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Re: Would You Marry A Man You Can't Trust? by maclatunji: 4:13pm On Mar 05, 2015 |
chaircover: Abi. Thanks for the input, you see some rivalries between spouses and you're like: did you guys get married at gun point and like Ewuro wrote: you are still going to make love? #Incredible 1 Like |
Re: Would You Marry A Man You Can't Trust? by Ewuro4: 4:16pm On Mar 05, 2015 |
Mac Yes. and Thank God you brought it up. I hope they learn before it's too late. Most African men will resort to domestic violence (that's what they know best), oyinbo man will serve you divorce papers in the parking lot. @your last quote; Preach! Have a great day. 1 Like |
Re: Would You Marry A Man You Can't Trust? by natureblack(m): 4:44pm On Mar 05, 2015 |
chaircover:I agree with you. We're never so vulnerable than when we trust someone-but paradoxically,if we cannot trust,neither can we find love or joy. |
Re: Would You Marry A Man You Can't Trust? by Evina(f): 5:06pm On Mar 05, 2015 |
Wow! This is a fantastic thread! Ewuro4, great insight! 1 Like |
Re: Would You Marry A Man You Can't Trust? by greatgod2012(f): 5:29pm On Mar 05, 2015 |
maclatunji: thank you! Power tussle in marriage...............beginning of violence and divorce. Arguement in the presence of the kids............nowonder many youths today are naturally violent and believes that everything should be by violence. What happens to effective communication, without raising of voice, without sentiment and without blackmail. This life is easy jare but for those who take it easy. Anyone that makes mistake is for lesson for such a person. Ewuro4, i love your points. More wisdom. 2 Likes |
Re: Would You Marry A Man You Can't Trust? by Nobody: 2:06pm On Mar 07, 2015 |
greatgod2012: Completely agree. |
Re: Would You Marry A Man You Can't Trust? by TooNoisy(f): 2:15pm On Mar 07, 2015 |
greatgod2012: Standing ovation for you ma 1 Like |
Re: Would You Marry A Man You Can't Trust? by TooNoisy(f): 2:17pm On Mar 07, 2015 |
cococandy: You are becoming dumber and dumber with every post 2 Likes |
Re: Would You Marry A Man You Can't Trust? by TooNoisy(f): 2:19pm On Mar 07, 2015 |
freecocoa: Don't you think your above post is contradictory? Men are more desperate for marriage but women are under a lot of pressure to marry? 1 Like |
Re: Would You Marry A Man You Can't Trust? by TooNoisy(f): 2:20pm On Mar 07, 2015 |
Ewuro4: You will live long. 2 Likes |
Re: Would You Marry A Man You Can't Trust? by TooNoisy(f): 2:23pm On Mar 07, 2015 |
babyosisi: Why are you so dumb. At your age, you reason like a toddler. 4 Likes |
Re: Would You Marry A Man You Can't Trust? by crackhaus: 9:44am On Mar 08, 2015 |
freecocoa: |
Re: Would You Marry A Man You Can't Trust? by Nobody: 9:48am On Mar 08, 2015 |
[quote author=crackhaus post=31414690][/quote] Buhahaha Badt guy. Over sabi dey cause contradiction. |
Re: Would You Marry A Man You Can't Trust? by MMotimo: 3:00am On Mar 09, 2015 |
I am trying to understand the opening post. I feel like it is suggesting that men are/should be the decision makers in the home and it's asking if the wife would fall in line or not? Or maybe I'm reading it wrong? To answer the questions, no, I would not marry someone whose decision making I could not trust but if they were willing to listen to my input on decision making and willing to consider my decision/stance objectively, I could still marry that person. Dictators of any kind don't last long in my life, I am prone to rebel against such people and would never have married one. Backgrounds also come into play here, my Mom made major decisions all the time without permission, she just did what felt right. My parents were not the type to decide which school you went into or course in university (exception being primary and secondary school) and not the type to dash around with how to get you in, you sank or swam on your own ability. I started making life decisions for myself before I left secondary school - which university, what course, which JAMB school, job, what I wanted in a spouse/ whom to marry, when to leave the country, etc. I do my research well ahead of major decisions and I can humbly say they have been relatively solid decisions without regrets. As a result, my decision making for the household (including finances) is highly respected by my spouse because he knows I do my research, the household's overall good is always my priority and frankly, it takes the pressure off him. I just make sure I have his buy in - which is almost always guaranteed. 2 Likes |
Re: Would You Marry A Man You Can't Trust? by freecocoa(f): 3:07pm On Mar 09, 2015 |
[quote author=crackhaus post=31414690][/quote]Your point? |
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