Being single is fun, being single is no holds barred freedom. Freedom from what? Well, freedom to chart your course and steer your ship (life) wherever you want to go.

Freedom to live your life with only one person who you are still trying to understand (You). Once you get married, you would have to put your husband/wife and or kids into consideration before taking any major decision.

Freedom to chase prosperity with every fibre of your being, freedom to "starve" if need be, till your business venture is capable of catering for your every need.

Freedom to be a better you. (This one doesn't have a deadline, you'll keep working on yourself and tweaking it till you kick the bucket) you might as well start now.

One can do all this things and even more when he is married, with understanding and support from your spouse. But you would agree with me that marriage comes with its added load of responsibility (It also has its good side) lots of it.

So if you are still single by now please relax, it is a very good thing. Now you have the time to pursue your career with vigor, you have the time and resources to start up a viable business and gradually transform it into a full blown money making machine.

Now is the time for you to have a complete understanding of yourself, your strengths, weaknesses and flaws. Then work towards increasing your strengths, so your weaknesses can die a natural death from neglect.

Because once you get married, those flaws would be magnified. It won't be you alone in the house bro, now you've got a Missus living with you PERMANENTLY, Plus a bunch of noisy kids scampering around the house making a ruckus.

Enjoy your sweet freedom now, do not rush into marriage.

The same goes for the ladies, don't fret if your childhood bestie got married last weekend. You are two completely different people, her journey through life will not be the same as yours.

Work on your self, work on your finances, work on your career and finally work on your relationship with God.

Enjoy your single life guys, do not, I repeat DO NOT rush into marriage because others are getting married. When it is time, it will happen.

Peace and love!

Wait

ok

Op how bout @ 40...any lady who is up to 40 and not married I call her "bros". make hay while the sun shines...thank you

good

Hopefully you do get the thrust of the 'argument' presented, marriage really shouldn't be much of an issue.

iphanyiuma:
Op how bout @ 40...any lady who is up to 40 and not married I call her "bros". make hay while the sun shines...thank you

Que sera sera

No need to stress about these things.

StunnazJay:
Hopefully you do get the thrust of the 'argument' presented, marriage really shouldn't be much of an issue.

you're right

StunnazJay:
Being single is fun, being single is no holds barred freedom. Freedom from what? Well, freedom to chart your course and steer your ship (life) wherever you want to go.

Freedom to live your life with only one person who you are still trying to understand (You). Once you get married, you would have to put your husband/wife and or kids into consideration before taking any major decision.

Freedom to chase prosperity with every fibre of your being, freedom to "starve" if need be, till your business venture is capable of catering for your every need.

Freedom to be a better you. (This one doesn't have a deadline, you'll keep working on yourself and tweaking it till you kick the bucket) you might as well start now.

One can do all this things and even more when he is married, with understanding and support from your spouse. But you would agree with me that marriage comes with its added load of responsibility (It also has its good side) lots of it.

So if you are still single by now please relax, it is a very good thing. Now you have the time to pursue your career with vigor, you have the time and resources to start up a viable business and gradually transform it into a full blown money making machine.

Now is the time for you to have a complete understanding of yourself, your strengths, weaknesses and flaws. Then work towards increasing your strengths, so your weaknesses can die a natural death from neglect.

Because once you get married, those flaws would be magnified. It won't be you alone in the house bro, now you've got a Missus living with you PERMANENTLY, Plus a bunch of noisy kids scampering around the house making a ruckus.

Enjoy your sweet freedom now, do not rush into marriage.

The same goes for the ladies, don't fret if your childhood bestie got married last weekend. You are two completely different people, her journey through life will not be the same as yours.

Work on your self, work on your finances, work on your career and finally work on your relationship with God.

Enjoy your single life guys, do not, I repeat DO NOT rush into marriage because others are getting married. When it is time, it will happen.

Peace and love!

One bottle of jack daniels for you!