.

3. The "be my guest and discuss marriage" guy.
This guy let you do all the talking about marriage you like. He knows you dream about it, he listen to you discuss it in great details- wher your home will be, what kind of furniture you will buy, what kind of wedding you want, and when you asked him about dreams, he says, "Whatever you want honeyembarassed". Look at his action if there aren't any, if he's all talk, he's not husband material guy.

4. The "bear with me" guy.
He finds nice, logical excuses that seem acceptable. You know, you can't take action now because he's busy with his carrer, or his weight loss, or he's parents nead. You name it, and the statement is "bear with me". Undecided.

5. The "let's have fun first" guy.
He sticks around for the thrill of the game. When the fun is out, he's unto a new adventure and new thrill. He's not here for future plans or kids or family or even settling down and confinding in one woman. He wants and talks about fun and s*x. Whenever you talk marriage, the face changes, the fun ends, and the statement he repeats his, "You are spoiling the moment", Hoping you'll eventually drop the subject. If you don't, soon he'll be out and about for another thrill.
This hoes diggers ain't loyal.

Another thread on an already over-discussed topic




OP, PLEASE GO TO MARS AND GET US SOMETHING NEW....

I see this write up a lot. The only different thing is the writer/moniker/Op

Why can't we have fun first? Why must she spoil the moment?

OP, you are a guy? Why?? Yes, why??

This topic has made FP numerous time, so try again.....

brains are seriously needed here!

So Op, which category you dey? Oya tell us how to be Husband materials.